Establish life goals early

Set goals early

There are two couples with two children. When the child is still young, the parents decide to raise a puppy for them. After the dog is back, they ask friends to help. During the first training, the dog trainer asked: What is the goal of the puppy? The couple looked at each other and was very surprised: "The goal of a puppy is to be a puppy." I can't think of any other goals for the puppy. The dog trainer shook his head seriously and said: "Every puppy has a goal." The couple established a goal for the puppy after the discussion: play with the children during the day and watch the house at night. Later the puppy was successfully trained as a friend of the child and the patron saint of the family. The couple are former US Vice President Geer and his wife. They have firmly remembered this sentence. Being a dog has goals, let alone being a person.

We often regard the expectations of others as our goals. When you are a child, this is almost a matter of course, but you will grow up, no matter how beautiful others expect, he does not belong to you. Unless one day, you successfully transplanted this expectation in your own heart, this expectation takes root and grows into your own goal.

We often regard the flow of the world as our goal. This time, advocating money, you will regard money as your goal. You don't know that money is a means, not a goal. After you have money, things are far from over. Taking money as a goal is to use the leaf as the root. The goal is the ultimate synonym. It hangs in the sand of life. You sail to it, but never arrive. Your happiness flows through this journey, not by taking your own goals. In this sense, money does not qualify for the ultimate goal. After a while, you will make beautiful storage beauty a goal. You don't know the standard of beauty is different, beauty can be changed, the goal is relatively constant, what do you have to do after beauty? Beauty will fade, but the goal will always be bright.

Some people regard happiness and happiness as the ultimate goal. I think this is also worthy of scrutiny. Happiness is not just a pleasure, just the instinct of eating and breeding. Scientists have found through research that the longest and most lasting happiness comes from the expression of your self-worth. There is no doubt that self-worth is subordinate to your goal, and what value does a person with no goal have?

It’s better to be famous early, and to set goals more early.