The husband has no regrets and takes care of his wife for 15 years. Qixi wrote "Qi Xi Love Letter" for him.

The wife was sick for 15 years, and the family owed more than 280,000 yuan in foreign debts. On the "Chinese Valentine's Day", the introverted husband wrote a "love letter" and told his wife, "You live a day, the children have a mother, and borrow money from others to work in the future." Slowly. You are my wife, I should take care of you, not treat you, not only jokes, but I look down on myself."

Why is the "Chinese Valentine's Day" as the Valentine's Day of China, is it intended to give the implicit Chinese a chance to express love?

"Even if you have a lifelong disability, I am willing to take care of you forever." This is a "Chinese Valentine's Day Love Letter" written by a farmer in Sherongkou Village, Longyan County.

Four days after the marriage, his wife began to seek medical treatment. It has been 15 years since then, and the family owes more than 280,000 yuan in debt. When the disease still needs treatment, how much it costs, no one knows. In the "love letter" he told his wife, "Don't worry about me, you are my wife, I should take care of you, not treat you, not only others, but I look down on myself..."

1. Living in Dongwenli: working and accompanying a wife

On the afternoon of August 12, Dongwen Li was kept in front of his wife's bed as usual. After a small sigh, the wife slowly opened her eyes, and Dong Wenli took out her mobile phone and showed it to her.

The Fourth Hospital of the province is located in the East Courtyard of Shijiazhuang Development Zone. There are two large pools of lotus flowers in the yard. The flowers are opened. Dong Wenli took a mobile phone and photographed it. His wife Hao Lizhen looked and nodded. There was a smile on the face covered by the big mask. .

Watching his wife smile, Dong Wenli’s heart is temporarily looser. This time, my wife has been hospitalized for more than 20 days. It is still difficult for her to speak. She is anxious, annoyed, rarely laughing, and sometimes silently shed tears.

Dong Wenli did not know the infusion, the wife can recover what it is, the only thing he can do is to stay with his wife, accompany her, find ways to make her happy, and decompress her.

Since 1999, Hao Lizhen has detected the malignant lymphoma of the disease. She has been hospitalized twice for a long time. She has spent more than 400,000 yuan and owed more than 280,000 yuan in debt. "The relatives and friends have helped, and the most borrowed 30,000. Five, the least borrowed 2,000 yuan."

This kind of life is not what Dong Wenli expects, but he has to get used to it, and he has been silently groaning, no complaints, and never thought about giving up. "She is my wife, she lives for a day, the children have a mother, borrowing someone else's money to work slowly in the future." The wife finished a course of chemotherapy, and was discharged from the hospital for more than ten days. Dong Wenli went out to work. Earn some money, borrow some money, and prepare for the next hospital stay.

2, set a kiss with her, she has to swear, I have to marry her

Dong Wenli and Hao Lizhen were introduced in 1997. In the first few months of the wedding in 1998, Hao Lizhen had been suffering from scorpion pain. He was not cured at the clinic near his home. The enthusiastic neighbor advised Dong Wenli. Let’s get married again and see if it’s a cure.”

Dong Wenli refused the good intentions of the good-hearted people. "With her, I have to marry her. I have to marry her." On the sixth day of the lunar month, the wedding was held as scheduled.

Four days after the marriage, Hao Lizhen’s nephew has been sore that the water can’t swallow. I have been treated in some clinics for more than a month, with some relief, but not cured.

"We went to Shijiazhuang again and did an examination in two hospitals. Finally, the hospital in the fourth hospital confirmed that she had a malignant lymphoma." From March to June 1999, after the radiotherapy in the fourth hospital of the province was cured, Hao Lizhen went home to maintain the drug. .

This hospitalization took all the savings at home. During the day, Dong Wenli gave the village's bricklayer a small job. In the evening, the wife after the radiotherapy was uncomfortable. He gave her a massage, and his wife slept peacefully. Dong Wenli also stumbled and slept next to him. Fortunately, after leaving the hospital, Hao Lizhen was in a stable state. During the review, the doctor said that there was no problem in giving birth to a child. In 2006, her daughter’s birth cleared all the haze that the disease had brought to her. She watched her daughter grow up a little and their life became more and more taste.

3, living in the hospital for more than a year, used to lay a foam board to sleep on the ground

"I can't figure out why, when I always look forward to the future, my life has poured a cold water on me?" In 2019, Hao Lizhen was pregnant again, during which the skin of the right calf was darker, and the left leg was behind the thigh. There are hard blocks.

Did not dare to use drugs during pregnancy, wait for the child to be born, go to the hospital for a check, tumor recurrence, after the expert consultation, in March 2019, Hao Lizhen was hospitalized again, until now.

"I sleep for four or five hours a day, she can't sleep when she infusions all night." Dong Wenli used to put on a foam board at night, sleeping on the ground of the hospital, and the bed at home was far away from him.

During the day, Hao Lizhen felt bad about him, let him sleep on the bed for a while, he could not bear, "I told her to talk, save her delusion."

In the ward, she infused, he told her something new, talk about the child, talk about the recent situation at home. "She was annoyed, she pushed my hand, and I stopped." "The bed is lying for a long time, who is not bothered? Her temper is actually very good, and people are filial." This year's lunar calendar, Dong Wenli My father was hospitalized. "My brothers are four. My brothers looked after me. I didn't go back. I was holding her. Later, she knew, let my father-in-law come to the hospital to accompany her and urge me to go back."

4, do not treat his wife, I personally look down on myself

The wife was ill for 14 or 45 years. Dong Wenli never thought about giving up treatment. My friends sometimes felt bad about him and said, "In the future, when she leaves, you will have a debt." He will stop it immediately. Never thought about her "going away".

To be honest, Dong Wenli didn't dare to think that he didn't dare to sleep too much at night, but she didn't hear him call her.

The hospital has issued two critical notices. "When you sign, you shake your hands." In the corner of no one, he shed tears, walked into the ward, looked at his wife, and he did not happen like anything.

Hao Lizhen's throat was so painful that she couldn't talk. Sometimes she was famous. Dong Wenli couldn't understand it. She was in a hurry. Later, he put paper and pen on her pillow and wrote something down.

"I was tired of you, and I was tired of the whole family." Dong Wenli pointed at the words on the paper. "She always said, howling, she is my wife."

Below the wife's sentence, Dong Wenli wrote three words "Don't say it." Every time Hao Lizhen mentions "continuously" and "abandons", the honest Dongwen ceremony always says "Don't say it."

"I won't say anything about it. In fact, I love her very much. As long as I am alive, I can still do it. I will not give up her." Dong Wenli did not think about the vows, seeing "Chinese Valentine's Day" from the mobile phone is China. On Valentine's Day, he had the idea of ​​writing a letter to his wife.

"I have never written a love letter," Dong Wenli whispered, very shy. "It is not a love letter. I will recite her things over the years and let him know what I think in my heart. She Don't think about it in your heart."

In the letter to the Middle East, I wrote that "even if you have a lifelong disability, I am willing to take care of you forever." Not all couples can suffer together and never give up, but Dong Wenli did not feel how great he was. He said in his letter, " Don't be afraid of me, you are my wife, I should take care of you, not treat you, not only jokes, but I look down on myself..."