How to treat tribulations

How to treat tribulations

She is a small and famous movie star and is receiving a TV interview. In the face of various questions from the moderator, she answered the questions. From childhood dreams to today's successes, from personal emotions to living conditions, from performing arts skills to personal perceptions, from fans, winter powder to gratitude, she talks in an orderly and vivid manner. When the moderator mentioned that "perhaps every success has paid for the hardships that people can hardly see," she was silent first, and then tears could not be suppressed.

She is a "Northern drifting" family, with thousands of dollars saved by her parents, she came to the metropolis to find her dreams. The two grand performance halls, the Film Academy and the Drama Academy, were eliminated after the initial test. But she did not give up, learning while looking for opportunities. Unrecognizable, she can only live in a crowded, narrow basement, in the daytime to find out, where there is a crew, at night, go to a performance training class to learn. When the money is spent, she is embarrassed to ask for help at home. She goes to a certain crew to work part-time, earn some expenses, and also carries out the tricks of stealing others.

After two years, she had suffered a lot and had thought about retreating, but her strong perseverance supported her to persist.

Later, when she was working in the crew, she finally got a small role in running the dragon. Although there were only a few lines, there was a chance to show her face. This "showing face" brought her good luck, and the director took the initiative to find her supporting role. As the opportunity increased, she gradually became famous. A few years later, she finally had the opportunity to star in the women's second, and it became more and more red.

After recalling this experience, she said with emotion that people only see the scenery of the stars, but they do not know how much "suffering" and "hardship" behind the aura. She said that it is just not in the schedule, ready to go home to visit her parents, and also take a rest and adjust.

When I got home and chatted with my parents about this interview, my father said that I had seen it but didn't like her daughter's performance. She asked her father: "You don't think that I am making a show like some people?"

The father said: "Of course not, but I think you are a little fuss."

She was very surprised. "Isn't that what I said?"

The father said: "I didn't think so. I just thought it was a bit bitter."

She was very convinced and asked her father to explain the words.

The father called her to the window and looked at the construction site not far away and asked her: "Do you know how long the migrant workers have to work for a day? Do you know where they live? Do you know how much they earned in a month? ?"

She was silent there. My father was quite excited: "Then I tell you that they work more than 10 hours a day. They live in a simple room and eat a big pot of rice. The income per month is only about one thousand yuan. They suffer hard, they are tired, never Hanging on your lips, they get only a fraction of your return. Compared with these people, what more can you sigh? You get far more than you pay!"

Later, she was still interviewed, but rarely mentioned herself, the bitterness she had eaten, and more, expressed a grateful and optimistic attitude towards life.

Many people, in many cases, always feel that they have experienced hardships and suffered much more than others, but they rarely think that more people have paid more hard work and hard work, but only got a little bit of it. s return. Having a grateful heart, not complaining or not arrogant, is an optimistic attitude towards life.

So how do you call it a hardship? That is tormented in the difficult and difficult times. Tagore said: Good times, good adversity, life is an endless struggle against all kinds of difficulties, a struggle against the enemy. In this world, there are not many things as good as they are, we are alive and alive. We can only accommodate the actual environment in which we live, and be patient with everything.

I don’t know how tough, how tough, how to see the rainbow without wind and rain! Suddenly, an inexplicable force surged in my heart. Yes, the East is not bright and the West is bright.

A person has only one life, and it is a lifetime.

Fighting together, quite a bit, standing up straight, is also a lifetime.

That being the case, why don't we fight for it?

The value of life lies in affirming life. Only the sails that evoke life, the trials of suffering and suffering can overcome all the pains. Only in the struggle of pain can we realize the joy of life.

Life, never give up. Accept the suffering in life and let it give us the power to create heaven! This is my advice to everyone.