Be a sly character in your life

We don’t have a long life, we have to learn to love ourselves.

I love myself, not to pamper myself, but to hone myself, to forge myself, to be a sword of the king who broke the ground, rather than letting myself be "sold" like a pile of broken iron.

Life is short, why not inspirational. Recently, I read Mr. Li Weiwen’s book “Small to yourself, closer to success”, and let yourself “sense” follow the “eyeball” to encourage you.

The most impressive thing about this book is that once, the international superstar Jackie Chan started to work as an apprentice, and made an exception to a female disciple. Under the eyes of ordinary people, girls can’t eat hard, and they are not good at “playing”. To accept her. It turned out that when everyone was training and filming was very exhausting, the female disciple was always energetic and radiant. She wanted a tired and unbeaten person. She always gave this state and naturally infected many people around her. Of course, it also "infected" Jackie Chan. The name of this female disciple is Xu Dongmei.

There is a small piece that says women must be jealous of themselves. However, Xu Dongmei's method of swearing at himself is different from others. Others are embodied in “spending money” and “luxury of life”, while Xu Dongmei is the soul of “spending time” and “luxury”.

Life is a different kind of script. It is not a court drama, nor a lyrical youth idol drama. It is not a comedy. On the contrary, it is more like a "bitter drama". Instead of blindly expressing grievances and earning people's attention, they use frustration to accumulate their own heights and earn others' attention. The person who does this is the embarrassing role of life, and will be his own protagonist, instead of being held in the nose by complaints and humiliation.

It’s not “stupid” to be the “squatting character” of your own life script. Most of the people who are “stupid” are “stupid.” We have to be a “smart person”, and “狠” has a bone, “狠"You have to be strong, and you have to be "squatting" to have a goal: know why you are "frustrated."

I saw a story like this: A psychologist found that in a nursing home, the festival has a much lower mortality rate than usual. Many people don't understand why, through investigation, they know that almost all the elderly are always looking forward to festivals such as Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, National Day, etc., in order to wait for such happy days. They will find ways to hold themselves. It turned out that it was because of the existence of such a goal that these old people were "firm".

In fact, there are many times when you hold on, it means everything. Live a misfortune, live your opponent, live your self-esteem in your heart, and you will be strong. If you are nirvana, you will be invincible.

If you look at yourself, the trajectory of life will be deeper, and the glorious impression left on the world will be more vivid. If you are alive, what about your own?