In fact, you don’t have so many viewers.

A friend told me: When I was fat, I found out that I didn't dare to look up and walk. Now I dare to look up and walk, and I am afraid that other people's whispers are talking about me.

My friend is not ugly, just a little fat, and now there are some spots on his face, so he is very unconfident. I told him: In fact, you don't have so many audiences, you are not a star, no one will have nothing to pay attention to you, and your life is not a crotch, no one else has to put any fart you have to suffer.

However, many people's self-confidence and inferiority come from the outside world's perception of themselves. They can be narcissistic for a long time because of a compliment from others, or they can feel inferior because of someone else's bad words. In fact, why bother, life is your own, what do I look like, what kind of clothes do I wear, how do I walk you in the way of walking, you haven’t given me a raise, I haven’t given a penny, so others think Let them say what to say, the vulgar point is to take your own path and let others say it.

Extreme conceit has become narcissism, and extreme narcissism is inferiority. Regardless of whether you are good or bad, you must be aware that you can be independent when you live, you can do it yourself, but you can't be self-pity.

Because of this, I thought of a test done by another friend. He chose ten people who thought he had a good relationship and ten people who had a good relationship. It was a little difficult to borrow money at home. But the result was very disappointing. In a good relationship, only one person took out the money, and the others were smashed, but four of the ten people in the relationship generally took out the money.

This shows what? Explain that a friend is actually not what you imagined. Not everyone will be obliged when you need help, or that if someone is not good, it will not help you. This society will ultimately look at people's hearts.

In fact, you don’t have so many viewers.

What does that mean? In other words, you are actually not so important at all. Your own problems still have to be solved by yourself. Who cares about you? Who will greet you when you have a problem? Rarely.

So even if the people around you are not your audience, then those who are not related will naturally not even be able to play.

Some words are easy to say, but things are not easy to do. Like my friend, I told him n times and still feel a little inferior. Perhaps this is also a kind of inferiority of human beings, a kind of guilty feeling brought from the bones.

You said that you have nothing to do with others. You can't control yourself. I wonder if you still manage yourself and still want to manage others. Not to mention other people you can manage? Therefore, people always like to do some useless work. It is clear that the result is useless. I like to do it. After I have done it, I have added a fire to myself. Why bother?

However, I have a friend who is very strong and has a big chest. Every time a man walks by, he will whistle and scream. Do you know how people do it? Immediately raise your head and look up: You are jealous, have never seen a chest. big? Do you want me to give you a nickname? This is not the sputum of silicone. It’s still very good.

I usually say that she is daring and not afraid of others really want to see? The sisters said directly: Look at it, now, which man has not seen the chest? Yeah, I have seen it even if I haven’t touched it.

What kind of attitude do you say this is?

There are many kinds of people, thousands of people, and behaviors are different, but one thing, no matter what, the end result is to be comfortable. You don't understand people in your world, you don't understand the world of others, so you are arrogant in your world, even if it's just a crab.

Indeed, you don't have so many viewers, and don't always take yourself seriously.