Don't think that you are smarter than others

People who think they are smart are often not hospice, and those who are truly wise and wise seem to be a bit "stupid" on the surface. Unbeaten in life, "cause" is not exposed.

Psychological research shows that people generally have a sense of self-superiority, and a person's behavior and emotions are often closely related to this superiority; once he realizes his ridiculous childishness or stupidity, the superiority will give himself a sense of superiority. A refreshing reward. On the contrary, the sense of superiority is due to the failure of self, and this failure is caused by the other party. Therefore, it will produce a kind of almost arbitrary and rude, and apply this kind of rudeness to each other through emotions and behaviors or language, even if it does not defeat the other party. No hate to stop.

So, this is a terrible dark field, however, it is so universal. As a human inferiority, it is like a ghost, entangled with human beings. We can't get used to this hateful guy, but there is no way to take it. Before that, we didn't even know its existence, even though in daily communication, we often felt that something was driving people's emotions. If we were not careful, it would pick up the other's anger and hate, worse. The reason is that sometimes we don't know what we are doing wrong, so we let the other person suddenly become cold to themselves.

The reason why we are so ignorant is that we ourselves are also committing the same problem: to be smart and to believe in ourselves too much. It is because of this problem that we often point out inadvertently by grasping each other's shortcomings or mistakes without any cover, and this greatly hurts the superiority of the other party's meticulous construction. Or, we often accidentally grab a place that shows that we are smart, and we can't wait to hope that the other person can notice my wisdom, and this undoubtedly makes his sense of superiority extremely dissatisfied. In fact, our "unintentional" is not really unintentional, but we are used to the indifference of "intentional" after "intentional". This "unintentional" is often the most profound "intentional".

John Warnerek once said: "Some people don't know that they always carry a magnifying glass with them. When they want it, they use it to see other people's imperfections." In fact, how "some people" are conservative Words, Warnermaker is too gentle to human society, so it seems so merciless. "Other people's imperfections" often give observers a superior sense of superiority, while at the same time forgetting that they also have the same imperfections. And when we see the talents of others and see the success of others, what we raise is not only jealousy, but even a resentment and disdain for him, when we see the screen. When we look at this kind of image, we scream at the bottom of our hearts, and at this time, we ridiculously identify ourselves.

"Your stupidity is his pride; your intelligence is his shame."