Don't be stupid, he just doesn't seem to work hard.

One of my friends in the past two days came to complain to me, saying that it is better to say that it is not convincing. She said that she has a girlfriend, two people are particularly close to each other or roommates, sticking together every day, regardless of eating or shopping, as long as her girlfriend screams, she will not hesitate to "get out." Usually, her girlfriend likes to watch Korean dramas. She is chasing after a bunch of Korean Ou Dad to live. She has been chatting with her after she recently fell in love with Song Zhongji. I asked her what happened, did you quarrel? Who knows how her face is indignant, "Where is the quarrel, I hope it is a quarrel." I said, what the hell are you doing? Then she told me that her girlfriend was pulling her shopping and chasing the drama every day. She felt that she was still more leisurely than her. She was not so stressed because she was very good. But recently she went to the school recruitment meeting with her girlfriend. She didn't find her favorite. Her work, but her girlfriends actually applied for several of them are smooth customs clearance, she feels very unconvinced, why she is better than her. Then she read her girlfriend's resume, can't believe it. Her girlfriend's resume has several internship experiences, as well as the certificate of the English national speech contest, including all kinds of IELTS computer accounting certificates. But she did not even have six levels.

I asked, then you are not convinced or envious of hatefulness~ She gnashed her teeth and said to her that she thinks that her girlfriend is a contrived, the surface is related to her, she is pulling her everywhere to go shopping, but she is secretly stealing. Studying secretly, and delaying her time, she is all right, it is simply knowing people knowing what to do. I feel that I understand it when I hear it here, hey, another "simple" child paper! Then I comforted her, nothing. If you go back, you will have to go to study. Test the cards for the exam and try to compare your girlfriends.

In fact, as I have encountered in my friend's situation, I also know that the problem is not that she is a girlfriend, the problem is her own. There are a lot of such partners around us. I always feel that a classmate who is playing around me suddenly becomes very strong, and I feel that I am being deceived. In fact, no one deceives anyone. You see that he is playing every day, but you don’t know how much planning you have when you can’t see it. People just don't seem to work hard, just in your opinion.

To be honest, I myself belong to such a person. It's not that we like to dress in front of people, but the difference in personal learning habits. For me, I don't like to study in the classroom. I don't like everyone saying that they have to learn when they are playing. I never go to the library to study. I only borrow books from the library to go back and see because our dormitory is better than The library is still quiet, I don't have to go to the library, but you don't see it all. When I am alone, I really feel that I am working very hard!

For a chestnut, I am not trying to force it here, just want to take it for everyone to understand. At the time of the first year of high school, we did not have a branch of science, that is, all nine disciplines must learn, and wait until the end of the first year of high school to reunite according to the test scores. At that time, I was really naughty. It was the sleeping god of our class. I didn’t know how to change the teacher in the middle of each class. At the beginning, my grades were also floating in the middle and lower reaches, but my score at the same table was much better than mine. Every time I go out to play with boys, every time I go to class, my buddies will say me, and urge me to study quickly, otherwise I will be miserable when I go to work. Then I usually belong to the kind of seemingly lacking mind, but in fact I feel that I am very rational, the key is that I know what I like to do and what to do.

My habit is that I like to sleep and play during the day. The more exciting I am at night, especially the atmosphere at night is really suitable for a person to study quietly for a few hours. Every time my roommates are sleeping, I will hold books and look at the corner of the stairs. When I am sleepy, I go to sleep. I usually go out shopping. The bookstore is a must. I like to read novels. I often watch classes on the desks, so often Said by the teacher.

It’s such a strange habit that the friends around me feel that I like to play especially. I don’t seem to like learning, a little lazy. Over time, they have become accustomed to me. I feel that I don't like learning. I talk about the inspirational topic and use my negative textbook to vomit. However, by the end of the placement test, my grade was the first in our class, and the only one in our class in the liberal arts class entered the top class. My friends were shocked when the results came out. I didn’t explain them. I just said that luck was good. But I know that I really worked hard, just in my own way, in a way that they "can't see".

So, don't think that the person around you is too lazy to learn, don't think that he is playing games all day long, and feel that he can find a "he is like me" excuse to make himself less hard. Then every time he sees him at a critical time, he can easily surpass you, or you think he is good at playing and how high IQ is! Why don't you know what people are doing when you are not there?

Don't be stupid, he just doesn't seem to work hard, that's it.