Are you eager to want more in your early twenties?

A few nights ago, I sat with my friend Ayong on the side of the road to have a barbecue. He said, I don't just want to be successful earlier. I have a car of my own, there are hundreds of thousands of small businesses, and then I have a face when I gather with other friends! In the future, I will find a business and find a partner. marry.

He had intended to continue to talk to me, but after a few seconds of pause, he picked up a bottle of beer and sipped it directly, only to hear the sound of snoring, as if he had a lot of words to say and still fall into his stomach. .

After listening to his troubles, I did not answer immediately. At that time, I was thinking in my heart, he was 19 years old, I was in her early twenties, but why are we so anxious to get everything? It is the age of struggle in the early 20s, unable to be thirty or forty with others. Compared with the old life.

Some people have struggled for more than ten years or even twenty or thirty years to get what they want, and when we first entered the society, we forced ourselves to quickly get the success of 30s and 40s, buy a car to buy a house, fame and fortune, and beloved. People travel all over the place.

I shouted aloud to Ayong, "What are you in a hurry, what is going on, there is a process, and even the experience of the process is not going to be rewarded. Why? I almost finished this sentence with a screaming tone. Then, I blamed myself, thinking in my heart, I said him, and I didn’t think so. I am also anxious, and I am worried that my mother will not be able to succeed.

Like you, I am always in a hurry on the road to growth. I am too anxious to make money too slowly. I am worried that love is coming too late. I always hope to succeed quickly. My friend Ayong and I spit out all his urgency. He analyzed his own urgency. It was because he wanted too much and wanted others to own it. Therefore, he also hoped that he would get it quickly and compare others.

A Yong said that now I have nothing but youth. I said that this is good, because youth is envied by many people who have not. Moreover, youth is the possibility of all opportunities.

To be honest, we always like to watch the beauty of others, and ignore others and envy what we have. We always like to label ourselves, define, and adjectives with others' lives, but we don't know that we have capital at the moment.

After eating the nightingale that night, I and A Yong sat on the river bank and blew. He told me about his dreams, and I also know his helplessness.

He is anxious because his family is not good and his life is not good. So he wants to pay for it quickly and wants to succeed early in life. Later, he asked why my temper was so urgent. Like his answer, I was worried that I would live a life that I don't like now and I am embarrassed.

He toasted and told me to clink. He said, come, to clink our dreams of real emptiness.

When the cups collided together, I suddenly felt that my dreams and his dreams were like the sound of the wine glasses at this moment, very loud, but after drinking the wine in the bottle, I returned to the void.

We are always anxious in our lives, especially those who are just in their early twenties. They are even more anxious to fear that they have not earned more money to buy a house, and that house prices continue to rise. They are afraid that they have not yet got rid of the current embarrassing situation. Sprinkled a cold water on himself; afraid of meeting a good love, but lost to reality for various reasons. Therefore, in order to get rid of these fears, we eagerly urge ourselves to succeed quickly and make more money.

Another college student, Zhang Long, went to work in Beijing on a construction site when he graduated. When he went, I asked, "I don't regret it," he said. "No regrets, a young man always has to go south. Take a look at it, and the four seas are a glimpse of the family. Even if you work hard in Beijing, it proves that you have worked hard for the life you want. When you have a child in the future, you can tell him proudly that your father used to be this family. Struggling."

After Zhang Long went to Beijing, I sent a QQ video to me. It was surrounded by high-rise buildings. He stood on a high-rise building under construction. He smiled at me with a bottle of wine. The monitor, you think I am hanging silk? I said it is a bit, but you are too cow, really went to Beijing alone. He told me again, actually you don't know, I am so lonely here, I want to go home. Zhang Long said this sentence, regardless of the existence of the surrounding workers, immediately burst into tears.

He cried and screamed at this terrible life. He said that he was almost deceived when he was looking for a job. He almost went to the streets and finally thought of spending the first night in Beijing at the police station.

In the end, a few months later, Zhang Long came back, which is what I expected. He called me and said that he still chose to go back to his hometown to find a job. He said that he went to Beijing not because of his dreams, but because of his impulsiveness, in order to give his youth an account. More importantly, he believes that Beijing will make more money, and earn a lot of money to return to his hometown to buy a house at the age of twenty-five.

You see, this is another example of success in the early twenties.

Whether it is in a big city or a small city, it is not easy. It’s just that we are asking too much for the young ourselves and want too much. This will only exhaust yourself. I always believe that efforts will be rewarded. As for the value of harvesting, it is how to work hard in the process of hard work.

When we are in our early twenties, don't think too fast to have too much life experience and success. In addition to our hard work, in addition to youth, in addition to dreams, nothing. No matter how hard and difficult it is to drink this wine, you have to close your eyes and stick to it.

In any case, I hope that young people don’t always think about the success of going to heaven. Everything has a process. It may be a step by step. What you want, if you pay, there will be, but time will give you a test. This test is the process of waiting for the harvest. In this process, if you can plan your time and live a better life, you will get a lot better in the future than you really want.