Don't complain, don't worry, stick to life

You tell me how good someone is, how good I am, I may not be interested, but I am interested in saying that she has a different trait. Because these are the things that can be learned. The most important thing to learn is not the success of others, but what little things she does not intermittently do.

Monroe, the Nobel laureate in literature, is just a housewife. When people start writing in middle age, she writes and writes every day. I have never stopped, four children at home, busy writing is a letter, and I don’t think I write much.

She said, "Life is trivial and broken, and writing is export. I have a certain amount of my own writing page every day, forcing myself to complete. This is related to age. People become forced to do certain things. I walked five kilometers a day. If I knew that there was a day I couldn’t go that much, I had to make it back at other times.” She said that this is actually protecting herself, and doing so will make you feel that if you follow With all the good rules and habits, there is nothing to beat you.

Whether she won the Nobel Prize, I don't care, I haven't seen her work before, but I really applaud her good habits.

Murakami Haruki is over half a year old, running long distances every day, rain or shine, never broken. He is just trying to exercise his endurance. He said that when running, you can do a lot of things, you can think, you can listen to music, you can relax aimlessly, you can breathe fresh air... He wrote "When you are running, what are you thinking about", I don't think I like the book on the village, but I appreciate the way he is. At a certain age, I know that people really need to insist on what they can do to "confront" life.

No one is born to be a strange thing, but they must have a good habit to make them look less unsuccessful. They have their own way of fighting the world and reconciling with life. This way is not to complain that it is not cynical, but to change itself quietly.

The famous writer Kafka was a small employee of a company for a lifetime, but this did not prevent him from becoming a writer. Kafka did not work as a staff member. He may write more, but he may write less and achieve nothing. So, where you are, it doesn't matter, it's just a personal brand. Only closed enterprises, no individuals who have closed down. Kafka is just a small staff member of An An. Amateurs do something they like, and they don’t interfere with each other. He doesn’t complain about not tangling, not blaming everyone, as if the whole world owes him.

I have seen a little thing mentioned by Mr. Cai Wei: He went to a restaurant to eat, saw a guy dressed as a clown, used a balloon to pull out a variety of animal patterns, and made every child who came to eat amused, Come once every week for one hour, once for 700 yuan. This is only his sideline business. The main business is to send the courier. Mr. Cai Wei asked him how he learned this trick. He smiled and said, self-study, buy a book for self-study, try several times, you can increase your income, and you can Happy, why not? Mr. Cai Wei admire. If he just complains that his aunt can't beat others, work too hard, and frown all day, how can his life be imagined. He has a way of "confronting" the world.

Mr. Mu Xin said that if you study a mahjong and persist in research for five years, you will be different. Try to try one thing? Fight against life, besides moving your mouth, find something else.

Another unremarkable thing, one of my friends said that her father looked particularly young, why? Take a cooked peanut every day after a meal, for decades. Peanuts, it's that simple, but you try to eat every day? Try to repeat the boring thing a thousand times.

A few days ago, a friend recommended me to watch Tan Yuanyuan’s ballet video. She said that she would look at this paragraph every morning when she got up and enjoy the feeling that the whole pore was awakened. I don’t know much about Tan Yuanyuan’s fame, but I remember her. A paragraph in an interview: "For example, if you take a rest for two days, but if you have more than two days, you will feel something wrong on the third day. Every day, the muscles will remember your movements and form a natural reaction. Once you stop, this muscle reaction is immediately weakened. So the hardest dance is not the action, it is day after day, repeating the actions that have been done countless times. That's all."