It’s better to struggle with young people than to envy them.

Instead of fighting for others to "envy and hate", it is better to fight hard with young people. I don’t want to go back, I can’t get back, I can’t get it.

Another graduation season. This year's graduation season seems to have more complaints. The practical difficulties of “employment difficulties”, “high housing prices” and “naked marriages” that faced graduation have indeed burdened contemporary youth with too much burden.

As a result, some people replayed the old tune of "born theory": "Birth decides the way out" and "work hard is better than fight"; some people advocate "reading uselessness": "It is better to learn well than to learn well", "learn how to do mathematics, it is better to have A good father"; even someone throws a "long-term theory": "The talents who look good have youth!" This has led countless netizens to follow suit, shouting "shot" and shouting "How painful this is!"

Youth, it should have been hard work, never give up, the so-called "ten years of drinking ice, difficult to cool blood", young is the capital of the charge. However, some remarks have tempted young people to surrender early, or to lie on their father's credit books, which is not a strange thing!

If you rely on the fight, Chen Jiageng can live comfortably and comfortably in his father's rice shop. Chen Jingrun can ask his father for a stable errand in the post office during the war years...

If you rely on the fight, Gan Xiangwei, who is a preserver, may only be able to lie in bed to be a big dream. The cotton mill worker Zhang Yimou may only be able to envy the movies of others after work.

But because these people have dreams, are not willing, and dare to fight, so life is different from this.

"If you always think that others seize the opportunity because of his social relationship, because the world is too dark, then I will definitely not be able to sit here in this life." Yu Minhong, president of New Oriental, said. There are always young people who complain that they don't have capital, relationships, and opportunities, but they don't want to reflect on whether they are wasting their time watching soap operas, brushing microblogs without nutrition, or "shopping" in Taobao or playing electric games. It’s not terrible to have a rich father. The terrible thing is to use this as an excuse to lose the courage and fighting spirit of hard work.

"Infinite scenery is at the peak." If you want to reach a certain height in life, you must withstand the wind and rain, hold back the pain and keep climbing. "Wen Wang deducted "Zhou Yi"; Zhong Nie made "Spring and Autumn"; Qu Yuan exiled, is the "Li Sao"; Zuo Qiu blind, there is "Mandarin." When suffering, often also the ability and skill to improve the fastest when. "Learning Wu does not practice, to the old one," the basic skills like Zama Step, the hardest to practice, and the best exercise. This kind of suffering, the middle-aged and the elderly can not afford, only young people can do it. Therefore, “bitterness” contains the most unique values ​​and opportunities for young people.

In other words, when it comes to "scraping", as long as it is not illegal, it is also human nature. Not only China, but also developed countries in Europe and America. "Parents' love sons are far-reaching." Children spend their parents' money, and parents use their social resources to help their children develop, and in which country they are reasonable. But as the saying goes, "Sit and eat the mountain, and eat and fall." Children who grow up with golden spoons, what they want, easy to slack off, if you don't think about progress, you will enjoy the fun, once you lose your shadow, "it will also die." The Chinese often say that "the rich are not three generations", the reason is here. "It is necessary to fight hard by itself." Through struggle, we can firmly hold our destiny in our hands.

"The grievances are too strong to prevent the intestines from breaking, and the winds should be long-sighted." Instead of fighting for others to "envy and hate", it is better to fight young and struggle. When I waited for the youth to break up, I regretted that I couldn’t get back and couldn’t get it.