Hello, let's work hard.

In the weeks leading up to my departure, I met people who took over my position. A 22-year-old girl, beautiful and beautiful, is a spoiled Beijing girl. She said that she had not worked in the country for six years. After graduation, she was at home and married a boyfriend who had been with her for a year. In her early twenties, she wants to do real estate business. She will spoil the 20% down payment from her home and buy a land of rich people. It is planned to build a mansion in half a year. It's as easy as it is to play.

I spent a few days with her. She looked at her without any work experience. When she met new problems, she always complained and began to understand. This week, five days a week, eight hours a day, ordinary people support the family. The work of the mouth is a long and bitter "bitter day" in her eyes.

When we talked about housing, she widened her eyes and said, "You don't have a house yet?" In her eyes, how could a 26-year-old have a house of his own? Why waste a good youth, go to work every day and get tired and still not ask for help parents?

Although I have been accustomed to the same kind of blows from my peers, my heart is still stinging.

I admire that she can get a huge sum from her family when she is spoiled, but I am also very proud that my account has saved 10,000 yuan in three years. That is how many mornings and late nights are taken to work, how many instant noodles are used to replace the delicious food, how many times of shopping and gathering time are used to write at home, so that it is so meager savings, that feeling, how How hard is it.

After graduating, I have been measuring my value in the simplest way: when I make a job and earn only 400 yuan a week, then I only have the value of 400 yuan; when I only wipe the table in the restaurant, I only wipe The value of the table; when I can teach Chinese, I have the value of the teacher; when I try to write and be recognized, I have more value for writing; when I put what I want in my heart When I move into life, my value allows me to have a bed, a bookshelf, a car...

And when I expect that others can't be realized immediately, I know that I must continue to work hard to make myself stronger. This step-by-step effort is, in my opinion, a step in life and a better way to be. The young people around can no longer value such quality. Everyone is drying the car, but no one has ever said: "Hey, let's work hard!"

I remember a very good friend. His father said to him: "I can support you. I have no problem in my life, but you must have a job that can support you in this life. You have to find the value of your existence."

So I saw friends in the wealthy family, still struggling like me. He said: "When I was young, I felt that my family was very rich and could do things that many people couldn't do, but trying to do this made me see so many people who are better than me but work harder than me. The harder you work, the more you work. Seeing the gap with others, the more you feel the difference, the more you want to work hard, and you are not willing to do the restless life."

Why should people work hard in their lives? Because the most painful thing, not failure, is what I could have.

I think, this life, instead of holding the "parents' wealth is enough for my life to squander" or "my husband is making a lot of money", it is better to try the taste of life in person, don't easily retreat in front of you, this time learn to say to yourself "I can do it".

You will find that the meaning of hard work makes you recognize yourself and let you see that you still have such a side - you can cross the heavy thorns, you can explode huge potential, you can not listen to the fate of the arrangement, it has become good person.