Don’t want to be spit on the sputum, then stand taller.

When you were a graduate student, there was a school-level student sister Z.

She is very beautiful, tall and temperament. When she opened the ceremony on the first day, she was conquered by her fluent and authentic British English. Now she feels that she is a model of beauty and talent.

Soon after the start of school, there are always a lot of gossip about Z in the classroom in the dining hall. Z is an art student. When I was able to enter Peking University, I was dependent on her father who was an official in Chongqing. She had the right to have money. The results of Z University were not particularly good. It was not because the principal liked her, she was After the household portal; Z live in a single room, we are all four people, she must have a leg with the dean; Z's eyes are outrageous, the nose is quite outrageous, how could it be born, certainly a cosmetic; Z this figure Can also be the head of the dance group, but also to participate in any Belgian dance competition, certainly depends on the relationship...

I can't bear to listen to the wind and the wind.

After about half of the semester, a large personal photography exhibition was held at the entrance of the cafeteria.

After going to lunch, the bustling crowd saw the name of Z Sister, her beautiful face, appearing on the first large poster. Behind it are a few of the photos she took, basically the documentary she traveled around Europe.

This time, the wind and the wind can no longer be whispering. In the crowd around, you can clearly hear all kinds of disdainful voices. "Is it so general, and I am also happy to do a personal photography exhibition?" "Not by the relationship with the principal. Can you run a film festival."

"Playing in Europe all day long, not to have money in your own home, Bai Fumei has something to be stunned"...

I didn't even read the photos and crowded out the crowd.

To put it bluntly, the theme of the photo is not the same as that of other professional film festivals, but it is definitely in the middle and upper level from the perspective of photography technology and later effects.

When I was eating, my mood was not very beautiful. After I went back to the road, I passed the yoga room. There was a very dynamic music coming out. I saw a few figures in the street dance and stopped to look at my eyes. The leader is Z Sister. She wore a red tight-fitting blouse and black wide-leg trousers, standing tall and ponytailed, handsome and aggressive. She shouted at the prompting words and leaped vigorously.

Her movements were the most indispensable among all, and the most desperate. When she finally made a one-handed rotation, her hands were soft and she fell to the ground.

Z sister was hurtingly, and the girls hurriedly went around. I could see the painful expression on her face in the mirror. After a while, she waved her hand and said, "Nothing is ok, it is estimated that there is no meal, it is a bit imaginary, you will continue, I will go to the break, just a little while."

One of the girls looked distressed and grotesque. "Z, don't be so hard again! You have enough injuries! Every time you are struggling, you don't want to be good! You have to be said that it is a relationship won! It is really mad!" ”

She smiled and said calmly: "How do you do what you do, and you can do better yourself."

I walked through a glass door and saw that her sweat was wet with her hair and sticking to her face. The face without makeup was beautiful with hibiscus, and there were scars and gauze everywhere.

I saw her taking a deep breath, sighing, rubbing her wrist and smiling at the mirror.

I also laughed.

Later, in a semester, I heard that Z Xuejie took the national college dance champion. She went to Beijing, Shanghai, and Hong Kong. She is still the darling of many magazines and media, but her description is no longer "Beibei Beauty" but "Photographer." There are still a lot of gossip, "Hey, family power has spread across the strait!"

Later, her graduation thesis took an excellent graduation thesis. In our college, where everyone graduated from ordinary graduation, they got excellent graduation thesis. It was just a matter of knocking and drumming for three days. There are still gossips. "It’s good to be beautiful. People can’t get excellent papers in class. We are still tired and tired of working.”

But it's less, because this article, from the topic to the research method to the argumentation to the conclusion, is perfect to the amazing paper, hanging on the school library home page where everyone can see.

Later, she went to the best investment bank in Hong Kong, and there was still a gossip. "Is she not a derivative class with 70 points? Can I go to the investment bank? It looks beautiful and related! I heard that his boyfriend is a Hong Kong. Rich people!"

But it’s less than before, because the school’s news clearly wrote “Z students who got the top investment bank brokers of XX and other offers, and gave them employment guidance lectures.” Boyfriends have more money and can’t manage eight. Is the investment bank around the world?

After Z Xuejie went to Hong Kong, we became familiar with each other because we paid attention to Weibo and WeChat.

I know that she works every night until midnight, and even sleeps directly in the office sofa several times; I know that she must go to the local area to study photography every weekend; I know that she has set up her own photography studio to record beautiful girls. And a good life; I know that she also learns guitar and practices flamenco dance; I know that she also used her personal influence to create a charity website; I know that her boyfriend is not the legendary Gao Fushuai, just a very ordinary Boy; I know that she is getting better every day, and her body is getting better and better. It is no longer the look of the Tang Dynasty who was ridiculed as a fat woman for a while; I know that she is married, and her wedding is full of happiness.

Z's sister's name is increasingly appearing in fashion magazines, photography magazines, and celebrity lists.

Until this time, those gossips seem to have completely disappeared. No one goes to say that some of the achievements she has made are based on the fact that the family depends on the relationship and the man depends on the relationship.

Because they know that Z has stood too much higher than them, and more gossip, and the spit has not sprayed her.

No one will express their embarrassment and unwillingness compared to their own excellent people. If there is, just because you are not far enough away from them, you are not standing tall enough.

This is what I learned from Z Sister.

Everyone who is a little better is not short of words. Because in this world, there are too many distorted souls that are better than others.

In the two years after the graduate student, I was not lacking in gossip. Project took the first place to say that I went to please the professor; the game won the award saying that I was going crazy; getting a good intern offer said that I was running away from the dog; my own business said that my family is a big money...

I have not been sad, nor have I to refute, I am only working harder and silently. Because I understand the words of Z’s sister, “Take them what they do, and do it better.”

Don't be upset, don't refute. What you should do is to do better.

It’s better to have such a voice than to have it. At least it means that you are better than some people. But at the same time, we are also alerting us, because we are not good enough, so someone will point.

When you are sprayed by a completely sloppy spit, and feel grievances and innocence, it is better to use accusations and helpless time, like Z Sister, to climb higher and laugh more beautifully.

People are embarrassed, unfair, and dissatisfied, often not because you are doing well enough, but because you are not good enough, the station is not high enough to make people look up.

You can try it. When you stand underneath and need to look up very hard to look up to others, you can't spray any star.

Sprayed, it will fall back to your face.