Inspirational speech: Looking for the direction of a successful life

Inspirational speech: Looking for the direction of a successful life

What is a professional skill? This is the quality of talents and the ability to do things. This ability includes several aspects:

The first is the ability to quickly learn and master knowledge. When you get to work, one day your supervisor brings you a project and asks you to program, but the specified programming language you have not studied before? How to do? You said to the boss: CEO, I will buy the book, I will be able to master the language completely after half a year, then I will start programming... If I am the boss, don’t blame the waste paper on your head, everyone is so nerdy. The company is going to drink the northwest wind? So once the project is available, you only have one week to familiarize yourself with the language. This is the ability to quickly learn and master knowledge. This ability is not to wait until after work. If you are competitive, then your competitiveness is too bad. This ability is what you have to learn during your college days. How do you master this ability? It is to practice those courses that have no practical value. It is irrelevant to fail the first experiment. You can make up the exam! When this ability is mastered, you can basically guess what exam questions will be given in this exam. Although the teacher of New Oriental has not recommended it so much, don't think that this is what I said indiscriminately, and there is no reference value. This is the recommended method recommended by Tang Jun, President of Microsoft China, during the North Post lecture.

Second, with active people, we must constantly look for the guidance of your personal trainer and form your own military division. This military division needs to be composed of people of different ages and people from different industries. Your life planning and career planning require their guidance to constantly correct your direction. Things are gathered together, people are divided into groups. As you progress, you will reach out and recognize the higher-level people. The communication with them is definitely worth more than the sum of a few friends and friends. Absolutely different experiences, absolutely different pleasures. Of course, you can't be a cloud, you need to digest and absorb to form your own unique views, not the same as everyone. There is a saying that if you want to excel, you have to be different.

Third, we must constantly adjust our knowledge structure, all for professional skills and services. If there is no course in the university to develop the skills you need, you need to find information to enrich yourself. Don't wait for the teacher to feed you. A lot of successful experiences and highly competitive skills are not fed out, but you need to find them in the vast ocean. In fact, you will find that 85% or more of the skills in the vocational skills are not taught in the university, you need to explore. If this exploration is planned, not a temporary cradle after work, you will definitely succeed. The vast majority of those who failed in the workplace did not realize this problem. Why do many people go down to a job fair and come back down? It is because the university only learns the course and does not fully develop its own abilities. In order to chase a MM that you admire, you will vote for what you want, and meet the requirements of MM for the Prince of BMW. You know that the current MM is more realistic, preferring BMW rather than white horse. The same is true for job hunting, and the employer naturally does not look at people who are too far apart from their own requirements. What does the employer require? Education is just a ticket to your interview. Most employers don't look at this, but most students mistakenly believe that academic qualifications are a key factor in determining whether they can be hired. What is the lack of student quality? Most students think that it is English and computer, but 5% of units hold this view. The unit needs to be practical and comprehensive, but only 12% of college students know this view, but 12% know but do not necessarily have this Quality. Therefore, in this society, college students are clamoring for job-seeking difficulties, and employers are complaining about finding people.

Fourth, constantly improve your interpersonal communication skills and leadership. This is a practical process, and the theory comes from reading. Improvement is a repetitive process, which at the same time improves your communication skills. And this is not in the university curriculum, and this ability can potentially express a kind of individual charm and self-confidence, giving people the feeling of affinity, this feeling will make you go around in social situations. In the end, the development of a person in any industry will be promoted to the status of management, because it will have greater value for the enterprise. Athletes are generally retired as coaches. After the programmer has experience, he is usually a project supervisor. In order to create more value by maximizing your potential, don't forget to enrich yourself and improve your team's ability and leadership. ability.

Team capacity is the most lacking in the Chinese. 12% of the units think that college students lack team spirit, but only 2% of college students realize that this is why? It is also caused by our education system, because academic education makes our so-called success, the honors obtained in the school are all obtained by single-handedness, and do not need team cooperation, so one Chinese is a dragon, three China People are worms. There is a CASE that makes me feel deeply, saying that four Chinese students have opened a Chinese restaurant in the block of American universities, but in fact there are already five restaurants opened by Thais, but you know that Chinese food is very popular in the West. Popular, so the Thai restaurant business is obviously not as good as the Chinese restaurant, the Thai people are very depressed, they are looking for a business consultation with Thai students for business consultation. After analysis, it is impossible to win the Chinese restaurant in terms of the taste of the dish. So the final solution is to recommend the customers of the Thai restaurant to the Chinese restaurant, so that the customers of the Chinese restaurant are full, but one year later. The Chinese restaurant has closed down. All the guests have come to the Thai restaurant, not only because of the good service of the Thai restaurant, but also because there is no choice. Why did Chinese restaurants go bankrupt, because the four rich Chinese people%26ldquo; splitting%26rdquo; uneven, guilty, and finally hit the shot, the restaurant was dissolved. This is an example of a typical Chinese lack of teamwork. You can recall that you have won honors from small to large, and several of them have won by teamwork? This is why you lack team spirit and are not aware of it. The team spirit is not required to remind yourself at all times. The team spirit of Americans and Japanese is naturally integrated into all the trivial matters in life, because they have been from childhood Growing up in a team sports cooperation, American students' basketball rugby sports, Japanese baseball sports, etc. are very popular. Small courses in Europe and America are relatively loose, and cultural engraving takes only half a day, so students have half a day. It was spent on the sports field. So from a young age, I cultivated a team spirit. Due to the limitations of the educational environment, the time for conducting these activities is very limited. It is not part of life at all, and many schools have even stopped the physical education classes in the third year of junior high school in order to raise the school rate. So you will understand why most of the gold medals we won in the Olympics are single-handed projects. The more people participate in the project, the less likely they are to get medals. It is not necessary to mention why Chinese football has repeatedly lost. If you have the heart, you will see that the pass is not based on the form of the field, but based on the relationship between the ball handler and the passer, so often the ball is lost. A lot of fighters were wasted.

Knowing shame and then courage, I understand that there are shortcomings to make up for, but this is not a matter of overnight, we need to do a good job and implement it. Therefore, the goals and principles are determined to be the implementation stage. Many people are the giants in the plan and the dwarfs in action, which is why there are so few successful people. Perseverance requires a perseverance. Everyone's life must have a process of struggle without regrets. Then every time you challenge your own height, aim at your own best, so that you can be measurable and have been able to constantly surpass. Of course, you also Someone needs constant motivation, which is why I suggest you to be with people who work hard, because everyone's emotions have a period of volatility. When your emotions are at a low point, you need a positive development. Friends, come to give you motivation, let you get out of the confusion and loss in your heart as soon as possible. Because people are not sages, the path of a person will not be as straight as he plans, there will always be a slight deviation. At this time, what you need most is the most efficient, that is, the help of friends.

A person who is good at using and making full use of the environment around him and the help of his friends around him is a mature person. A person's maturity is to make fewer mistakes and to make a mistake to live with. Always remember that your main line is to let your life go up. For this goal, you need to:

1. Do anything to determine a scope. Targeting your stage goals is very important, goals are not too high, and difficult goals will continue to frustrate and despair. The goal is too easy to achieve and not good, it is not conducive to your rapid growth, can not form an effective challenge.

2. Determine the right way to save your time. God is fair, giving everyone the same time. Not every successful person is several hours more than others every day. The key is to be good at using time and paying attention to saving time. You need to review what your time is based on? "Harvard girl Liu Yiting" said that at the beginning her time was in hours, but later became a minute, and her plan for a Northern Masters time was in seconds. I personally think that time can be divided into units is a very great person, at least I do not recommend in seconds, because only Working is not an unbalanced life.

3, must face the boring endurance from beginning to end. Repeating creates a successful person, and repetition is boring, and boring things are lonely. Albert's achievement is based on boring and lonely, and so is any small thing. People have a tipping point when they do something. During this period, they feel very boring. Many people give up at this time and choose other temptations. Such people will not succeed. As long as you stick your teeth, this is your height, build your confidence in the future, become a measure of your future, and constantly surpass yourself.

4. Find one or more opponents to compete together. Without a competitor, you never know what your acceleration is, don't know how you should run. Invincible is the most lonely, so be sure to find your opponent, contradiction always exists, if you do not find this opponent, other chores and minor contradictions will become the main contradiction to harass you.

5. Be prepared to be alone in a single battle, but it is best to have a helper. There are three piles of a fence, and three gangs of a good man. The most important thing is to make the worst plan. Because most things need you to do it yourself. You can do nothing without someone else helping you. In your own affairs, the help that others can give you is minimal, and more is expressed in the support of the spirit. This time you need to show your excellence.

If you want to be better than others, you have to work harder than others. Don't doubt that you are stupid. The class in the class is mainly the ability of one's memory, not the IQ problem. The average IQ of Chinese is 93.5, the average IQ of Americans is 83.5, and the IQ of American President Bush is 78, but he always says that he It is 80. You must know that you are still smarter than the current US president. Why have you not succeeded? Maybe you will envy those who were born in a wealthy home, but they may not succeed. Your failure to succeed is mainly because your method is wrong. The correct method plus effort is equal to genius. Why is genius so little? Because many people have not found a way. what way? Suitable for your own method, not a universal method. If you are looking forward to a universal method, a jewel, your mind is still in the same way as I mentioned at the beginning of the article, or the machine that has not started thinking, still waiting for someone to feed, Why are there so many foreign inspirational books that you have finished reading, because you have not thought about it. You don't think about the method that suits you. This method is based on your strengths and weaknesses and your personality. No one can replace you to think.

We must know that a person's IQ cannot be greatly improved. This is basically an innate thing. Although the day after tomorrow can be changed, there will be no qualitative improvement. So where is our improvement? In emotional intelligence, anti-business and legal business. This thing should have been taken very seriously, but it is not directly reflected in the rate of enrollment, so there is no relevant course from kindergarten to university. Emotional intelligence is a very important part. The ability of a person to adapt to the environment quickly is the most important. If your thoughts are always %26ldquo; you will never succeed, society will be a whole group of people, not a person. In order to survive better in this world, the world must have the ability to communicate and communicate. It must advance with the times. If it is always stubborn, it will eventually be eliminated by society. The poor communication ability of Chinese students is well-known. A pair of stunned faces can't see the joys, sorrows and sorrows, and they have eloquently said that this is quite a city. A kind of sadness in the thought of feudal embers.

The counter-business is the most lacking of the only child. This is a habit of cultivating from an early age. It is a spirit that dares to face difficulties and frustrations positively. Because parents are arrogant in front of their children, these children do not know what difficulties and frustrations are. As for the image of Lin Daiyu’s illness in the face of small difficulties, he will collapse when he encounters major difficulties. In the face of setbacks, I think that I am not the piece of material, and then give up, prefer to detour. For example, if you want to face an exam, Chinese students will cry when they meet. Hey, what can I do? I have to test 7 and I want my life. The Japanese student union tied a belt on the head and said nothing, hey, this semester must test 7, and work hard! The low price of the only child is largely caused by the wrong education of the parents. The better the academic performance, the lower the counter-business is. The more the students are flying, the clothes are coming to the mouth to open their mouths, so they are in the society. As if others should be good to her, it should be followed by her. And she talks and does things regardless of the feelings of others. It is not disregard, but she believes that this is equality, and she is not aware that this is the inequality to others. On the contrary, students with poor academic performance have higher anti-business. Many successful careers in higher careers are not high. This is because people have to face many setbacks in their lives. They can always stand up to the setbacks and succeed. Someone asked the difference between the poor and bankruptcy? The replies replied that the poor are poor for a lifetime, and the bankrupt is a temporary poverty. It is a setback. If they stand up again, they will be rich. Bill Gates also encountered a lot of setbacks. In his early years, he took his own DOS and wanted to sell it to IBM. He wanted to make more money to raise a family account. He was rejected by IBM, and his career was frustrated. A heavy blow, Bill Gates. The current success is the embodiment of his high anti-business. Always go to the first place or taboo the last one, in fact, is a kind of competitive mentality is not normal, a person's psychological quality is very important, life must win and lose. The ancients said that they don’t talk about heroes in success or failure. Why? You should think about this problem according to what I said above and expand it yourself.

Academic education never corrects the defects of students' personality. As long as you have high scores, such students have low anti-business, and personality defects are not serious before the age of 20, and may also be mixed in the country. Although it may not be mixed well. A student at Peking University has been one or two in the class from the national school to the university. However, his character is relatively detached and introverted. Later he was admitted to Harvard with excellent results. However, because of different educational methods, he is no longer a rote education. Method, so his performance is always around B-, in the class is the middle and lower reaches, he is very depressed, has no communication skills, was misunderstood by the professor, and even refused to give him a scholarship, he is very depressed and there is no place to vent, One day when I was in class, I suddenly rushed to the window and jumped out and fell to death. China does not have as many psychological counseling institutions as abroad, so you must maintain a good health mentality and communicate with others. Don't think that introverted personality is a good thing, and don't think that introverted personality is innate. These can be changed through practice. When Lincoln was in politics, every speech was trembling nervously, and sometimes he couldn't talk any more. But you know, after years of hard work, Lincoln later became an excellent speaker.

The ultimate success of a business depends on the law firm. The law firm is divided into self-discipline and other laws, and self-discipline is the most important. Success comes from persevering ability. Everything persists, there will be a limit. Most people will give up here, but if you persist, after this period of time, the world will suddenly become more open. Persistence becomes a habit. For example, many people carry the GRE Red Book. Most people's books look from the side. The first 1/3 is black, and the back is clean. This point is a limit point. If you insisted You will pass the book, and if you can't keep it, you will stop at this position every time. You can't break through yourself. Why are there so few successful people? Because you don't know how hard you are, what is the result? Whether this result belongs to you, it is these uncertain factors that many people have retired. The perseverance that can be adhered to in this situation is admirable, and it is the good habit of success. It is a breakthrough for oneself.

What is the purpose of breaking through? In order to grasp more common resources, the more common resources you have, the greater the chance of having rare resources. The Danish state banquet, the president's seat is ranked 16th, a reporter does not understand, ask why not put the president in the first place, who is the top 15? The answer is that the first 15 are scientists, their status in the country is irreplaceable, and it is a valuable asset of our country, and the president can be elected at any time.

Then the question returns to you, what irreplaceable value do you have, that is, your core competitiveness? I don't think you can answer it, but you have to complain that the interview with N companies has been rejected. I can't wait for Bin Laden's photo to be tied to the interviewer to recite the book of Dong Cunrui. But have you considered it, why should a company hire you? It is because you have the value of being used, what is the value of being used, your intangible value, and your intangible value can bring tangible value to the enterprise. What kind of intangible value will be accepted? What are the potential for development of people who have as many potential resources as possible and who have potential for development? That is, you can transform the common resources you possess into your own core values, and the value that others do not have will bring more benefits and growth value than expected. In this way, you turn the common resources you possess into a ability to seize rare resources. As much as possible to occupy a common resource to seize rare resources, only to pay for gains, equal exchanges, divorce between husband and wife is not the same value exchange, intangible value and tangible value are not equal. The value of the resources you exchange with the resources you want is exchanged, and the intangible resources are exchanged for tangible resources. When the opportunity comes, you have the ability to seize the opportunity, so that you are ready to make, 99% of the opportunities are inevitable Opportunity. In daily life, it is to maintain a good second-minded attitude. Every day, you have to do more things than people around you. It is better to do more than others, and do what you can, better than before. it is good. This will lead to an uninterrupted sense of accomplishment, not a constant setback caused by the goal being too high. Therefore, the more common resources you have, the greater your chances of having rare resources. You are also more competitive.

How to quantify the core competitiveness, which is a well-known ranking, is a lot of people confused. It is too abstract and too difficult to grasp. In fact, this problem can be analyzed separately. The core competitiveness is basic competitiveness and economic competitiveness. The basic competitiveness is What are the common resources you have and what is your economic competitiveness? We know that a country's competitiveness is manifested through economic competitiveness, and economic competitiveness is achieved through the competitiveness of the operating system, and excellent institutional competitiveness is achieved through the competitiveness of talents, and the competitiveness of talents. It is expressed through the ability and competitiveness of all aspects of talents, and this ability and competitiveness is the most dazzling place for your core competitiveness. A place that makes you different. The goal of achieving happiness is far-reaching, but the goal of achieving competitiveness is close at hand, and it is a quantifiable goal that can be achieved step by step.

Although the goal of life may change, but this goal must be achieved when it is established, and the goal is to match the ideal of life as much as possible. The goal of life is to walk step by step, not to accumulate steps, no one can do anything, people who will do things, will make small things into big things, people who will not do things, will make big things small things. To be in a position to be inseparable from others, but you should not be conservative. Don't be secret about your knowledge. Don't think that it is good for you. Don't think that others will not surpass you. On the contrary, you will give yourself what you will, but you will improve yourself because you are When you teach others, you will be inspired by a more in-depth learning motivation, and you will also think about more in-depth questions.

For example, how can you make you different? You have to think about what makes you and others different. There is an old saying in China called "walkers without borders", which has profound meanings. You can read thousands of books and thousands of miles, so you can't do it. To travel thousands of miles will make you grow mature, which is why I suggested self-help travel. After the work, I also suggested to go a few more places, whether it is out of tolerance or job-hopping. As long as you can do it, you can do it. One person must have the ability to dare to do it. Many people can't move forward lightly, and they always hope to get nothing but get rich. This is unrealistic. You must know that the energy in this world is conserved. I hope that your high school curriculum is not white. You must know that you can give up by learning to give up.

In this world, you can't get it forever, you will definitely lose it. It is an art to learn to face the loss of life. You must know that losing is a kind of force that forces you. Don't waste it. Don't let it change you. To be derelict, to be good at using it, Sayong loses his horse and knows what is wrong. It is not blind that it will turn a blessing. If there is no problem, there will be no breakthrough. If there is no contradiction, there will be no chance. In the future, you will find that the current loss is for a better future. About 11 years ago, Yu Minhong, a teacher at Peking University, went out to make extra money in the tutoring class because he violated the school regulations. He was criticized and criticized at Peking University. He was disqualified from lectures and had no choice but to leave the university and go to the office. English tutoring class, the first class enrolled more than 20 people, lost a lot, but he got the present New Oriental. So, if you lose, don't be afraid, because there is another thing waiting for you, because the more suffering you have, the more you get, and any failure and loss will give you a future.

The chaos will succeed, throwing the following sub-questions, don't hit the swollen face and fill the fat. Don't care about the ridicule of passers-by, because passers-by are ordinary people, even people who are not as good as you. They can see that the surface does not see the essence. The passers-by is often ridiculed by the heroes. The final result of life is the same. Everyone is not taken away. It is a death, but the scenery of life is very good. If your life is not brilliant, or if you don’t try to make it shine, you will be led by society. Walking, it is an incomplete life, a life with imperfections.