I am not the best

I am not the best, because I am not God, can not create a genius head for myself, can not choose a king dad before birth, can not pre-set how my fate will be. The god of destiny is like a beast that cannot be conquered by power. It is always unscrupulous. We have no ability to command or dream to let it hear our words. However, we can choose to do what we can, such as sincerity, intelligent thinking, hard work, and through constant efforts, we can try to understand what the fate of the beast prefers, so as to induce it to be domesticated, just like breeding Like patiently domesticating tigers, we firmly believe that as long as we always focus our attention on the beneficial things that we can, and persist in our efforts, one day, the beasts of destiny will like us and work together to create miracles.

I am not the best. I can admit this not because I lack self-confidence, but because I am not only confident, but also self-aware. When people lack self-confidence, they may need to constantly encourage themselves. A true strong person is often full of self-confidence. He does not need to always care if he is the strongest, but always keep his eyes on the front of conquest. At the celebration of the defeat of Xiang Yu’s unified country, Liu Bang sat down with the ministers and discussed his reasons for success. When the ministers finished speaking, Liu Bang began to explain in an orderly manner: You are not right, in fact, I am not the best. On the strategy of strategizing and winning thousands of miles away, I am not as good as Zhang Liang; on the guarding of the country, appease the people, and transporting military food, I am not as good as Xiao He; on the command of a million-strong army, every battle will win, I am not as good as Han Xin. These three are all great people, and they are the best in their respective fields, and I can put the best people in the most suitable position, so I finally succeeded. Why did Xiang Yu fail? Xiang Yu always thinks that he is the best, and he is not able to allow others to surpass him. In his heart, he can't allow others to surpass him. If you make meritorious deeds, whoever harms you will win the battle, but you will not get it. The reward, I got the land, but I can't give others a little benefit, because of these, so he lost the world.

I am not the best, but I firmly believe that although my foundation is not very good, the equipment is not very sophisticated, the environment is not very optimistic, but as long as I can be more patient, harder, more ways, more tenacious, then, In the end we have the ability to defeat the strongest and best enemies. Just like when we were against Japan, although our best equipment was only a millet plus rifle, and the enemy was an aircraft tank, we also shouted: no guns, no guns, the enemy made for us. The conditions were created without conditions, so the tunnel wars, guerrilla warfare and other styles were created, and the art of war was played to the fullest. As a result, everyone knows, and the Japanese devils fled. Therefore, although you are not the best, you must have confidence in yourself, constantly try, constantly accept the training, secretly cultivate and enhance your combat value and develop your own influence, as long as you continue to do these simple things. It’s hard to be successful.

I am not the best. Obviously this slogan is the mainstream slogan against the current success of learning, the standard is different? No, the idea stems from the fact that I once knew a patient with depression. He saw that many psychiatrists had no effect. Later, he used the method of Western success that I introduced. Every morning at noon, I shouted for ten minutes: "I am The best." Soon, he told me that he was healed, his mind was much easier, and he slept at night. Here we have to admit that there is a positive suggestion that there is a good psychotherapy effect. However, in dealing with him in the future, although I think he is really active and has many spirits, his thinking is a bit high-handed and even has some "uncoordinated self-confidence", which in turn makes him in real life. He suffered more setbacks, so he seems to be self-confident, but his behavior is rooted in lack of self-confidence. In communicating with others, it seems to be more eager and uneasy than before... Maybe it is because he is self After the encouragement, I did not know myself correctly. I always thought that I was really strong. I couldn’t focus on the details and grasp the success. I artificially created the gap between the heart and the reality.

Therefore, self-motivation is an art. Incentives should grasp the timing, just right, less, and more. Self-motivation should be based on a reasonable foundation, not blind and deceptive. Perhaps deceptive self-motivation can sometimes bring temporary success to people, but it is never difficult for a person who always deceives himself to achieve great achievements. Mao Zedong is a great man who is proficient in stimulating art. He has always motivated people to give reasonable reasons at the right time. When the Red Army was encircled for the third time in Jinggangshan, the previous failures caused the military to fall. The people in the military were questioning everywhere, "How far can the red flag be?", and he decisively proposed that "the red flag can continue to fight." It also proposes and analyzes the benefits of guerrilla warfare and motivates all military officers with a viable approach. When he was beaten to Yan'an, where the food was scarce, the Red Army was surrounded by buckets of the Kuomintang like a bucket. The Red Army's military heart was once again challenged. Mao Zedong still smiled and said to foreign journalists: "All reactionaries are "Paper Tiger", this is not unfounded, because he did two things that inspired the whole army before: First, it proposed the "big production movement" and sent General Wang Zhen to the only fertile Nanniwan in Yan'an. Basically, the food issue was solved. Secondly, the famous "On the Protracted War" was written, and the form of war was divided into three stages. The whole army was motivated through positive and objective analysis of the situation. Therefore, an outstanding motivator will not let you blindly self-motivate, but start from a positive, objective and pragmatic perspective. In addition to being able to inspire passion, it will also enable you to think correctly and act positively.

We are not the best. This is a fact. We should have the courage to admit and accept this fact. However, we must also have confidence in ourselves, constantly try, constantly accept and practice, secretly cultivate and enhance our combat value and development. Your own influence, as long as you continue to do these simple things, it is difficult to succeed or not - this is the natural law of success.