What are parents doing when we talk about dreams?

1.

I was writing an article about ten o'clock a few days ago. Suddenly received the mother's newsletter: "Son, have you got off work? Have you showered? Is this time busy? I haven't worked overtime for a long time. Every day, I get off work at 5:30, what do I do? The rent is expensive. You are alone. Protect your body from the outside. If you have troubles with the old things, go to him and don't put them in your heart. Okay? Obey!"

You have not read it wrong. This is not my typo. It is indeed the original text sent by my mother. There are several typos in just one hundred words. My mother's cultural level is not high. When I was a child, because I was poor at home, I couldn't afford to study at all. So even if I didn't graduate, I dropped out of school.

My mom is not working in any good unit, but in Guangdong, like thousands of ordinary workers, doing some things on the assembly line. The university has a summer vacation. I have been in the factory where she is in for half a month, and then I can't keep going. There, close to 40 degrees of high temperature, there is no air conditioning inside, even the fan is separated by a long distance. On the previous day's class, the body will always be soaked in sweat and dried and then soaked, to go back and forth several times.

When we go to work, we always look forward to adding less classes and putting more fakes. However, my parents always look forward to adding more classes, so there is an overtime pay that is higher than half the usual wages. Because they are renting a house outside, if there is no overtime pay, there is basically no money left to remove the expenses every month.

From small to large, the family is not rich, but because of the efforts of parents, it is not very poor. If I want, they will try their best. Until the university, the cost of living will not be much less than the children in the city. But they themselves, even if they buy more than one hundred clothes, they will feel distressed; my dad will feel very expensive even if he smokes a pack of ten dollars.

We always dream of the comfort of life, always dreaming of freedom and happiness. We always dream of giving up the ambiguity and longing for poetry and distance. However, our parents are still awkward, and what qualifications do we have to look forward to poetry and distance?

2.

Someone asked me, what are you trying to do so? Become a famous family? Or is the family rich?

In fact, I don't want to become a famous family. I don't want to be a rich person. I only want to live a quiet life, and only ask my parents for a long and healthy life. I want to give them a day to buy even a little more expensive clothes. I want my dad to never have to smoke a few dollars. I want them to be sick and don’t want to go on. Hospitals, I don't want them to have reached the age of today and have to show up outside to accept reprimands and censures.

When we face our own dreams and dreams, we always talk about it and forget what kind of state our parents are living behind. They fly the shit, they are only unassuming, but they all have one starting point, that is, we hope that we can live a better life. However, how can we be so selfish and forget their aging old faces while enjoying the safe life they have given them.

3.

When I was in college, I had a classmate who would go home every month. When we were young and ignorant, we always laughed at him, saying that he was so big and always like a child who grew up, always relying on his parents. For our evaluation, he never made a rebuttal, just sitting quietly and saying nothing.

It was not until later that we realized that when he was in high school before going to college, he was a boarder. When I was about to pass the college entrance examination, my mother called him and said that he would not go home in two months. His living expenses would be on his card on time. He should review it at school and not delay the college entrance examination.

At that time, he didn't think much at all, thinking that his mother was afraid that he would forget to study when he came home, fearing that he would not be able to get a good university in the future. So I listened to my mother's words and stayed home until the end of the college entrance examination.

I was very happy because I was still a good test. But when he got home, he discovered that his father had been lying on the hospital bed for nearly three months. On the day the mother called him, his father accidentally got a car accident while driving, which was very serious. The family was afraid of his fear and delayed his studies, so he kept staring at him until his college entrance examination ended.

At that moment, he suddenly felt a little scared, for fear that he would be unconscious, and his parents would quietly leave themselves, and then there would never be a goodbye.

He said that since we went to high school, the days of spending time with our parents have gradually diminished, and it has become even more rare after college. In the future, after a year of work, the time of meeting each year will be at most ten days. In this way, the rest of the life of this life, with his closest relatives, is so short. If you don't have time now, get along with them and you will be less and less in the future. This is why I go home every month.

Many times, I said to my mother, Mom, if you don’t want to go out, how good at home, free and comfortable, no one is constrained to look at people.

My mom always said that we are still young and still motivated to wait until the future is old. If we don't move, we will come back. You see that you are so big now, you have to get married in the future, you have to buy a house, your brother is still in school, don’t you get something for it?

At this time, I can't argue. Yes, because I can't give them anything now, I even want them to continue to worry about me and be affected by me. I was particularly uncomfortable when I thought about it.

4.

Many people will say, my brother, you see that you used to write novels, and now the long and cumbersome chicken soup. Your gorgeous rhetoric, touching stories, and the emotions of the insults, do not know where to go?

Others said, my brother, your previous unfettered writing style is really good, but I don’t know why it has become a thousand-period format now.

In fact, my love for writing has never been interrupted, and my determination to insist on writing has never wavered. I also want to start writing novels, and then I gradually begin to enter the field of serious literature and become a writer in the strict sense. However, many people do not know that most of the writers in the strict sense, those who do not make literary as the starting point, are either full-time or poor. Because after all, not everyone can become Mo Yan, Jia Pingwa and Tie Ning.

The series of articles I wrote today have completely changed the style of the past, but I have always treated them with a enthusiasm of twelve points. I have always written this article with my greatest enthusiasm and piety. I never deliberately cater to anything, and I never deliberately climb anything. I just thought that such words are more popular among the public, and such words, to a certain extent, also give you the true meaning of energy, even if it is small and small. Then, I have no conscience.

Therefore, I never felt that writing an inspirational article was an embarrassing thing.

But the same, writing this series of articles, let me appear in front of the public, get more people's attention and like, instead of alone typing the keyboard in the middle of the night. Because of this, I can really touch the threshold of my dreams, and I can give myself a stable family in the future and give my parents a more comfortable old age.

Our dreams should not be just our own dreams. This dream should also include lovers and parents. Lovers don't have to drift away from you, and parents shouldn't be ignorant of you.

5.

Someone told me that my brother, who has been working for three years, feels physically and mentally exhausted. I really want to give up everything and come to a trip that says I will go, and this is my biggest dream ever.

I said, how is your family situation?

He said that he is the youngest son in the family. His parents are now over 60 years old, but he still has nothing to do. He has no car, no wife and no wife. His father has to help people in rural construction sites. His mother is in poor health and needs all the year round. Taking medicine, but there is no debt at home, so it is not very urgent for the economy.

I said, maybe in the eyes of your parents, it’s not your thoughts! If it is not so urgent, why should he still be over 60 years old and still be a bricklayer? In fact, the work of all of us is not tired, no job is satisfactory, we will encounter a variety of problems, will encounter a variety of bosses. The key is to see how we adjust ourselves.

I don't object to traveling, but travel is by no means the best way to adjust the working conditions. It will even make you more lazy and want to leave the work environment. The travel that says to go is certainly beautiful, but it is not the best way for us to escape from real life. What we can do is to do a good job, get a promotion and raise salary as soon as possible, and let parents have less worries. At that time, the kind of free life is really ours, and you can truly achieve your dreams. Have a clear conscience.

A friend said that every time I went home after the Spring Festival, I saw my parents’ reluctant expression, and my heart was as sad as a needle. If you work hard outside, you will always suffer from all kinds of grievances and suffer various kinds of blows. However, in the days of home, they have undoubtedly become their most precious little princess prince. You can sleep up to three times a day, then when you get up, they will bring the good food to your front; if there is a little mess in your room, they will run in and clean it; always ask what you want to eat. Then, the pattern will not be repeated for you to eat; when you are at home, the big fish will be full of feasts, as long as we leave, they will have a sloppy meal; every time you are angry, they will be like the wrong child. Standing on the side and being overwhelmed...

We grew up unconsciously, no longer relying on the children who spoiled at their feet, and they were old for a moment, their eyes were stunned, their hair was white, and their voices were hoarse. But when we talked about life and talked about dreams outside, where did we think that our parents were doing some humble and hard work at home or in different places? Do they have no ideals and no dreams? No, it’s just that all their ideals and dreams are just for us to live better.