Early arrival is punctual, and punctuality is late

【One】

On the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival, accompanied by an old banquet, both guests were former students. When we arrived, one of them was waiting. There were hundreds of millions of families under the age of forty, and they were very respectful to the teacher. After chatting for more than half an hour, the other person rushed in. In the Mid-Autumn Festival in Fuzhou, the weather was still very hot, so he rushed to sweat, sat down and said: "Teacher, I know that you are old, the stomach is not good, the moon cake is not digested, so I specially brought you a box. Tanyang Kung Fu Tea, very stomach!"

The scene was awkward, and the first thing that came to the face was red, because he sent the moon cake that was "not digested"...

It’s just a small supervisor who is late for the forty. From the situation of the day, it’s not at all strange: lack of “common sense”, even most people in the Mid-Autumn Festival will send moon cakes, even without prior consideration; lack of observation, if sweating After that, I can aim at the scene with more eyes and I will not ignore the big box of moon cakes. So the result is that his gift is more intentional, but he loses his feelings.

These abilities can't be corrected overnight, but he can reverse everything as long as he does it one day: it is earlier than everyone else. If he is the first to come and watch someone else carrying a box of moon cakes, will it be so rash? Not only will it not, but there will be time to carefully and discreetly speak the words properly.

【two】

For the entertainment, drinking coffee and the like, I am also a serious illness of habitual lateness. I always feel that eating and drinking is not worthy of seriousness. I used to eat it early, and I didn’t reveal the truth of the food. But I witnessed it. After the "Mid-Autumn Festival Tan Kung Fu Tea Massacre", I was determined to change. And with the increasing number of "earliers than everyone", I am more and more aware of the benefits.

Benefit one: You can take a look at the mirror in the make-up room.

The most important thing about singing in the old age is "good to meet". If you appear in the show, you will win the full house, but if you dress up a little difference, you will not sing the audience and you will be stunned. The whole show is awkward. In the social field, everyone is an actor, and you need to make sure that your image does not leak before you go on stage - otherwise you think you are better than Pan An, sitting on the back, in fact, a hair looks like an antenna baby. Still not taking others out of internal injuries?

If the location is in the box, then you still have the opportunity to first turn to the dressing room "on the mirror applique yellow." However, if it is in an open space, you will have to face it as soon as you come up. If you are late, you often have no chance to confirm your image. Even if you go to the dressing room right away, your look has been seen by the other side. Some of the girls are dressed up at home, but they are defeated. Who said that it is not the best makeup?

Benefit 2: You can easily familiarize yourself with the "battlefield."

A few years ago, my friend’s business was just getting started, and I was not at a good time. At 9 o'clock in the evening, he suddenly asked me to sleep at night, and it was in a rather upscale restaurant. It turned out that he had just had a lunch with tomorrow for an important customer. The other party is here, but he has never been here, so come and get familiar with the environment and the menu. "If you want to enter the Grand View Garden with Liu Yu tomorrow, even if people don't look down, they don't have confidence. How can they talk about business? Hehe--" He only had dinner, but he tried a few dishes with fullness. I asked the waiters a few weird names and walked through the restaurant. That day I decided that his business would definitely be successful.

He reminds me of the "Loveful Swordsman's Sentimental Sword". Li Xunhuan surveyed the battlefield two days in advance. "The body shape flies, such as Qiuyan back to the air, and points on every dead branch." Even the dead branches must be guarded against Shangguan. Jin Hong is doing his hands and feet. Because "winning and losing has been decided at this time.

Isn't the social field a battlefield? You don't need to "Qiuyan back to the air", you don't need two days in advance, as long as you walk twenty minutes in advance, you can win a lot of advantages for yourself. Especially in high-end places, there are often some strange tools and rules. If you go to the first time, you will not be embarrassed, and your heart will inevitably make a variety of performances. And when you arrive early, you can completely let your curiosity, or look at or ask, find out how to use it, when you are familiar with the regular customers, and if you are hanging out at home, how dare you despise?

Benefit 3: You can easily grasp the psychological advantage.

Fighting on the social field is the gas field. If you are not rich and powerful, and not tall and mighty, then the gas field really needs a lot of details to accumulate, and early arrival is an important part.

Psychologists say that the party that first goes to the middle position can get the feeling of the home court. Because everyone is insecure about unfamiliar environments, but as long as they stay for twenty minutes, the new environment can become an "old place." When the other party is late, he looks around and looks at you. He gets a point on the gas field.

If you need to order, and you look at the menu like reading comprehension questions, you can still make an indecisive impression if you turn back and forth several times. But if you can do the "Reading Comprehension" in advance, when you order the food, the waiter will hand over the menu. You will wave your hand and cleanly report a few dishes. You will have a VIP ring to light your smart and capable image. There was another point on the gas field.

If the day is a strange circle, and you are a person who is "the most silent", then you will only have a chance to chill with everyone when you arrive early so that you can integrate as soon as possible. If there is a big man present, you should arrive early, so that you have the opportunity to sit next to him - this will not only let the big guys remember you, but also let others value you, because there is a psychological effect called "fox fox."

More importantly, early arrival is a courtesy expressed by actual actions, which is better than a thousand words of compliment.

【three】

The key to the three benefits is "comfortable." In the stage where your people are light, you can get up early, you will be confused when you are late, and you will get confused if you are confused. It is like the uncle in the Mid-Autumn Festival of Tan Kung Fu Tea. The Art of Warfare is "to rest for work." Where does “Yi” come from? It is action in advance and rushing all the way, winning when it comes to the battle.

It is best to arrive early in twenty minutes. Less than this time, many of the three major benefits can not be completed with ease. More than this time, the momentum will also weaken. I don’t know how to "get out of the air, then decline, and then exhaust the three." If you arrive early, you may want to leave "evidence", such as ordering a drink or a small dish, and the other party sees it empty. The cup and saucer will naturally understand. In this way, your sincerity and his apologies will have subtle effects in the conversation that follows.

There are as early as twenty minutes of consciousness to ensure punctuality. Many times I arrived, but I heard from the phone: "I have already gone downstairs, looking for a place to park." Then it took ten minutes to show up. Although you look at the helplessness of "I can't help", the other party has silently given you a bad review of "this guy really has no time concept." Those who count the time to go out, are thinking about maximizing their time value, but not considering each other's time benefits, and the best respect is to respect each other's time.

If you are a guest, it is not appropriate to arrive early. Because he may still be tidying up the room, he may still wear vest shorts, and your early arrival will make him feel helpless and rude than late. But you can get to the neighborhood early, organize your makeup, calm your mind, and gracefully press the doorbell when time is right.

Everyone has a mobile phone era, why do high-end people wear watches? One of the purposes is to advertise their punctuality, and punctuality means trustworthiness. Some insurance salesmen will be late, it is really difficult to understand: time is life, you do not even pay attention to the customer's life, how can others trust you to trust?

I have to be late, call and say to the other party: "Take it in ten minutes!" The result is almost half an hour. Such a "late second" combo will only double the dissatisfaction of the other party. Many people mistakenly think that the shorter the waiting time is, the more they can comfort each other's emotions. This is really a big misunderstanding. Since it is late, it is better to be a little late: telling the other party takes half an hour. If you arrive in twenty-five minutes, the other party will have a surprise, and feel that your ignorance is not easy, and you will regain your trust.

Everyone has tasted the taste of waiting, and the person who knows how to get there is nothing more than knowing "do not do what you want, don't do it to others."

【four】

Social entertainment should be early, not to mention the job of raising a family. I saw a star salesman’s article saying that when he went to work on the first day, he made an appointment with the client to meet at 9 am on Monday, and he arrived half an hour earlier. . The customer asked him why he was so early. He said: "My family has to eat seven days a week, but I only work for five days. I am two days late, of course I have to work hard!"

Speaking of it, the punch card machine is the boss's piggy bank. According to some statistics, a company of 100 people is deducted 20 times each time, and the boss can recover four or five hundred on average every day. If you have a monthly salary of 3,000, why should you use it once and for all to donate money for your boss?

More important is the attitude: early arrival means hard work, and lateness means slackness. When I arrived at the office early and saw that my subordinates had already opened a computer in their seats, they would look at each other—especially those who had departmental activities or worked overtime the night before, but the people who arrived early the next day made me feel sincerely He is trustworthy. And when you are late, your wolf is rushing, and your head is distracted. You are not blinded by the supervisor. Colleagues who work with you should also look at it - unless you are insignificant, otherwise you will be a part of the team, others will inevitably delay your work, in time. Pay for your late arrival.

On the morning of writing this article, the rain poured. Fortunately, I have the habit of watching the weather every night, deliberately get up early than usual, go out 45 minutes in advance, and easily stop the taxi. By the time I got to work, I had already brewed the second tea and finished a small thing at hand. There was still a lot of vacancies in the office area. In the friend-friend circle, there were various "blockers" and "late". Can't help but give me a compliment.