Some dark, we need to cross alone

Time passes, we have passed the age of parents who need shelter. With the gradual increase of age, we will eventually have a sky of our own. It will rain sometimes, sometimes it will be clear and clear, sometimes it will be rainy and rainy, there will be wind. In the showers, there will be wind and frost, there will be white, and there will be dark nights. Then one day you will eventually find that it is raining. You have to hold your own umbrella, otherwise you will only get wet and get a cold. You will find that some darkness needs us to cross alone, otherwise your sky will never have its own bright sun.

Have you discovered that in fact, many things you have been able to face alone, do not need to keep reminding in the ear, do not need to teach you to complete. Although we have been defeated countless times, we have been defeated in books by our school, defeated by our classmates in performance, defeated emotionally, and job-seeking numerous times. There used to be a lot of disappointment in the past. Sometimes you feel a little bit guilty, but these are nowhere to talk. They can only gradually build back their hearts, until one day you can no longer afford it. At that moment, you feel that your life is very uncomfortable. I can't see a little hope. You really want to work harder, but you can't find the kind of courage to continue.

We may have been depressed by the failures encountered by this road, and we are weak, but we cannot face ourselves as a loser after facing countless failures. At the age of twenty, we don't have the strength to think so strong, but in fact we are not as vulnerable as we think. We can't be treated negatively because we haven't reached the age we can give up.

Sometimes you feel that you are lonely, not understood, misunderstood, cold-eyed, rumored. Sometimes when one thing hasn't started, someone tells you that it doesn't make sense, or that you can't do it directly, so that you don't have much confidence and you feel desperate. But this is not the reason for your retreat. You must continue to move forward after you know this, in the direction you want to go. In fact, we all know that everyone has a road of their own, although there will be some intersections in some places, but they will never overlap, so in those places where there is no intersection, only one person can go alone.

As we grew older, we left our homes and soon left school. After all, we must learn to establish a foothold in society. You may face all kinds of frustrations that you didn't expect. At that time, you can't cry, you can't make trouble, you can't cry because others see you can comfort you very little, and you have to laugh at your back and say that you are wrong, and you can't make trouble. It is because in the eyes of others, your troubles are just an incompetent anger. In this case, why not learn to be strong alone. Someone is willing to thank you for the difficulties. If no one helps you, you can't think of how some people are doing it, just because it is your own business.

This road is too long in life, but there are few flat places, more of an infinite unknown and no visible darkness. In such a dark place, you may not see anything, and can you ask for help? So in order to continue, some darkness requires us to go alone.