Life is not a hard journey: a fast food that everyone must lead

Everyone in life has the time to comfort others or to be comforted by others. It is important to learn to comfort yourself. This is a way of defense. "A hundred years of life, eighty-nine in adversity." In the journey of life, not all flowers are smooth, but often accompanied by unsatisfactory things. Such as being laid off, unemployed, riddled with illness, frustrated in love, etc., often makes people feel uncomfortable and sigh. Loss of temperament is prone to distortion and metamorphosis, which not only affects work mood and quality of life, but also is harmful to the body and mind.

To comfort yourself is to comfort the soul of suffering, misfortune and suffering through positive self-evaluation and modest tolerance. In the face of difficulties, tell yourself that this is a natural thing. Predicament is an integral part of life. It is a "fast food" that everyone must lead. It is both troublesome and patronizing others. This is natural. It’s always a smooth and good thing, it’s just a good wish, it doesn’t really exist. In this way, in the face of dilemmas, there will not always be a cry of heart, "the road of nowhere in the sky", the truth of "not long-term adversity", and there is always a way to go, which is equivalent to the first step of the dilemma.

Life is not a hard journey, don't take the situation as bad. People who are accustomed to self-punishment and self-torture have a narrow vision and are relatively closed. Their eyes are only staring at the difficulties and difficulties they have encountered. As a result, they see the predicament more and more dead, so that they are overwhelmed by the predicament. But if you compare it with those who are more serious than their own predicament, would you sigh "Why are you alone?" and then you will carry on to Mencius’s "Heavenly will be a big man," and there will be " When the winter is gone, the spring is over, it will erase many of the injustices of the world, the sadness of life.

Self-deprecation is a way of defending people, the art of life, a kind of self-comfort and self-help, and a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and adversity. Self-deprecating is not to be reconciled, not to be aggressive, but to be comfortable with the situation, and hopelessly, redesigning itself and pursuing new ones. When a person wants to self-deprecence, it is important to have a normal heart, not to be tired of fame and fortune, not to be disturbed by the world, not to be happy with things, not to be sad, to walk every step of life with hard work.