What is the last regret?

If someone else works, you also work, others rest, you rest, others entertain and you entertain, then what others get, you can only get what, in order to get something that others can't get, you have to pay what others don't want to pay. Especially when you are young, there is still a chance to compete.

A Belgian magazine has conducted a questionnaire survey for the elderly over the age of 60. The topic of the survey is: What do you regret at the end? It lists more than a dozen things that are easy to regret in life, for the respondents to choose. So, there is such a result.

72% of people regret that they are not working hard enough when they are young, and they have no success in their careers.

From this, I think of a story that a 40-year-old person was told by a doctor that he was terminally ill and lived for up to three years. Therefore, in order to make his last life more meaningful, he proposed a work plan to do ten things in three years. These include writing a book, learning a foreign language, engaging in an invention, identifying a factory, visiting 30 famous mountains, watching 50 cities, etc., and immediately after the project is put into action. After two years and eight months, all 10 goals were completed. But when he went to the hospital for a follow-up visit, he found that the doctor had taken the wrong medical record at the time and he was not sick at all. This is also an experience. If someone else works, you also work, others rest, you rest, others entertain and you entertain, then what others get, you can only get what you want, if you want something that others can't get, you have to pay someone else. Willing to pay for something. Especially when you are young, there is still a chance to compete.

When 67% of people regretted being young, they chose the profession wrongly.

It should be said that the mistake is not to choose what occupation but to choose stability.

Three college students were assigned to work in county and city agencies. A few years later, there was a look at the leadership who was not willing to take the water to the ground. The other two were not tempted. After a few more years, another resignation went to the sea. The rest is still not tempted. After a few years of gathering, the company that has been the head of the big factory, the one who resigned has become a rich man, and the one in the organization regrets that he should not be satisfied with a few hundred dollars per month. The royal food. According to the current concept of career choice, many people’s first goal is to have a stable income. When you can get your salary, you can get benefits at that time. But they forget that there is no motivation without pressure, and there is no potential without power. It’s not that there are too few Bole in the world, but you have buried yourself.

63% of people regret that their children are not educated enough or improperly.

I saw this scene with my own eyes. The daughter of Shangguo came back from school at night, and the couple who were on the mahjong table impatiently waved their own instant noodles! There was also a couple, each with a shoe in the house. In the chasing of his own son, the screams of horror were so disturbing, and these parents did not regret or even thought that they were doing right. It was not until many years later that they found that they did not have enough education or improper methods to make their children talented and beneficial according to their own patterns, their own experiences and their own methods.

58% of people regret that they are not physically fit.

I forgot who said this sentence: I want to use the body to change everything before the age of 60. I want to switch my body after 60 years old. Above the world, there is something more valuable than physical health. Someone once put forward a slogan that the calf does not fall down. As a kind of spirit, it may be worth promoting. However, if you force the rate of illness and the rate of badness, you can only push the disease, push it worse, shorten the life of the calf, and reduce the value of the calf.

The most interesting thing is that only 11% regret not making more money.

For young and middle-aged people who have not made a lot of money, this may be a good comfort. Although money can do a lot of things, making money is not the most important purpose of life. When you are young, you can still improve after you regret it. When you are old, you regret it and you can't remedy it.

Therefore, each of us should always look back at the road we have traveled and ask ourselves: What regrets me?

If life is not as long as you think, be happy and try to be happy!