You could have, but no

Why do people have to work hard? Anyway, I am hungry.

Many people have asked me questions like this. My answers are almost surprisingly consistent: even if you don't work hard, you can't die in this society. You can always find a career to support your family. But if you have never worked hard, then when your life is about to reach the end, you may find that the most painful thing in life is not failure, but I could have, but not.

I remember that I was a freshman, because I had a profession that I didn't like very much, and I was faced with much more temptation than high school. So the whole freshman I was addicted to games, picking up girls and mixing in various clubs. And at the end of the college period you are "surprised" to discover: Hey! It turns out that even if I don't work hard, as long as I am desperately trying to "brush a brush" at the end of the period, the university will not hang the subject. This makes me more unscrupulous in college.

However, some of the classmates who were very good during the holidays and high school found that they and the others had such a big gap in just one year. The gap I want to talk about is not material, but refers to a person's attitude towards life.

Compared with my high school friends, they have a few college entrance examinations that are much worse than my exams. In the eyes of ordinary people, their university is not good for me. One of the boys was forced to choose an English major. According to him, he was almost driven by the English characters in a year; another boy was a 3A school.

It can be said that my university has a much better starting point than them. However, their attitude towards the university is quite the opposite of me. Their college life is much more exciting and meaningful than mine.

The boy who was forced to learn English went to college and took a computer major that he liked. He took a lot of related computer professional books. After the freshman, he has developed several very popular web games. Last year, several brushes. One of the small games in the WeChat circle of friends is his slap in the air, and now he is already developing his game app that he is obsessed with, and he has also set up his own small team studio.

The boy who attended the 3A school did not intend to stay in the university for a long time. He passed the IELTS test in the first semester of the freshman year, and finally got the Australian after the second semester after numerous “shameless” applications. The offer of a good science and engineering university, he started to study abroad and re-read his freshman year. At that time, I could not believe that the worst of high school English, he actually passed the IELTS test. But that's the truth.

Look at my freshman year. At that time, I blame college majors. I don’t like it. I blame the university for being too tempted. Therefore, I have to go through it. I’m busy with girls, games, and community activities. But after I’ve been busy, I’ll always I found that I had nothing to gain, and I found myself busy and untargeted, and my heart was often empty and vulnerable.

Such similar examples are too many in our lives.

Some people in the circle of friends all day, in Weibo, complained in the QQ space that their work is poor, long working hours have to work overtime without overtime pay, so they can't stay; complain that they are only in half a year. I fired a few times of squid; some people made a state after playing the game for one night in the Internet cafe: Hey, I haven’t slept yet, I have to go to work, why is my life so tired? People who have abandoned themselves and broke the cans have not complained that their origins are not good. They have not been born in a good family. They are complaining about social injustice, too fierce competition and too many unspoken rules.

But the question is, how many people are complaining, haven't thought about whether they have worked a little bit harder?

How many people would rather look at the whole episode of the whole series, brushing most of the non-nutritive microblog information, spending the whole afternoon brushing a treasure, and shopping for a night in the shopping street to go for the so-called discounts Luxury goods, how many boys would rather indulge in online games all night long, but are not willing to make a little bit of courage and determination to make some changes?

Of course, you can't work hard, you can't try to change, you can't try to make yourself better, because it's hard to starve you in today's society, you can always find a copy. Work fills up your stomach.

But have you ever thought that the current state of life is what you really want inside?

Have you ever thought that you could have made your life more exciting and meaningful, and you could have the ability to do more things you like to do, and you could have given others more value to society. ...but because you didn't work a little bit so hard at the beginning, you can only become "this can" in the end.

Just like when my professional choice was not my favorite, I could have tried hard to change my major or like my male student who was forced to learn English, to find a field I like to study and study, but I chose I have been tempted by myself; there are many temptations in the university, and there are many girls to choose. I could have found a love that I really liked and then carry out a piece of unforgettable love, but I always pay attention to it in order to pass the time; life in college is free, I I could try to develop some of my own hobbies and read a few more books, but I almost gave time to the game, playing in the night.

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Who does each of us have no big or small dreams? But if at the end of your life is about to reach the end, you will find that you have not only passed by with your dreams, but also because you have lived, passed away, and perfunctory life attitudes, making yourself a vulgar, When people lead their lives with their noses, then you may suddenly realize that the most painful thing in life is not failure, but I could have, but not.

And this is probably why people should work hard in this life.

Of course you can still not work hard, but the final fruit should be tasted by you.