Why are you working so hard?

I heard that you have been fighting recently.

What is this?

I am not always fighting.

Well, when I was in college and graduate school, I was still a mixed king.

The students who were most impressed by me at that time were that I was sleeping in a dormitory bed all day long, or else I was playing games in front of the computer.

In the year of graduate school, the parents who divorced and remarried, remarried and divorced, really had to be separated.

That summer, my dad gambled and lost a lot of money, and the business was not smooth.

My mother moved out of the old house. In her 50s, she and her 70-year-old grandmother lived in a rented small house.

Every time I called her to ask her about her situation, she said it was good, let me not worry.

I once called me and said about my mother's current situation.

I only know that my mom is acting with me. Mom, she is just a shadow.

My mother was crying in tears when my dad was derailed for ten years.

So few things can provoke her tears.

Dad said that during this time, my mother often cried.

Yes, only the Chinese people know how terrible it is to have no house.

More terrifying than not having a house is that you are old and have no house.

If you are old, you still have no house with your older mom.

Da Yu said that my mother has been insomnia for several months.

She didn't even dare to go out, afraid that an acquaintance would ask Dong to ask West, and she was afraid that the other would sympathize with her.

The person who is so strong to my mother, what she does not want most is sympathy.

I hung up the phone and told the editor of our newspaper that it would be fine for me to do it. I have to write a manuscript.

The editor was shocked and said: If you go up, do you have the wrong medicine?

Then I created a draft of 8-12 editions a week, and wrote a perverted record of 20,000 to 30,000 words per week.

Once I wrote for 49 consecutive hours, two days and two nights, sitting in front of the computer, drinking 8 cups of coffee, not sleeping for a minute, in order to write an ad soft text, you can get 2000.

I also worked part-time to write to several magazines, writing tens of thousands of words each month. During that time, magazine editors loved me because I was too diligent.

I became a writing machine, and my friends around me said that I want money to be crazy.

Yes, I really want money to be crazy.

I have to buy a house for my mom.

Fortunately, my mother lived in a small city in the 18th line. At that time, the price was only over 2,000 square meters. I spent half a year, and I borrowed some money from my friends and paid a down payment to my mom.

The year before, I got the script fee for the first time, and I changed my mom to a big house.

Last month my mother had a birthday, I gave her a million, my mom said no.

I said that I have written that "Love that cannot rise to money is not true love," so my feelings for you should be expressed in terms of money.

My mother is extravagant, laughing at the phone and laughing.

Let my mom feel so cool, let her meet the acquaintances have boasted capital, let my mom want to buy what can buy.

This is what I mean so much.

Some people say that I work so hard to make myself more successful than the speed of my parents.

I saw a friend, advertising dog, and state last week. Like me, staying up late, my eye bags are bigger than my eyes.

She airborne to a company as a department head, the subordinates did not even bird her, so her work is particularly difficult to advance, basically everything must be done by myself.

She has not taken a day off for four consecutive months.

She said that her menstruation is not adjusted to doubt that she is going to be menopausal.

She is only 28 years old.

I advised her to take a break and pay attention to the body.

She said, no, I have to fight.

Her dad is patriarchal, and her mother has never had a place at home. When she was a child, her parents called her "son" and prevented her from wearing a skirt. She would not let her stay long hair and would not buy her a doll. In the fifth grade of her junior year, her mother gave her a younger brother. So she didn't call "son", she became "hey."

In 2019, when she was working for the first year, Beijing had a price of more than 10,000 square meters, and a small house had a down payment of 400,000. She took the courage to find her dad to borrow money, she wrote a loan note, indicating how to repay. Her dad said, no, I have no money. Not long after, her dad sent her brother to the UK to study in the country, aristocratic school, spending hundreds of thousands a year.

Now she can save 400,000, but Beijing's housing prices have risen to this dead state, and she can no longer afford the down payment.

She talked with her boyfriend for 8 years, and her boyfriend asked for a few marriages. She didn't dare to promise.

Because her dad said, Hugh wants a penny dowry. Because he wants to pay his son a big house, he has to buy him a good car.

Sometimes she admired her dad, and even the eccentricity was so arrogant.

There is no house, no dowry, she can't get married.

Because her husband’s family has hinted more than once, she looks down on her family’s bottom.

She has no dignity in front of her future family.

However, no one can help her, she only depends on herself.

So in addition to her fight, is there any other choice?

Imagine this type of scenario:

"This is 100,000, leaving my son."

"This is one million, leave your son."

Who the hell does not want to be so cool?

Many times, money is freedom.

Many times, money is dignity.

A friend of mine is very brave. She is a university teacher and has a monthly income of 8,000.

She knows that her husband thinks that she has made too little money, and she is not worthy of her baby son who has more than 20,000 in her family every month.

She is still married. She believes that love is priceless.

Now they have been married for three years and have a one and a half year old son.

She wants to go back and fan herself.

Their marriage was not equal from the beginning.

The husband's family felt that she had climbed high and she did not agree with her husband.

Over time, being brainwashed by parents is becoming more and more accustomed to her.

She took 100 pieces to her family, and her husband would look up.

Once she bought her mother a piece of more than 400 sweaters, her husband turned his face directly and cold war with her for ten days. Later, she wrote a review, and this matter was settled.

Her husband educated her to be diligent and keep her home, and then gave her a budget form, which stated each daily cost, accurate to the maximum of 8 fruits per day.

Then one day she bought grapes at the fruit stand, a bunch of 11 pieces, she was so happy, her husband was so angry. Say a good day, only 8 yuan? In order to spend more than 3 dollars, her husband married her for more than two hours.

Basically, her husband has the ability to cry her several times a week.

If she has money, she can put the money on the other's face and marry his ancestors for eighteen generations.

However she did not.

Now they live in a house, except for children, when they are transparent. She wants to get a divorce, but she has to pay the rent to raise her son. The economy is not well-off, she can't afford it.

Recently she resigned for a new job, a company known for her metamorphosis.

She said that she would have to pay 100,000 yuan, can afford to pay a year's rent, and can cope with the sudden expenses, she immediately divorced.

Some people are desperate to make money, just to find a man, what kind of man can be.

And she is desperate to make money, just to think about not wanting a man, you can not.

I know a 90-year-old girl who looks very beautiful. Her parents' plan for her is to be a civil servant, work quietly, marry a rich second generation, and live safely.

She does not want to. I chose my favorite job, and the next step is to bear the eyes of my parents and the embarrassment that is hard to hear.

Her dad even slaps her in front of all relatives because she does not accept the work arranged at home.

Now she works more than 15 hours a day, in order to prove:

I do my favorite job, I can make a lot of money, and I can live very well.

Can you shut up!

Writer Yang Yuwen said, "I love money, I love the kind of clean and clean banknotes, with a bit of hard-working taste, so that when I date a man, I grab a bill and say that I pay; I can make a big meal at the most expensive restaurant when I am sad, I don't have to worry about the price on the menu; I can still live in a two-bedroom, one-bedroom house after falling out of love."

And what I want to say is: We are so hard, so hard to make money, just to use the word "I have money" to block everyone's mouth.

When someone says, why are you still not in love, still not married, still not having children?

Off your ass, Laozi has money.

When someone says, you are not afraid of having no husband in the future, no children, and no one to rely on?

Off your ass, Laozi has money.

When someone said, why do you buy a 30,000 piece of a bag, are you too ruined too vain?

Off your ass, Laozi has money.

When someone says that your husband is derailed, you will endure it. You are not afraid of divorce. Is life difficult?

Off your ass, Laozi has money.

We have financial freedom, we have freedom of choice, and we are even free.

Therefore, those who do not work hard, those who are mixed, are chanted, accused, and discriminated against.

you deserve it.