Still young, can't just be like this

Many people probably have this experience.

That year you were 18 years old, holding a paper acceptance notice in your hand, but you can't wait to see the big city that you have never met.

Your buddy told you that we still have a lot of time. If you want something, you will try to chase it. Isn’t it that people can live to change the world and do something?

After a few years, it was over, and the first green scorpion quickly faded. I used to be sloppy and let my head smash, like singing in a song.

The fragile pride is scattered all over the place. You feel that you have crossed the mountains and the sea, and you have passed through the mountains.

In these years, you no longer regard "nothing is crazy, old" as a mantra. You feel tired, and the boss is not too small. I don't want to run anymore. I want to find a safe and stable job, honestly buy a house, blind date, get married, Have children.

But a friend's party, occasionally heard who in the year who is still entrepreneurial or wandering, can not help but envy them how can still be so aggressive, and this may be the case in his life.

Sometimes you comfort yourself, after all, people are interested.

There are always a few nights when you will sleep all night - not reconciled, but somehow break free.

Only twenty or thirty years old, many people think that life seems to be able to look at the end at a glance. Is this really the only way in this life?

Now, not only after 80, but even after 90, they began to say that they are old.

So age has become an increasingly sensitive topic for this generation of young people. After 25 years, they began to hide from age. If they reach 30, they will be more and more secret. Everyone wants to be 18 years old every year.

In fact, what we are afraid of is not the age itself, but a set of "prescribed actions" that have been solidified by the society behind the ages. Every step on the ladder of life has been put on a deadline. We are like holding the same script. The difference is just who is acting more realistic.

But no one dared to throw the script. As the age grew, the impulse to change the lines a little bit became a shame. At any time, there was a risk that the people around him would become immature.

Therefore, it is not difficult for us to explain why there are more and more nostalgic movies in these years, and the box office is getting more and more fire, but the main force to go to the nostalgia of the theater is the 80s and 90s that are not yet old.

Roman Roland had such an observation. He said: "Most people died in their 20s and 30s. Because of this age, they are just their own shadows. The rest of the life is spent in imitating themselves. ”

In fact, I feel that reality is far from being so negative as he described, but writers are often good at using the verbal machine to give the world a good shot.

At the age of twenty or thirty, I feel that I have seen through my life. I just think it is ridiculous to write this sentence.

The wisdom is like Confucius. It’s not forty until it’s forty. When it’s fifty, I know the fate. Why do young people in modern times have buried their puberty early?

Young, immature is not a sin, but is not eager to stereotype yourself, but also the possibilities of trying life. In reality, we too hope that we can “rapidly form”, but young people can easily give up curiosity about other possibilities, which is tantamount to killing chickens and taking eggs.

Perhaps many people have also tried hard to think about whether the so-called "shortcut" is really a shortcut, but the result is not as good as it is. The reason is probably because there are too many thoughts and too little experience.

In a nutshell, young people have nothing to do with age, but only about the state of mind itself. Putting aside this point of view, on the scale of the whole life, today's stability may not be really stable, and today's adventure may not be really an adventure, the ending is to go out of the way and look back.

So still young, why can't this be the case in this life? After all, still young, this life can be somewhat different.