The success of others is a special case, so you can not work hard?

Every time I write an article about the people around me who are working hard, there is always someone who jumps out and says, "Star sister, you are talking about special cases. They succeed because XXXXXXXXX, I don't have these conditions, it doesn't apply to me at all." I am angry when I see this kind of comment!

Seeing the success of others, we always emphasize that others have aunts with rich background resources, good company leadership, but don’t look at their own efforts? It’s useless to say that hard work is no use. How to fight is better than those who are cows, so you should chat online during work hours, and after work, you will be better than those who have more money than you can have resources and resources. Is it better? Who do you expect to pull you out of the crowd? Is your child still your parents?

Yes, your parents didn't give you so many backgrounds and conditions, you still need to pay for a house and a mortgage, so you should complain about social complaints about your parents. In a few years, you will become a resentful person. Middle-aged people, sighing at your child every day. Then educate your child: "I can't do this in my life, son, you have to sigh!" You are all virtues. Why do you ask your son to get ahead?

Your aunt is not a rich second generation, but you can become a rich second generation aunt! It’s no problem to be a second-generation aunt. You must at least become a similar aunt who can give your child positive energy. Are you afraid that one day your child complains that you are useless?

There is another type of person, but it is not very resentful to the mother to blame the society, is to blame the company for blaming the leadership. Just an opening is: "Our company is too tricky, will you give me this money worthy of my life?" "My boss's character is not good, it is not worth my effort to work with him." I will be anxious for you. Really anxious.

My good friend Mole's potato said a word: "You can't get the salary because you are not worth the price." This sentence is widely used. What level of people do you naturally enter? The company of the horizontal division. If you are a phoenix, Sparrow Nest can't put you down. People are most afraid of not knowing what they are, and they always feel that they are surrounded by garbage, and they are the most powerful. People gather together, and things are divided into groups. The older you are, the more you feel that this is especially true.

You feel that you are a phoenix falling into the chicken coop, then you can quickly fly away, and the problem is coming. Where can I go? Facebook employee has a starting salary of 110W. Have you gone? Microsoft's Google benefits are so good that you are fascinated by the test? I haven’t had much success in working for many years, so I’ve got a head of brains. The work is not good, the salary is not high enough, because the leadership is not good enough, don't you think that you are too rigid in thinking? Do you have to wait for others to teach others to take it, you can't take the initiative to find resources to learn? Leaders are not school teachers. They must be 100% impartial and selfless. They must also teach you progress and give you a salary. The work is done for myself. The long-term skills are also growing on myself. Just because a company that you are not satisfied with and a dissatisfied leader are willing to stay in place and plausibly find a reason for not making progress. You are stupid and not stupid!

I don't know what other people think, anyway, every time I see people who are better than me than I am, I feel particularly self-defeating. They are richer than me, have resources, what about it? What I see is that they are harder than me to work harder than I have learned. I have turned a blind eye to others. I am such a person who is so good at grasping the merits of others and asking myself. Of course, every time I see the stories of ordinary people working hard, they are even more moved. They may have bought a suite for the rest of their lives, but this is a person's dream, a dream, and it is worth being touched and applauded. I am afraid that you will not have a dream, but also laugh at others' dreams.

A few days ago, I sent an article "School girls from a small place, now earn more than one million a year!" ", Douban has a net

“歪歪” told me a story:

"My husband is a teacher. Most of the students in the class are in the village. When parents work in the city, they take the children to school in the city. My husband and I often visit a spicy stall, and the tricycle is the whole operation room. The couple are particularly diligent and simple, and they wear it cleanly, so we have been eating with confidence, not to mention the taste is really good. Then one day my husband told me that the two couples are the parents of his students, and they rely on selling Mala Tang bought a set of one hundred and sixty flat houses in a newly opened property in the city, but it was paid for in full. However, their hardships were not acceptable to ordinary people. In summer, they stood in front of seven or eight casseroles. Winter is so cold, open until the early hours of the morning."

At that time, I remembered my country at the same table. In China, the same table is a boy who is always looked down upon. The family is not rich and is not seen by the whole family. His parents sold soy milk fritters in the morning, and sold teaching aids in the daytime. They wanted to go abroad to study in the school. He wanted to study abroad. At that time, it seemed that the days and nights were not met by the family economy or individual studies. His rich and powerful brothers and sisters were sent out by their families when they were in college. They didn't get back to school. He had two undergraduates in the country, and his master's degree was in the United States. Now he graduated from a postdoc. When he was a Ph.D., he had a like-minded girlfriend and now has a happy family and children. When he saw the photo of his wedding ring, he flashed his head in the three-legged bench that he insisted on completing a class.

They are not successful people, that is, they bought a house and took a doctor in the United States. You may not see it at all. But they don't complain, don't complain, and work quietly for their little dreams. This is the most touching place for ordinary ordinary people, and the most lacking place for those who are free from excusing themselves.

Reading someone else's story is to get positive energy to motivate yourself, not to let you find a reason in the word line to excuse yourself. Some people always say, "I don't have the motivation. Who gives me some positive energy? Give me strength!" When positive energy is given to you, you will always be blindfolded and always feel that the success of others is a special case. It is only natural that ordinary people can't do it, then you can go back and see if Mary Su's novels can comfort you a little heart where you don't know where to put it.

What people are most afraid of is not that they have no ideals. They are not laughing at others and whispering.

What people are most afraid of is not enough effort, but they have not worked hard at all. They still feel that the success of others is a special case. They feel that society and others are too bad for you, so they cannot succeed.