There is more possibility to not limit yourself to life.

My biggest source of positive energy is a white-faced and beautiful girl. She studied at a university in Beijing and has a two-year master's degree in finance. She has graduated and works at a bank in Beijing. During the year of the first year of research, she did the following: The top 3% of the professional rankings, the key is the highest individual economics and advanced econometrics that gave me the most headaches. She has tested 90+, one of which is even 95+; After passing the CFA's first and second grades, I passed the five CPA exams; in addition to her studies, she also interned from the capacity, both companies are the top brokers in the country.

Last winter, under such a severe job search situation, she was not immune to it. After getting a relatively good offer in the capital city of her hometown, her family would inevitably persuade her: "When you come back, why bother stay in Beijing." But she quietly He said to his friends: "I don't have to stay in Beijing, but I have been studying in Beijing for more than a year. I have more than four years of college, and sometimes I think even more than twenty years before me. There are many gains. This sense of fullness of growth makes me reluctant to give up."

Today, she is already on the job. I was occasionally screaming with my friends when I was working, and I was so tired that I would fall asleep on the bed when I opened the house. I squinted and thought that when she was studying, she would get up at 6 o'clock every morning. She couldn’t sit still for 12 hours, thinking that she is now working in a white shirt suit. I feel that even if she said that life is very exhausting, I seem to see her future, it must be shining.

Seeing this, even I mistakenly thought that this is a story of learning. However, my high school sister immediately said to me: "Our school's college entrance examination champion this year, with a total score of 723 points, after the provincial leader's list, I was dissatisfied with my own achievements, scored a few days back to school self-study English... This is called a schoolmaster!"

Therefore, what I am talking about is not a story of learning. Because there are always people in the world who will review in a shorter time than you, and score higher. I just want to say that in the same growing environment, there are always people who go faster and further because they are conscious and self-aware.

Perhaps in the eyes of better people, her results are simply coming. They don't even have to take the test of death, they can successfully study the famous schools, and they don't have to do everything they can to get the offer that everyone can envy. But three years ago, she graduated from college like me. In the past four years, we were in the same classroom, listening to the same class and writing the same assignments, and making the same grievances to do the same questions.

Today, three years later, I have been left behind by her, even seeing the dusty front, even the figures are missing. Behind that dust is not just the lack of knowledge and lack of knowledge. What I lack is the courage to challenge and the pursuit of self.

In the past, I was accustomed to setting a variety of life boundaries for myself because of natural inertia or panic and frustration. For example, I just don't understand accounting accounting thinking. I just don't have complicated operations in the futures market. I just can't understand econometrics...

The more I grow up, the more I learn to escape. When I encounter a problem that I don’t know, I always use "I won’t do this job anyway," or "I can’t use those theoretical derivations anyway," to comfort myself and find a lot of names. The reason for avoiding the bruises in those knowledge systems. I don't know whether in the future life and work, will it be because of the laziness and evasion of the present, but now, I finally understand, even if I don't care, I have too many others.

The world is getting too fast, and everyone else is flying all the way. If only you stop, because you are making excuses to avoid learning and accumulating, you will not only be left behind by your peers, but also later. A large number of later survivors surpass your level. It was really late to regret it at that time.

When I was a freshman, one of my most respected teachers said at a meeting that "you and young people of your age can be seen as a growing tree. Now for you, it is vital not to pay attention to the branches. It’s more prosperous, but how to deepen the roots. Because only the roots are deeper and firmer, the tree can be more and more prosperous.”

I couldn't listen to it at that time, and I don't think anyone understands this. Now, this is the simplest truth. I didn’t understand it until six or seven years later. I think the implied meaning in the teacher's words is: you can't set limits for yourself when you are young. When you try your best to learn knowledge, try your best to try new things and new experiences, and accumulate the experiences of human beings. lesson. Only in this way can we build a solid and solid foundation, absorb nutrients, and grow tall and straight. I can look back at my swaying fragile roots and malnourished branches, only to feel the ardent teachings of the teacher.

Last month, a public micro-signal that I was focusing on convened an event called "The next 30 days, every day there are new changes", which lists a lot of things that can be changed. As a person who complains frequently and complains, I have chosen the little thing of "not complaining every day".

After a month passed, I was surprised to find that I not only kept a smooth and calm mood every day, but also got rid of the anxiety that often plagued myself. More importantly, my attitude towards the whole life and the future became positive.

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I have never seriously thought about the devastating effects of my shortcomings of “frequent complaints and complaints”. Later, I felt that perhaps the negative emotions in life, such as anxiety, easy to give up, and lack of self-confidence, stem from this.

It turns out that not only in the structure of knowledge and in learning, the "limitation" that I give myself in my life is everywhere. For example, because my body is relatively stiff, many simple actions can't be done when the university first took a yoga class, but the yoga instructor at the time mistakenly thought that I didn't want to do it seriously. I severely reprimanded me: "You can't seriously complete one." Action?!"

So, until now, I have firmly remembered the embarrassment and embarrassment of the time, and I am not willing to learn yoga again. When others asked, I always said, "I am the kind of stiff body. I just can't do yoga." In fact, I seriously thought that the yoga instructor might just say a word, but let me be worried. For several years, I have always missed the opportunity to change my physical fitness through the sport of yoga. Borrowing a friend's more sturdy method is "Don't worry, you are the glass heart that can't be glued on the ground every day!"

Nowadays, I don't want to use the body stiffness as an excuse to refuse to practice yoga. I don't want to refuse to learn to swim with my bad body. I don't want to use my trouble as an excuse to refuse to make a light makeup before going out. I don't want to Too far from the bad weather is an excuse to refuse to plan a trip.

In the past, I always said a word, youth is so precious, it seems that how to spend it is a wave. I don't know if I want to soak in the library study room, or read the trip to see the magnificent world. The school tyrants are still admired by everyone. They resign from school and travellers also preach their values. There are many different opinions. In fact, most of us are confused and have doubts about the way we live. Therefore, there is constant exploration, constant overthrow, and finally find their own path.

I don't know how to go in the future, or how to live is the "correct" life. I just want to constantly try new things in life, don't give up easily, don't easily say no, keep a curiosity, live a life more and more, and narrow the life.

Discard the spiritual bacteria that "I can't do it," "I don't," "I can't do it," and go to the wider life!