Ten advice for secondary school students to college students

Ten advice for secondary school students to college students

Let me talk about my experience first. I started working at the age of 15. At the beginning, it was a half-worker, using a summer holiday to do a temporary and part-time model. After half a year, simply take a break from school and start a full-time promoter. I came to Shenzhen in 2004, from the beginning of the monthly salary of 1,600 yuan, to the current monthly salary of 30,000 yuan. I bought a one-bedroom apartment this year. After finishing this big event, I suddenly felt that my 24-year-old life had encountered a bottleneck and the workplace was also tired. After looking for a friend to talk about it, I decided to buy some books to recharge and find the goal of re-starting. Also share some of your own summary with you.

First, every stage of life must be taken seriously, because you are paving the way for your future.

Although I am very small, I work alone, but I find that people and things I touch at each stage have a relative impact on the future. When I first came out to do things, due to my young age, the application was rejected. In desperation, I go online to the chat room every day, want to know some people who work in the company, I thought that even if I don't work now, I will work in advance sooner or later. I don't have any background. It is good to know more people. The time I chose was 5 pm, because this time I was going to work, the staff was not very busy, and this time was very good for dinner, and I could chat when I was eating. Even learning from these uncles. I also really met some people who are willing to tell me some social reasons, which plays a key role. He took me into the business, taught me a lot of thinking, and when I was most confused and almost went wrong, I was told to get back on track. People are like strings, and they will have an impact when they vibrate each other.

Second, don't complain, you must learn from it.

I remember when I first came to Shenzhen, when I took the monthly salary of 1,600 yuan, I was very proud, very happy, and satisfied every day. But when I slowly came into contact with the city, when various pressures followed, I added a lot of complaints no matter how much or not the income increased. It hurts the people around you, and also puts yourself in a negative mood. In addition to mechanical work, it wastes time in complaining. But in every position in every company, I have actively learned a lot from it, and a lot of practical skills in the future. Even looking for sales tips, ways to do things, etc. In the end you will find that complaints have no benefit, only learning things can be used in the future. For example: you meet a villain, don't complain, learn how to guard against villains in the future. You won't be flattered, but if you are taken advantage of it, you have to tell yourself to learn to shoot a little bit, at least hypnotize yourself to praise people you don't admire.

Third, do not think that reading is useless.

When a graduate of a university graduates, I am afraid that I will suddenly find myself being fooled. The diploma unit does not recognize it, and the knowledge and technology cannot be used. In fact, contact with some bosses who have not read college, entrepreneurs, etc. will find that they always like readers. Because of the life on campus and the soaking of knowledge, you can avoid some thoughts of quick success and instant benefit, and it is not easy to be infected by the atmosphere of impetuousness. Being able to sink your heart to accomplish your goals is a great boost to your success. I still hope to relearn or return to campus in any way.

Fourth, look at yourself in the vision, and look down on yourself in practice.

Don't set limits for yourself, think you can only do this, and do it at most. The so-called: people go to the heights. Because of this society, once you stop, you can only decline. Don't limit your future. The company I was in the previous year can be stable at 8,000 yuan. There are quite a few young men and women who have graduated from an assistant to a manager for two years. When I said that I wanted to leave the company, they all persuaded me to say: 8,000 yuan can be paid, are you afraid to go out now? In fact, I left the company for two months. In the first month of the new company, I got more than 16,000, and I took 30,000 at the end of last year. In the past year and a half, only one month was paid less than 10,000 yuan. I don't know if 8000 yuan is their goal, but it is definitely not mine. Even 30,000 yuan is not my goal. Because we are paying for youth, we don't have the right to control, this 8000 is good, 30,000 or so, whenever the boss says no, there is no more. From the end of 2006, I entered the current industry, from the first company's salary of three or four thousand yuan, the second five or six thousand yuan salary, the third salary of 8,000 yuan, to the current salary of 30,000 yuan. It can be said that because of my restlessness, I am not satisfied, I will jump around like this. . However, the first company closed down half a year after I left, and the second company was also disintegrated within half a year. The third company's current business has also fallen sharply. It can be said that if I do the security, I am waiting to be laid off. But when you do things, everyone has to look down on themselves. No matter what kind of things, just do what you need. The face should be thick, the courage should be big, and the face should be put down.

Fifth, the workplace is deep, high-profile work, low-key people.

When entering a new company, the most important thing for colleagues is financial, and there are still a lot of people who are not high-ranking, but they are very likely to be relatives or cronies of the boss. And in other positions, many may have nepotism or friend relationships. Before the relationship network is filtered, please be low-key. Find out your colleagues' temper and live in harmony with them, so it's important to have a good mood for your day-to-day work. And these connections will also play a big role in your future workplace changes. But in doing things, there is still a certain desire for performance. Don’t think that everyone is not like the limelight. As long as you are doing good things for the company, and colleagues like you, the limelight is a good opportunity for you to occupy the leadership position.

6. Money is your accessory to success. Don't let money become the burden of your success, let alone hurt friends and lovers around you.

Coins has two sides, an angel, and a devil.

Seven, hobbies and specialties should not be left behind. One is to adjust the mind, and the other is to find a partner.

Hobbies and specialties are the greatest wealth of your first half of life and are not easily copied or plundered. Cherish the rational use of it.

Eight, to motivate yourself, do not mad yourself. Mind adjustment is also important.

Mental health is more important than physical health, because the hospital can heal your body and drugs can help you recover. But most of the help to the soul is still self-healing.

Nine, no matter how far away you are from success, as long as you know that every step, you are one step closer to success.

The most important thing in life is to find the explosion point. When you feel that the 1+1+1 equation makes you desperate, don't forget that everyone has the opportunity to get the life, such as: 2, 5, 7 and so on.

X. People are more important than things, things are more important than love, and love is more important than money.

People are the best teachers, saying that things are more respectful than words, and that feelings are more skillful than talking about money.