The man’s mind is aggrieved

"The man's mind is aggrieved, and the more the grievances, the bigger the mind."

In the eyes of others, Ma Yun, like many boys of the same age, is a typical poor student image: naughty, rebellious, reluctant, and love to fight...

The young Ma Yun is very fond of martial arts novels. He is very admired for the image of the heroes in the book. He also read a lot of stories about the martial arts and the knives. Influenced by the novel, Ma Yun also wanted to become such a "champion" in life, so Ma Yun became a child who loved to fight in the eyes of teachers, parents and neighbors.

"I was very small when I was a child, but I would fight." This is Ma Yun's description of his childhood character.

Ma Yun never cried, and never complained to his family. Winning is winning, losing is losing. Because of the fight, Ma Yun has been repeatedly punished. The most serious fight, the young Ma Yun was injured and was taken to the hospital, sewing a lot of needles. So far, from the small to the middle school, because of helping a friend fight, fighting for people, Ma Yun actually sewed 13 stitches. Also because of the fight, Ma Yun, who had been repeatedly punished, was forced to transfer to Hangzhou Eighth Middle School.

For the memories of this childhood history, Ma Yun pointed out that he was only a regular fight at the time, but he was not a fight. Ma Yun said that he never bullies others, but because he is small, others will bully him. However, Ma Yun rarely fights for himself, almost all fight for friends, because childhood Ma Yun has already valued the friendship between friends.

When he was young, Ma Yun not only often fought for people for friendship, but he was very sensitive at that time, which had a direct relationship with his family origin. Ma Yun’s grandfather is the head of the Kuomintang. As a “black five-child”, Ma Yun grew up in the bullying and contempt of his companions. At that time, Ma Yun had a huge amount of heroes who swallowed his voice, because he didn't want to make troubles and didn't want to let his family down. However, because of being deceived too much, this child, who has rarely arguing for other things and helping people in the early days, can't bear it, even if the consequences are to eat his father's "one board."

Once, or because of Ma Yun’s grandfather, when Ma Yun made trouble, when the police came to the house, many students squatted on the window to watch the fun. The police yelled at Ma Yun with a sentence that was often said at the time: "Only you are honest, you are not allowed to talk about chaos." At that time, the words made Ma Yun still fresh and unforgettable.

This sentence is also found in the language textbook. When the teacher talked about the class, Ma Yun had to listen to the scalp. When the teacher read the sentence, a child turned his head and looked at Ma Yun with a mocking look.

"哗", Ma Yun’s textbook has passed. The child was more fierce and threw the entire bag over. Ma Yun did not dodge, the iron pencil case corner in the bag just hit the forehead, suddenly blood flow like a note. However, Ma Yun’s inner pain is more severe than the forehead’s pain.

Ma Yun later had such a sentence: "The man's mind is aggrieved, the more grievances, the greater the mind." In this sentence, not only anger, grievances and self-deprecation, but also full of tolerance.

A person who can withstand suffering and grievances must have a broad mind. We often see some people in life because of some trivial matters and friends or colleagues, they never allow themselves to be a little wronged, if they are wronged, they will be worried and forget. Such a person is very difficult to achieve a great cause, because his chest is filled with trivial things, such people are very accustomed to "because of small loss." What we can be sure of is how big a person's mind is to decide what he is doing big.