Lowering the attitude is a kind of life wisdom

In real life, some people are used to taking me as the center and taking the lead in themselves. They always look at themselves too high, but they also see others too low.

This kind of person can't hold his tail when he is proud. This tail is called arrogance. I always thought that I was very great, I was very talented, I was full of versatility, I wanted to do great things, and I wanted to do great things. I always thought that this was not the case for others. It wouldn’t work either. I only thought that I was the best. I always thought that I had the most achievements and the most credit. The salary level is not to mention. The actual performance is arbitrariness, arrogance, arrogance, and arrogance. A person can't be arrogant, at least not to show his arrogance without hesitation. People who are arrogant are unpopular, and may even incur the embarrassment of others and put themselves in the position of the public. Especially when you are not irreplaceable by your own imagination, it is likely to be sacrificed by your boss.

When such a person is frustrated, there is always a grievance. This grievance always has to find opportunities to pour out, complaining is hard to avoid, and thus complaining, grotesque, and self-confessed to be ignorant and cynical. Because you can't see the excellence of others because you don't feel guilty; because you are cynical, you can't see the world's wonderful. Therefore, the psychology tends to lose balance, and the personality is often fragile and incompatible with the environment. Not only will such people not be accepted by the outside world, but they will be ridiculed and isolated and become inactive. A person can't have grievances, complaining not only can't solve any problems, but it may also expose you to more problems. In people's minds, blaming others shows that your mind is shallow, lacking self-confidence, and there is no courage to face difficulties and adversity independently.

To be a man must be lowered, even if it can be arrogant, can not be a lifetime; even if there are superhuman talents, can not be seen. If we lower our posture, we will not be too complacent, and we will not be willing to face new challenges further. If we lower our posture, we will be full of curiosity to learn a lot of knowledge and explore new fields; Attitude, we will treat people with sincerity and humility, and let everyone be convinced and willing to work with us; lowering our posture, we will not be able to sympathize with each other, they will be willing to help us. Therefore, lowering the posture is a kind of wisdom in life.

Lowering the attitude is also a style. In fact, to look down on yourself, this is the reflection of the bright and upright mind, the reflection of selflessness and fearlessness, and the revealing of the honest and honest realm. Those who look down on themselves are always content and cherish the success they have achieved. A person who is rich and still does not forget to look down on himself, he will not be proud and extravagant, thus diluting people's jealousy towards themselves and making them continue to develop in a harmonious interpersonal relationship; a person who is in a high position still looks down on himself. The person, he will not be arrogant and greedy, thus showing his gentlemanly demeanor, making people feel respectable. When you come out of the predicament, you will find that it is a rare and extraordinary, low-level peace to look down on yourself.

Lowering the posture is still a high-grade spiritual enjoyment of life. To look down on yourself is an understanding and grasp of the true nature of human beings, an inheritance and transcendence of human nature and history. Looking down on yourself, being able to tolerate the flaws and faults of others, you can see more wonderful things in the world; you can achieve your own ethics and make yourself shine the beauty of your soul. Only those who look down on themselves and constantly deny themselves can continue to learn lessons, strengthen cultivation, purify the soul, and improve their quality. They will be happy for the success of others, happy for their understanding, and make themselves in harmony. Life in the mindset.

Lower your posture and you will be a little more happy in your life. In the family, you may wish to look down on yourself and don't regard yourself as a "speaking" parent, so that you can better communicate with your children and get along with your loved ones. In your career, even if you are proud of your breeze, you may wish to look down on yourself. Don't think of yourself as a "overlord" above everyone else, so that you can meet and unite more like-minded people, hear more opinions and suggestions that are conducive to career development, and let yourself down-to-earth to expand your career; In it, you may wish to look down on yourself to make a buddy who is eager to keep your mind clear, so that you will always be a popular friend.

Lowering your attitude and looking down on yourself is not to despise yourself, to suppress yourself, but to know yourself more clearly; not to let us whisper, flatter and flatter, to lose the principle of being a human being, but to treat people and things with a sincere heart; It is not a low self-esteem, nor a weakness, but a kind of management in lucidity.

Let us lower our posture, make a modest paddy, hang our heads low, and prove our strength with full grain spikes.