Some things, when you are young, you will regret it for a lifetime.

Some things, if you don't do it when you are young, you may regret it for a lifetime. Especially when we are still on campus, we must do these things:

First, make your knowledge structure complete; second, make as many friends as possible in the university, because your lifelong friends and collaborators are usually from your university; third, if possible, in The university talks about a more focused love; fourth, make plans for the future work. The future work is related to how many friends you have and your professional knowledge. In addition, you need to master a major, as long as you are proficient, the professionalism must be appreciated.

I have a friend who studies Vietnamese. Vietnamese is rarely used, but the central leader must bring him to Vietnam because he is a first-class Vietnamese simultaneous translation expert. I also have a college student studying Chiang Kai-shek, who has studied for 10 years and is destitute. Later, the United States held a seminar on the history of modern Chinese characters. He talked about his own research in the report. As a result, an old professor below shed tears. After asking, the old professor also studied Chiang Kai-shek in the United States for 30 years. He was alone and could not find a successor. He did not expect that China had a "fool" and was studying Chiang Kai-shek. So the 50,000-dollar scholarship was one year, and my classmates followed him to study for doctoral students in the United States. After the reading, the old man retired and he became a professor at that school. When I went to see him, he had bought a small house on Long Island, New York, bought a car and married a wife to raise a dog. At that time, he told me that Yu Minhong, you see, all this is Chiang Kai-shek "give" me.

In fact, what you study is not important. What matters is that you really like it, and then someone will use you. Conversely, if you feel that you don't like this major, but it is suitable for finding a job, do you want to learn? Of course you have to learn. I am in such a state. I have never liked English. When I first tested English, it was just because mathematics could not. I don't like English because my imitation ability is not strong. But then I discovered that English became a tool of my life. Because of English, I became a teacher at Peking University. Professionals are sometimes a tool that can help you move forward. When climbing, you will care about trekking sticks. Do you like it or not? No, you only care if you can help you climb the summit. English is my trekking pole, although I don't particularly like it, but I know that I need this trekking pole if I want to climb a higher peak of life. I originally wanted to turn myself into the top 100 English experts in China. Later I found that there was no drama at all, because Chinese students are returning to China more and more, and some have stayed abroad for 10 or 20 years. How come back? Seeing English is higher than me. I can only narrow the scope and start to swear words, which has become a good English vocabulary expert in China.

In addition to the majors we study, we have to study more in college. A new rumor spread in New Oriental is called "the thickness of the underlying determines the height of the cause." The thickness of the underlying is mainly from two aspects: the first reading, reading a large number of books, your knowledge structure will naturally be complete, it will produce wisdom; the second is to enrich the life experience, combine the wisdom of life experience and the wisdom of reading It will become a real great wisdom, and it will become an endless source and tool for your future creative career.

I read 800 books in college. Some people will ask me, have you read the difference between forgetting and not reading? Actually it is totally different. Just like falling in love, a person who talks about love and then becomes a bachelor is more confident than a bachelor who has never talked about love. When he saw that someone was falling in love, he would say confidently beside him: "Hey, I thought that Laozi also talked about love." So if you really don't like reading, you must go to the bookstore to look at those. The world famous book, touch it by hand, this can also add a little human temperament.

The second thing in college is to make as many friends as possible.

To make a good friend, first you have to be a good person and be a reassuring person. If you are a good person, someone will help you in times of difficulty. Also, make friends as much as possible to find people who are better than you, and they can help you on your path to growth. Many of the best people who are working together in New Oriental are the examples I have studied in the past 20 years.

The third thing in college is to talk about a love. But having a very important precondition for falling in love is to love with one heart and one mind. The so-called single-minded love is not to say that only one love can be talked about in college, but that one can only talk about one at a time. How much do you want to love? There is a feeling like this: "Why is my eyes full of tears? Because I love you deeply." When you really fall in love with someone, tell her in the right way. She, not just in her heart. I was at a loss in college and only put love in my heart, afraid to say it was rejected by others. But in fact, the best intention is still expressed, even if the girl refused, can let her know that you are loving her. At the same time, if you pursue her, she will not be unhappy. When she goes home, she will write in her diary: "There is another boy chasing me today." One year I went to the United States, with a girl I liked in my previous class. Her husband is eating together. When I was eating, I said to her: "In fact, I have a special affection for you at the university." She said at the thigh, "Why don't you tell me?"

Another principle of falling in love is to talk about generosity. The so-called generosity means that when someone you love falls in love with other people, you must tell her generously. Your happiness is my happiness. Your happiness is My happiness, although my heart hurts, I will bless you all the way.

I always think that people always have a fate in the world. The most painful thing in the world is that you still love her deeply, but she doesn't love you anymore. But this is fate. Since the fate is exhausted, let us wait for the next fate to come. There will always be people in your future life who will love you and wait for you to join hands in the journey of the future.