The mountain is not coming, you are going

The mountain does not come, you will pass <br /> can not change others, change yourself; can not change things, change attitudes towards things. Otherwise, you belong to someone who can't live with yourself, and it belongs to someone who is not smart.
In the process of pursuing success, we will not be smooth sailing in all likelihood, we will encounter difficulties, we will certainly encounter bottlenecks, and there must be a time when the head touches the south wall.
The mountain is not here, I will pass. The eight words are full of vigour, enough to make the whole day complain that the "destiny is not good, the world is unfair, and the talents are not met" are ashamed. There are too many things, just like the mountains, that we cannot change. At least we can't change it for the time being. Shishan Dafa reveals that if things cannot be changed, we will change ourselves. If others don't like themselves, it's because they are not enough to be liked; if they can't convince others, it's because they don't have enough ability to convince others.
To change things, you must first change yourself. Only by changing yourself will you finally change others. Only by changing yourself first will you finally change the world that belongs to you. Mountain, if it doesn't come, let us go.
Think about the life we ​​face, in the end, do not come to the mountains, should not go to the mountains?
In fact, adjusting the ability to adapt with the variability of the external environment is much more intelligent than throwing out the screams of the self.
People who can recognize this kind of life must have a colorful life.
There is a photographer who takes pictures of the conference every year. The number of people is as few as dozens, and there are hundreds of others. But people always trouble him: there are always people closing their eyes. In order to unify the pace, the photographer shouted in accordance with the usual practice: "Please pay attention to everyone, I shout one, two, three, when shouting three, do not close your eyes!" But no matter how stressed, slammed down There will always be closed eyes. These people looked at the photos, naturally unhappy: we are squinting more than 90% of the time, why do you take photos when I close my eyes? Is this not my ugly?

Later, the photographer changed his mind and succeeded. He invited all the people who took the photo to close their eyes and listen to his password. They also shouted one, two, and three. They blinked together in the three words. Sure enough, the photos were washed out and looked at, and none of them closed their eyes. I am very happy.
Undoubtedly, if anyone encounters disaster and misfortune, their emotions will be affected. At this time, they must control their emotions. Don't be angry when you can't change anything with any attempt, we might as well learn to adapt. Sometimes, a kind of person who comes from adaptation can more stimulate the potential of life. When you have certain conditions and abilities, it is natural to surrender.
There is a lady who gave birth to a child two years after her marriage. Unfortunately, the child died of illness. Her husband also abandoned her. She is desperate and ready to commit suicide. The lady got on an old man's boat. The boat went to the deep sea and she was ready to jump into the sea. The old man said to her: "What is the difference between you and today's two years ago?" said the woman: "Two years ago, I was a single nobleman. I was not hungry when I was full of family. There is no such thing as a gentleman and no children. Worry. Now I have nothing." The old man said: "I see you are the same as two years ago. You didn't have a gentleman two years ago, now you don't have it; you didn't have children two years ago, and you don't have it now. And you don't have much. Change, still so young." Ms. suddenly wakes up and smiles: "I don't jump into the sea, let's go back!"
If you can't change others, you can change yourself. If you can't change things, you can change your attitude toward things. Otherwise, you belong to someone who can't live with yourself, and it belongs to someone who is not smart.
A philosopher said well:
If you can't be a avenue, then be a small road;
If you can't be the sun, then be a star.
It is not the size of the size that determines success or failure, but the best you. To do the best means change, and many things we can't change, but we can change our emotions by trying our own minds. Life is your own drawing, you need to color yourself, don't use a color to cover all the hues; learn to change, in order to paint brilliant. The mountain is not here, you will pass.