After the two dreams are shattered

After the two dreams are shattered, the process of growing up and growing up is a process of constantly finding and grasping opportunities in failure. Without success, there is no such thing as success. Life without frustration and failure is not rich. Life is like boiled water, pure but tasteless. Whether a person is rich in life, can not see his age, but depends on whether his life process is wonderful, but also depends on whether he can grasp the opportunity in the process of experiencing life.
In the end, I understand the truth that the opportunity behind the failure may be the best opportunity, which also makes me further strengthen the courage to face the failure. Later, frankly facing setbacks and failures became my normal state. In the face of failure, I will continue to inspire my fighting spirit.
Let me tell you two failures that have a turning point in my life.
The first time was my college entrance examination. I talked about the story of my college entrance examination in an article. At that time, there was no great ambition. As a child of a peasant, leaving the countryside to urban life is my dream, and the college entrance examination was the only way out of the countryside at that time. However, due to weak knowledge base and other reasons, my first college entrance examination failed very badly. I only got 33 points in English. In the second year, I took another test. In English, I got 55 points. It is still a famous name. I insisted on taking the test. In the third year, he was finally admitted to Peking University. Here I want to explain two points: The first point is the importance of persistence, because the persistence of ignoring failure is the basis of success; the second point is that ability and goal are directly proportional, ability increases, and life goals naturally increase. I didn't want to take the test of Peking University at the beginning. The teacher's college is my highest goal, but the college entrance examination score went up, and I naturally entered Peking University. This is the first time I have experienced the taste of failure and success.
My other unforgettable failure is the annihilation of my dream of studying abroad. In the late 1980s, China experienced a boom in studying abroad, and many of my classmates and friends went abroad. I also started to feel tempted under the pressure of family and society. In 1988, I took a high score on TOEFL. But when I went all out to fight for going abroad, the turbulent 1989 led to the US policy of studying abroad for China. In the next two years, the number of Chinese students studying in the United States has been greatly reduced. In addition, my academic performance at Peking University is not excellent. The dream of studying in the United States has been exhausted after three and a half years of hard work. I have lost all my savings together. In order to make a living, I went to Peking University to teach at the same time, and I was detained for violating the interests of Peking University.
In order to save my face, I had to leave Peking University. Life and future seemed to be in the dark. But it is these tortures that have made me find new opportunities. Despite the failure of studying abroad, I know the rules of going abroad and going abroad. Although I have no face to stay in Peking University, I am becoming more and more familiar with the training industry. It is this that helped me capture the biggest opportunity in my life: the creation of the Beijing New Oriental School.
A person can grow from the hardships and failures of life, just like the decaying soil can grow fresh plants. The soil may be decaying, but it can provide nutrients to plants; failure is a pity, but it can temper our wisdom and courage to create more opportunities. Only when we can face failure and test with a peaceful attitude can we mature and gain. And those failures and setbacks will become invaluable treasures in life, and it is worth keeping us in the depths of memory forever.