Fatal vices of losers

Fatal vices of losers

After Wen/Chouman enters middle age, many people will think about whether they have achieved success in their career. Of course, many of us have a lot of talent, but in reality we have not succeeded. Luck may be an important reason. But what is more common is that people's daily words and deeds pull themselves into the trap of failure, which inevitably brings bad luck to themselves. Therefore, we call such a trap a fatal "bad habit" of the loser.
Abuse 1: The illusion of self-deception.
Losers in life always like to deceive themselves. If you are only dishonest to others, this person is expected to achieve his goal at least in terms of money. But if this person can't talk to himself honestly, then his progress on the road of life is not to be counted. I dare not honestly admit that I have a lot of situations, such as what kind of situation I have in my life, what is the prospect of achieving my ideal goal, what are my shortcomings, and so on.
Bad habit 2: Lack of creativity.

I have told people over and over again that those who do not have basic life skills will depend on what will make the family willingly pay you, that is, people have something to gain. They also don't understand another obvious truth, that is, people only have to make the things they do more valuable, and the more they get. As you can see, people who are engaged in medicine, law, music or economic accounting can make people healthy, happy, have fun or harvest something. If economic success is what you are pursuing, then you must create or create something that others need in real life, not in dreams.
Bad habit 3: Scorn friends.
Most of the losers have a habit of likes to please and to those who do not have much help for themselves. They are slow to treat people who are friendly with themselves. I am very surprised to find this "law". The truth is, if you don't have the help of your friends and support the world with bare hands, don't expect to think about it. In the case of every loser I have seen, the inability to make friends and maintain friendships between friends is always one of the reasons.
Bad habit 4: Disrespectful words and deeds.
The rudeness of the loser to treat people is also very common. They can't make appointments on time, they don't appreciate the gifts they give, and they don't apologize for their arrogance and mistakes.
I like to estimate the success of a person by counting the length of time the guest is late. The high-caliber, busy, and responsible customers can always make appointments on time, but the idlers who are doing nothing all day will be late, or even simply not. Appearance.
Bad habit 5: Dressing improperly.
I also know a young and beautiful lady who has been trying hard to find a job. I introduced her to an interview. This company has always been proud of its good family image. Unbelievably, the lady appeared in the general manager's restaurant in shorts and T-shirts and high-heeled sandals. From the moment she appeared, she had already ruined the interview.
The wearer's dress is not so decent. They don't wear ties or wear sneakers, they go to the interview, they go to the party in jeans, and everyone else is dressed in a formal dress.
Bad Six: Resentment is especially good.
Losers are often disappointed with their future. They don't like their work and the environment. They always think that the people around them are hypocritical and stupid. They feel unhappy about everything, and they are frustrated and bored. No hope to spread to the people around. They inadvertently showed that they lost confidence in their lives and deeply convinced that they could not do more and better. They did not express this to anyone who would listen to him, but they did not realize that it was equal to others. Advertising, I am a failure person.
Bad habit 7: unnecessary arguments.
Losers always like to argue for reasons. Maybe he would think that friends and colleagues will be deeply touched by his skill and cleverness, and he will be deeply impressed. This is really a big mistake. Business-ridden people don't like to waste time for unnecessary arguments.
Bad habit: Do things upside down.
The loser can't prioritize things. When I was in school, I met such a person, and I was smart and handsome. His father was a rich man and he was very successful in his career. He himself has been a small leader in an apartment building. He has not been there for many years. But when I advised him to test civil servants, he always insisted that he was not available, too busy, saying that hobbies have taken up a lot of time and so on. And these words he told me since 1996, until now! The fact is that there is no time in the world to do a lot of time, even if it is really important, but the losers in the business life never understand that it is an irrefutable truth to distinguish things. They never seem to know that it is not a loss to give up energy that is relatively unimportant and to focus on the matter. On the contrary, it is a very good deal.