Girl, don't choose comfort when you can best suffer.

Girl, don't choose comfort when you can best suffer.

There are three types of personnel recruited by our company. One is property consultants, which is called marketing, the other is project sales, which is sold, and the third is administrative clerk.
Every time I let the interviewing women pick, often they are willing to do administrative, followed by sales, and few picks. Even if I tell them that the property consultant has the highest basic salary, there is a commission, and it is very easy to be a manager in the future. It is very easy to transfer to the administrative department or the project department. They still will not change their choices. The order of their choices is exactly the opposite of how much money is made, and it’s strange.
In fact, their order of choice is chosen according to the pressure sequence of the work. That is to say, they would rather find one, less stressful, stable, and leisurely work. Even if they make less money, the chances of appreciation are small and development is difficult. Unfortunately, such a person, even the Ministry of Administration will not hire her, because they have no career, and will not learn, unless the company happens to have an urgent lack of posts.
Today, the administration recommended a good lady Ms. Liu. I went to my office for an interview. I glanced at her resume and saw her, but let her tell her. She has been a salesman and changed for 4 years. Three projects, rested for a year in the middle, now 28 years old, came to our company and hope to continue to receive customers' work on the project. They are all under the age of 25, and some of them are really good, but I really worry about their future, because, very likely, their future is very troublesome, and even after the tragic second half.
I sought peace in the most painful time. When I was most able to learn, I talked about love, because their plan is to marry and have children before the age of 28, so dressing up, making friends is their whole world, of course, enjoying the joy of youth. Time is also the most attractive to them. Even if you take time off and resign, you will not be taken seriously.
Naturally, they were 28 years old and married to a rich or potential man. The reason why this man marry her is often because she is blooming. At that time, her husband may still be in the development stage of her career. She listened to her husband’s words and resigned. She became a full-time wife, and some of them still work unintentionally until they have children.
For women who have been at the bottom of the workforce, having children is almost the end of their career. Unless they are in public institutions, if they are general units, they often resign, and when they are pregnant, they feed their children for half a year. When everything is restored, it is a headache to think of going to work. First of all, it is not good to find a leisure job because that At that time, I was looking for an errand that could go home earlier. Otherwise, I couldn’t take care of the children. I didn’t feel relieved. Secondly, I found that I had to hire an aunt to replace myself. In a calculation, Auntie was more expensive than herself. As a result, I gave myself an excuse for education. Children, personally bringing children, until they grow up, in fact, the lack of pursuit of the cause, as well as the fear of social work, also caused her to become a full-time wife.
The economic burden of the whole family fell on her husband's body. Her husband's continuous efforts and study in his career, continuous exchanges with business relationships, improved quality, increased positions and money, and a growing circle of friends, and continuous social progress. Husband is also constantly improving.
My wife is not so busy. The child is in kindergarten. She is alone. The child goes to school. She is still alone. Sometimes she goes shopping with another wife who is not going to work. She finds that she and the society are getting farther and farther away. On several occasions, I have the courage to step into the society again, but I am not old, and the original grassroots work, she can't do it. If she can't do it, now she can't do it. In fact, such a woman will not be particularly virtuous. The housework has slowly lost interest. After all, it is a woman of the new era, and I am willing to be so happy at home. However, I regret it. When I was young, I didn’t study seriously. I didn’t study anything when I was in office. I didn’t really concentrate on any industry. I didn’t have a skill. How to start, how to persist, when I can suffer, I have fun, life. The candy is eaten up, and now in addition to constant hesitation, affecting the mood, and even annoyed her husband.
In fact, she can enjoy it. After all, there is a happy home, a husband who loves her and a lovely child. It’s just that she often complains about the cumbersomeness of housework. She dedicated everything for this family. Her husband is too lazy to lift her bar. In fact, my husband wants to say that I am fighting for this family. Her biggest wish is to let her husband talk to her patiently for a while, but he went home very late, because of socializing, even if he returned home, he did not talk, watch TV sleep, the woman did not let him sleep, quarrel, her husband felt this It is increasingly difficult for women to understand that women feel that men do not seem to love her so much. Quarreling, for a happy couple, is a flirtatious, and for the indifferent couple, is to break the numbness, break the numbness, often annoying, often completely disgusted.
The different roles of two people in social life have determined that there are huge differences between the two people. This difference has caused a reduction in the common language. The charm of women who attracted men at the beginning is no longer there, and the embarrassment and nervousness are constant. Harassing the man, until the man, really has an affair. A woman who lives in fear, with her own inferiority that she does not want to admit, when her husband is asleep, secretly checks her husband's cell phone, what a pitiful sight, what is found, and what can be done.
Woman, the tragic life has begun, in fact, it has already begun. At this time, she will be old in loneliness. She will be with her housework and be accompanied by TV. If she is energetic, she will be with her parents. As a revenge, she will even squander her husband's money. She is not happy, even on the Internet. In fact, there is nothing on the Internet. There may be a leisurely and boring person who will talk to her for her husband. Her husband, not only told her less, seems to move very little, in short, hopeless suffering, no suspense. Until the old. If she is divorced, she will fall into despair because life was once hers.
A woman, if she has no career at a young age, has no study, since she had given birth to a child, life has become more and more tragic and a life of suffering.
And a woman with a career, constantly enriching herself, love is not the whole of her life, he and men, too common language, giving birth to her, just a small fallacy, because she is already in management, I have a The friend of the decoration company, the deputy general manager, the seemingly weak woman, she was before the birth, the boss drove her home, she naturally produced, when I was less than a month, I called her, she was on a business trip in Wuhan . The children are very healthy and the family is well arranged. Her example may be extreme, but it illustrates a lot of problems.
Men have an affair, in fact, it is really not because of lasciviousness, to tell the truth, if you are troubled by the crux of your career, your wife and you are short-lived because of the trivial parents, you and her say business management, she and You said that the discounts in the mall, you are very sleepy, because of the pressure, she took the pillow to yell at you, you said how annoying, you look at it again, the opposite woman, face-faced, mouth full of mud, you can say such a woman, Not only will she suffer, but she will also bring trouble to her husband.
A woman with a career is very beautiful. Seeing that they are in the world of men, the women in the study are beautiful, the women in the study are beautiful, the talents are harmonious, and the life of such women is unspeakable. They may not be vase-like. Beautiful, but it will make you quiet, make you sweet, let you enjoy, let you respect.
In modern society, the economy is so developed. A woman is a full-time wife. If it is a woman's decision, it is because she has already withdrawn. If it is a man's decision, it is really selfish and made a mistake to herself.
I told the interview girl about this meaning. She said that she knew it would be like this, but she still felt that she didn't want to suffer and risk. She believes that men who love her will not be like that.
What is suffering? You really haven't seen hard work, look at the moving company and the workers on the construction site. Can you count on the phone in the office? In an air-conditioned high-rise office building, is it hard to visit customers? Listen to the boss's words, take a serious look at the book, look up the information on the Internet, count hard? Such female staff, it is very interesting to see their interpersonal relationships. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but are masculine, not working together, but can play or share a piece of music. of.
This is the reason why China's current divorce rate is high. The so-called Chinese divorce is happening constantly. In my opinion, it will continue to happen. Why is a woman just a tool for giving birth to a child, and after she has given birth to a child, she will become a nanny. Should she use all her energy for her family? Don’t forget that she has also been well educated and she has had dreams. But what changed her life path?
Of course, a man without a career will be even more miserable. His misery is that he has never eaten sugar in his life. More miserable than a woman.
This document is given to all women in the workplace. Because the world is complex, it is very likely that some people will feel that the words are radical and partial. After all, happy families are the same, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. Women should be brought to love, men must educate women to be ambitious, how indifferent and inconsiderate, only the boss will be so mean and pragmatic, but this despicable boss, giving women and men in the company With the same opportunity for equal promotion, he is saddened by the confidantes who have fought side by side with him. The female staff who have cultivated their business talents have withdrawn from the professional stage early, and those who pursue equality are secretly silent. The woman is weak.
How attractive is a woman who pursues a career. This charm is so thick, her hard work, and her talents at any time, how charming, how can not withstand the years of scrutiny. Such women should give them more thoughtfulness and care, because it is worthwhile. Li Zongsheng's "Guiren Song" has a few classic lyrics. "There is a cause and a result, all in one thought...". The difference between a thought and a lifetime. Happiness lies in a moment of change.
Those female employees who are still innocent, pampered, and complaining about depression, if your career goal is no goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work, I really don’t know which day, your boyfriend will let you resign in one sentence. It is. They have received too much care. They have time to rest and entertain. Their future will spend the rest of their lives in lazy, and can they talk to them? I don't think they have any charm, especially for me. When they resigned, I was almost too lazy to stay.
Because of the jokes I said, they can't understand, the tragedy I said, they are jokes.
Come and join with all the female compatriots! If God treats you kindly and gives you a capable husband and a superior life, please don’t converge on your own fighting spirit; if God doesn’t love you enough, and set up obstacles, please don’t wear out your confidence and struggle forward. The courage.