Be a strong person

Be a strong person
Strong prejudice is thought?
My friend, Professor of South China Normal University, Dr. Liu Lianghua, a talented and talented young man, once had a famous saying: A person with strong prejudice is a truly thoughtful person. This sentence has a wide influence among his students. If I think of "strong prejudice" as having a unique and profound insight, and having a persistent pursuit of the spirit of persistence and persistence, it is a kind of mistake, not a superficial, I think it makes sense. In an objective sense, everyone's opinions can be a kind of prejudice. Because no one can fully integrate everything in this world into his own vision, each person can only gain a little understanding and insight from his own position, his knowledge structure and experience. However, this sentence is also easy to misunderstand, thinking that prejudice is good, and the more prejudice the better. In fact, a person's prejudice is strongly subjective. It is often irrational, lacking tolerance, and irrational emotionalization, and it is often easy to expand this bias.
Therefore, I prefer to say that a person with a strong inner heart is a person who is truly thoughtful. The inner strength is strong, indicating that he has a relatively complete set of views on the world, society and life. In Buddhism, it is said that there is no leakage. It is already mature in the chest. People with strong inner strengths are not necessarily guilty, sturdy outside, and may even be weak, but they are strong inside. A person with a strong inner strength must be a person with a firm belief. This belief is not verbally, but from the bottom of my heart. Not only in knowledge, but also with deep emotions, rich life experience, and broad vision. This inner strength often means that he is extremely confident, and this self-confidence often comes from him. Deeply aware of his shallowness, he has a special open mind and an open mind. He can listen carefully to any different voice, think again with his own mind, and keep his self-confidence. A vigilance. Therefore, he will not refuse to listen to it, think about different voices. However, because of his inner strength, he will not be anxious when he hears different voices, he will immediately change his own thoughts, and in the face of different voices, learn to use logic, common sense, common sense, intuition, experience and science. The method is re-examined once. In fact, such a test will not be the first time, but repeated many times, and become a normal state. Repeated many times, became the norm, still stuck, and the latter things are stable. In the heart, there are more things that are really stable, and he is strong. Therefore, a person with a strong inner heart does not change, but no longer needs to change what is in the core of belief.
If the core of a person’s belief is constantly changed, then his spiritual world is still invisible. His spiritual world is still confused and chaotic. Such a person, even if he says, says it today, tomorrow, The position is not firm, the logic is not consistent, and there is no opinion on what you want and what kind of life you have thought about.

What is the core of belief? It is your world view, outlook on life and values. How do you think about the world, how do you know life, how do you think about happiness and meaning, these things are completely self-consistent in a powerful person. There is nothing right or wrong here, but it must be self-consistent. Here, your thoughts and beliefs and your life experience, life experience, your knowledge structure, your rational understanding, your role in society, will not be logically conflicted between life experience and rational understanding. Split. There is no insincereness, and things that will not be done contradict the words spoken. If a person reaches this point, it is a person with perfect personality and a strong heart.
Strong inside is the spiritual aristocracy

A person with a strong inner heart is a person who is truly thoughtful; or a person who is truly thoughtful is also a powerful person. Such a person, even in the so-called adversity in the secular world, is peaceful, confident, and full of happiness. Because his world is no longer just a secular world, he has his own perfect inner world. In this world, he has his own standard of happiness and happiness. In this kingdom, he enjoys the inability of others to enjoy. I can't understand happiness and happiness. Nearly two hundred years ago, the Danish thinker Golkegor had a poor life and a short life. However, he was strong inside and full of happiness in his life. The happiness of such people is difficult for ordinary people to understand. A person with a strong inner heart is actually a spiritual aristocrat. He realized that man, as a kind of elf, a thoughtful person, has limited physical life, but also realizes the infinite nature of thought life. He knows how to align his own physical life with his own world of thought, and he can recognize the material standards of the secular world and the alternative coordinates of his own spiritual world. Therefore, people with strong inner strength do not sleep, are not anxious, are not impatient, and are the worst plan in life at any time and place, and pursue the best. All disasters and pains have been thought through in his life, and even rich and real experience. He died of death. Therefore, all the changes no longer made him feel that the world was suddenly reversed. Life will be unrecognizable. A firm belief can support him to enter the earth and live long.
His life no longer waits anxiously, but acts resolutely. His standard of action is internal, not external. Not to be happy with things, not to be sad, to be insulted, to be indifferent. He believes that any experience in life, including those brought about by misfortunes, will turn into a unique experience in his life. And these experiences will be turned into his ideological wisdom and become a more powerful material in his heart. He believes that human flesh is one of the most vulnerable things in the universe, but his spiritual world can be indestructible. He also believes that in this world, his life experience is unique and no one can replace it. This is a source of strength for his confidence. The awakening of life makes him love others, first carefully protects himself, and then uses his glorious life to inspire this society. If you love someone, if you take care of yourself badly, your heart is very chaotic, your heart is very fragile, then he will undoubtedly lack the power of love. A bad person, even if he loves others, will only make others It's as bad as yourself. Therefore, he knows to cherish every inch of his life. Therefore, a person with a strong inner heart has his own life theme and meaning of life. In the sense of life, he firmly believes that heaven and earth are the only ones. And believe that everyone's life has this right, he respects himself, knows how to respect others, he pursues happiness, and knows how to respect the happiness of others. He makes choices and knows how to respect others' choices.
Think with life

Thoughtful people are not necessarily those who have original ideas. Those accepted ideas will have a strong resonance with his life and life. That kind of thinking will also make his heart stronger, thinking and human. Life is inseparable. Being thoughtful means that he starts to think with his own life as a human being, and begins to experience life and feel the world with his own life feelings. He does not judge his own value and meaning without the reputation of others, and does not live in the eyes of others. Even if people all over the country are enemies of him, even if people all over the world misunderstood him and isolated him, he can live a light but firm life. At this time, "the most lonely person is the most powerful person in the world." Ibsen’s words show that in the face of truth and truth, he is the one who dares to become the enemy of the nation. To become a person referred to by a thousand people, that is, a person who is truly thoughtful, the inner world of such a person has reached the point of being extremely powerful. No matter what era or country, such a person will be a very small group. However, one thing that can be affirmed is that such a person will have a more living soil in a pluralistic, open, equal and free society. Moreover, such a person will no longer become an enemy of the nationals, and it is not easy to become a lonely peak. He does not have to use his "no way, ride on the sea" as his way out, although he may be alone, but loneliness is here. A kind of happiness is a kind of enjoyment. A strong inner person, a rich man, he does not care how many people misunderstood him, and does not care how many secular prejudice, because his heart is a perfect world, a person's inner rich enough to make up for some material scarcity. A person with a strong inner heart is a person with real thoughts, and a person with real thoughts must also be a powerful person.