Give yourself an opponent and always motivate yourself

It is said that the greatest sorrow as a hero is not defeated by others, but there is no one in the battlefield that can compete with one of the higher and lower opponents.

A famous speed skater said: "The most terrible thing for a person is that there is no opponent." He used to be the jewel of sports, and he won the international competition. But he also has time to win the championship. He has a strong enemy, is an American star, as long as the opponent participates, he will be full of strength, swearing first. But once the opponent is absent, his heart will be empty, and the game will not be so desperate, sometimes just for a moment, the medal will be lost.

In real life, many people have been brilliant for a while, but they have gradually dimmed themselves because they no longer look for opponents. There are also many people who are ordinary and never seek for their own opponents; therefore, on the big stage of society, Life has been silent.

It should be said that everyone wants to be a hero of fame and fortune, become a dazzling star, and make his life flourish. However, many people tend to slack off themselves and gradually become accustomed to ease, and finally end up in a bland.

Of course, not everyone has to be a hero, and not everyone has to be a star. But it is ok to find an opponent for yourself to enrich your mind, strengthen your body, and constantly meet opportunities and challenges.

The waterfall is looking for a deep pool as an opponent. It is a moment of leap, and it creates a beautiful and spectacular splash of silver. When diamonds look for rocks as their opponents, they can produce a strong song of raging fire in lonely and boring work, in order to release their energy in the tedious days and shine their own glory.

Find yourself an opponent, just as the fighter is looking for a sword; the lyrics are looking for melody; the camel is looking for the desert; the diamond is looking for porcelain...

Of course, to find an opponent for yourself, is not blindly looking for "opponents", rather than looking for "adversary. Looking for an opponent is not a temporary ability to enemies, all sides of the enemy, and definitely not to knock the opponent to the ground, and then panting Score the outcome and the level.

Find yourself an opponent in life and study, that is, find a good reference for yourself, constantly motivate yourself, absorb the strengths of others, strengthen yourself, temper yourself, and let yourself continue to meet opportunities in the ups and downs of the years. And challenge, and take the experience and lessons as your own growing nutrition.

Finding an opponent for yourself is also a kind of spirit. As Darwin once said: natural selection, survival of the fittest. In real life, finding an opponent for yourself has not affected the extent of human survival, but it is undeniable that people can only enrich themselves and temper themselves in a competitive atmosphere.

In philosophy, everything in the world is connected and contradictory. Finding an opponent for yourself is actually based on the premise of acknowledging contact and contradiction. It embodies a spirit of actively resolving contradictions, and embodies the persistence of "the road is long and the road is long and the way I will seek it." Only in this way can we show a strong, beautiful beauty to the fate, and the whole life will be more exciting.

Therefore, whether in life, in learning, and in future work, you should always find a good opponent for yourself and motivate yourself to make progress.