Don't blame the reality, you are not enough.

Going far away, coming and going for more than ten hours, it was boring, and I turned out some old movies. I watched "You at the same table" in one breath, and read "The Year in a Hurry", a very youthful story. Two people who are very in love, thought that they would last forever, but eventually broke up inexplicably. The film pushes all these reasons to reality, there is no way, the reality is so, in the face of powerful reality, how to shake the unsettled love, will become vulnerable.

This reason is so reasonable that people are speechless. Whether it is love or dreams, or everything else, when it is inexplicably lost, a "reality is so", everything has a sympathetic explanation. Not only movies, but in life, such examples are everywhere.

After a small A graduate, a person drifts north. She is full of flowers and imaginations in the future. She wants to find a good man who loves her and loves her in this city with unlimited possibilities. Ingenuity and hard work, become the golden goddess of the workplace. The love business has a bumper harvest, and this kind of life, only to bring strength, is what she is striving for.

In that big and endless city, she lived in the basement, disappeared from the sun all the year round, and worked overtime until late at night. She didn't dare to go home alone, and it would be one night in the office. I have received many criticisms, have been criticized by my colleagues, and have been suppressed by the leaders. However, no matter how hard life is, every time she watches her Weibo, she is filled with high-spirited fighting spirit. She is like a warrior, who is in the city and is struggling and strong.

Such a small A is really good to be happy. Whenever I have doubts about the future, I will go to her microblog to find motivation. I feel that a girl like her will realize her dreams. Even if she can't realize it, she will always walk on the road to her dreams. Life is full of hope.

However, some time ago, Xiao A suddenly did not update Weibo, and contacted her on WeChat, only to know that she was going to marry. Wow, did she finally find the male god in her heart? Just opened her mouth and wanted to be happy for her. The story behind it immediately caught me off guard.

She said that the person she is about to marry is a middle-aged man. She does not love him. He does not love her much. She just thinks that she is young and beautiful, can fill the gaps in life, and she does not lose face.

I was shocked and asked Xiao A. Since I don't love, why do you want to marry? Why are you so wronged? Xiao A said, no way, this is the reality, I can't stand it alone, I want to find a shoulder to lean on. But now the shoulder is so hard to find, let alone warm and intimate to understand that she loves her, even a slightly decent man is scarce. She has no money, no power, no room, no car, and she is not a goddess. In the two sex markets, there is really no advantage. The demand for the other half is lowered and then lowered. Finally, it is reduced to anyone who is willing to marry as long as someone is willing to marry her. The point.

After chatting with Xiao A, I feel that I am not good for the whole person. It is also a person who has been defeated by reality. Is it really so terrible?

It seems like a terrible thing, like a friend V, likes to paint, and tries to contribute to the magazine when he is in college. The illustrations are also on the shelves. This made her dream like a steamed hoe, and kept expanding. In fact, her dream is very simple, that is to become an illustrator, draw a lot of beautiful illustrations, earn enough money to make a good life.

After graduating, everyone was holding the hot sun, erecting a sensitive nose like a dog, looking for a job opportunity everywhere, but she kept herself in the rented room, kept painting, and kept painting. At that time, we all envied her and envied that she was working hard for her dreams. Most of us didn't even know how to start from it, at least, her goal was clear.

In those two years, she really had a hard time. The income of the illustration was not enough to maintain her daily life. She often relied on friends to help her. She had to work hard to take care of her family. Every time she called, she had to fabricate herself in a certain office building. lie. She is anxious, insomnia, acne, hair loss, and keeps on her feet.

We all feel that the small V that works hard will become an excellent illustrator. When she becomes famous, maybe we all still roll in the dust.

However, two years later, Xiao V suddenly announced that she never painted again. The painting was not as beautiful as she imagined. This road is too difficult to walk, and the thorns are so thick that she has already stabbed her. She needs to live, she needs to make money, she needs to live a bright day, so she decided to go out to work, to be a hardworking white-collar worker, although she can not make a fortune, so that she can be self-reliant.

We all pity for her, but she said that the reality is so cruel, the dream is not worth mentioning, in the face of powerful reality, all dreams are naive and ridiculous.

However, is this really the case? Do we really have to bow our heads in the face of reality and must accept the fate that has been defeated by reality?

I know that some people, in the face of cruel reality, always cling to, and then, have a good love, and realized the original dream. You can take a look at those successful people, which one has not fallen in the real world? However, they fell and they climbed up. They never gave in to reality. In the end, they got everything they wanted.

Xiao A has rushed himself in the face of reality, but I know that writer Zhou Chong has fallen a lot in reality. When he was in his thirties, he finally waited for a man who knew she loved her to give her freedom. Xiao V throws his dreams aside in reality, but I know that illustrator Xia Da, who once locked himself in a rental house, like an ascetic, thought that it would not pass, but she refused to give up, and finally, let the dream flash bright.

No matter how cruel the reality is, there are always some people who will always stick to it. Regardless of love or dreams, or everything else, as long as you persist, you can stand the loneliness, you suffer lonely, you raise your head proudly in front of life, you will find that reality is bullying and hard rogue if you are in it Retreating in front of you, it will force you to retreat, if you go ahead, it takes you no way.

Really don’t take reality as an excuse. All the things that are defeated by reality are because you are not persistent enough.