How many "unlimited", and finally became "great joy"

My friend went to Japan to study for a year, and the day before yesterday, we gave him the wind. After chatting for a night, I suddenly felt that something was wrong.—This guy didn’t leave his hand before, but today he didn’t smoke.

Ask him and say no.

This is really anecdote. It is said that he had been seriously ill with surgery, and his wife’s pregnancy and childbirth did not allow him to leave the smokers’ organization. Why did he quit when he went to Japan?

The friend sighed: It is helpless.

It turns out that he is in Japan, and of course he can't smoke in the classroom. Most of the public places are smoke-free. The most troublesome thing is that he lives in an apartment with a Japanese alumnus. The classmate is super sensitive to smoke. "The nose is better than the police dog." "Don't say that he smokes in the apartment. Even if he pulls it out from the outside, he can smell it out, and then he must always pretend to be strict and persuade, and then grumble and complain for a long time." The friend is comparable to the Sun Wukong who was put on the curse. After being stunned by the roommate, he thought that he couldn't adjust the room. He had to endure it and didn't smoke it. After one year, he actually quit the cigarette.

The friend's wife said that smoking the cigarette is the biggest gain of her husband's trip. She thanked the Japanese roommate from the heart.

This is very interesting.

Life is sometimes like an old urchin. It pushes you into the corner, letting you accept its will painfully under the helplessness, and often after you have completed it, it is a good thing. This article comes from the dream

I have a second sister. When I was young, my family was far away from the unit. I went to work every day and walked a dozen miles. After seven or eight years, I got a good body. Now I am almost seventy years old. I still have a lot of good food. I almost never go to the hospital. My mom is not an opponent. Now it seems that I have to thank those years of violent walks, but think about who would like to go that hour every day, and suffer and cost the shoes and work. According to my mother, at that time, because the second widower refused to buy a bicycle, the second wife almost divorced him. Of course, the second thing is definitely not recognized.

In fact, this kind of thing from "unwill" to "great joy" is actually a lot: Pu Songling has spent more than 50 years in the examination of the imperial examinations, but he has no choice but to write "Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio" at home. Li Shizhen also tried repeatedly, plus the frail and sick, had to turn to the doctor, and eventually became a big device.

Therefore, in the face of fate, everyone is a child. There are too many times when no one can see the deep meaning of his old man. Even if you look at the autumn again, it is difficult to know the true meaning of what you are doing.

You think that you are suffering for not being able to smoke. In fact, it is a greater pain after the reduction of the internal organs.

You think that doing the meaningless rush every day is actually saving the health for your old age.

Many times, you have no choice but to walk in Huashan. You have to suffocate your head and finally walk into the infinite spring.

This is the best place in life.

Of course, there are many bad things in life. There are also times when you are taking a lot of choices and all kinds of pictures are laid out in front of you. You carefully and carefully selected the best one, but finally found out that it is wrong.

This is wonderful and not good, there is God's will, and there are people. Those who finally come to great joy, whether or not they have another choice at the beginning, usually have the persistence of gnashing their teeth and have a deep and painstaking effort.

When people always have pain, grievances, confusion, and despair, when you encounter such a stage of life, you may wish to try to think this way: These pains that fate gives you are likely to have great significance, but you can't see them for the time being. Just let it go, swallow it, stick to it, and see if there will be a beautiful sky after the storm.

The meaning of life is often outside your eyes. Those who work hard have reason to believe that all sufferings imply happiness.