The one who will always apologize

Lao Ding has no education, no appearance, no money. The only advantage is that he is honest and diligent. He is one of the thousands of ordinary people who float in this metropolis. In the crowd, he is like a piece of sand falling in the Sahara. When we estimated that the old man would succeed, it would have to be too tired to vomit blood.

The tenth job of Laoding is to be a waiter in a restaurant. One day, the old Ding, who had just paid a salary, asked me to go to the restaurant where he worked, because the business of the hotel was quite good that day, but he was too busy, so the old Ding, who had already taken the leave, had to return to work. Eating alone, he ran around and talked to me.

There are more and more people in the hotel. When the old Ding carefully took a pot of hot soup and walked past a guest, the male guest who was talking to the opposite female partner and suddenly swung his hands and hands suddenly hit the old Ding. Holding the pot, some hot soup was sprinkled on the male guest.

"How do you work? Call your boss!" The male guest jumped up and roared. The room suddenly calmed down. Many people saw the scene just because the tone of the male guest caused everyone from the beginning. The attention, obviously who is right and who is wrong, everyone has a number. Unexpectedly, the male guest has become more and more unreasonable to make trouble, and the spit star sprayed the old Ding face.

I was too angry to pick up my sleeves and I would go over. Lao Ding kept apologizing to the other party: "I'm sorry, sorry, it's all my fault, are you okay?" Although the other party is arrogant, he also knows what to lose. To the attitude of Lao Ding, he waved his fist and shouted a few words, then hurriedly left with his female companion.

After the male guest left, Lao Ding smiled and nodded to everyone: "I am not good, I am disturbing everyone, I am sorry!"

Soon after, Lao Ding rose his salary. The reason given by the boss is very simple: "You can't let the sweet people suffer, and there are such kind people in the hotel, the business will do better." The good-tempered old Ding not only raised his salary here, but also won many repeat customers. Good feelings, and many of them have become friends.

Lao Ding worked in the hotel for a long time, until the boss decided to close the restaurant to go home to develop, and then Ding was looking for a job to send the courier.

Lao Ding was in a bad luck. Just after sending it for a while, the courier encountered an accident. Once, the old Ding, who was too busy to go, sent a courier after he was dark. He was so tired that he was hit by a car on the road. Fortunately, he was only skin wounded. After a simple dressing in the hospital, Lao Ding picked up the courier and rushed to the customer's home. It was not too late when I arrived at the customer. The recipient saw the old Ding, who was late, and suddenly ignited the fire, and the old Ding was swearing at the face. Lao Ding did not explain, and still apologizes as always. "I can't help it, it's all bad for me, you are suffocating." The female customer trained the old Ding for a long time before she repelled her anger. After she signed the express delivery, she found that the pants on the right leg of Lao Ding had been broken, and there was blood on it. . "What happened to you?" she asked, wondering. Lao Ding simply said things, the other party knows that Lao Ding is running out of the hospital with a wound to send himself a courier, and his face will be red.

The old Ding sent a courier for a long time, he also got a lot of new friends because of his good temper. Later, Lao Ding, who had a little savings in his hand, decided to go back to his familiar catering industry and opened a small restaurant. We are getting more and more busy, and there are fewer and fewer contacts, but there are always good messages from the old Ding.

Until one day, I received an invitation from Laoding, only to know that his first restaurant was about to open. On the opening day of the restaurant, the old Ding, who greeted the guests at the door, quickly walked over after seeing me. He held my hand in both hands and said: "I'm sorry, sorry, I am too busy, and I have fewer contacts. This is all I am not right."

At the wine table, I realized that the business of Laoding was so smooth because he started to open the restaurant. The friends he had known before did everything they could to help, and the old Ding was very hardworking. Personality, business is getting more and more prosperous.

When I was happy that day, I asked the old Ding for the question that had been lingering in my heart for a long time: "Why do you apologize forever? Even if someone else is wrong, you have to apologize?" Lao Ding smiled and told me: "These Things are trivial things, and my apology will not hurt my principle and dignity. Any conflict will make the two parties feel unhappy, everyone is not happy, things will move in a worse direction. I apologize I bear all the faults and responsibilities. It’s just that I am alone. Isn’t the other person happy? This eliminates the hidden dangers of the situation and makes others happy. It is the best result.”

At this moment, I suddenly realized that the person who always apologizes in front of him is not weak and timid, but has great wisdom. A person who can make people feel happy around, how can he live a happy life?