No natural life, then make money

I read an article many years ago. The title is probably "I worked hard for 18 years before I sat down with you to drink coffee." The article said that children in rural areas struggled for a long time to pass the most common people in many cities. life. At that time, I was very touched by the article. A few years later, someone turned over this article and slammed it, saying that it was disease-free and artificial.

Recently, I also saw an article from the Internet, "It is not the distance, the gap that defeats us." When people are at home, they can send him to a famous university, but they can only nest in a small town. When you take the change that you have worked hard, ask the classmates to change to the whole ticket. They ask questions and ask what you do. When I look at the money, I disappear into the ticket window, the bar counter, and disappear into the tourist attraction of 10 yuan a bottle of mineral water. I must also smile and pretend not to feel bad. When he was going to go to his city, he wanted to go abroad, and he couldn't wait to ask him what to do. He said coldly when he said "When you go out together." When they are gradually drifting away from each other, even the back of the other party can't be caught. Forgive me, I am too tired and tired. Forgive me, I can't keep up with his steps. Forgive me, I used to love him with immature, helpless, humble youth.

I lamented, thinking of Chai Jing in "Seeing": Only those who have experienced the boundless darkness are qualified to say that I understand you.

Yes, for those happy children who have never experienced life and helplessness, we are indeed disease-free and artificial.

I don't watch anime, but there is a classic line in "Gintama" saying: Unlike the wealthy young masters, we are doing our best when we are alive.

I think this is a very good statement.

I have seen a lot of children from rich families. Every one is different. Of course, I will not be partial. But I always remember that I taught a child a tutor many years ago. He is a good boy. He is too fond of playing, and he does not put his mind on learning. One time, he asked his father to buy a new electronic product, which is very expensive, but his father started the company, very rich, and bought it without saying anything. But because he didn't want the color, his father changed the color, obviously the same style, but he was angry, angry, loud and noisy, and finally shut himself in the room refused to come out, how to ask parents No.

If this is not something I have seen with my own eyes, I must not believe it.

I always remember that the first sentence he got was not "thank you daddy" or "dad is good", but he blamed the question: "How is it yellow, I am not letting you buy black?"

His mother has always praised my good grades and self-control. She said that her children are smart and smart, that is, they don't have to work. I lament. If I have such a rich father, I will give me so many pocket money every month. I will never eat and wear when I am young. If there is anything, I will not think about it. If I want to do it, I will play games all day.

If you have a little bit of interest, maybe I will choose to pursue myself. But I am not sure that I will give up such a comfortable life and pursue myself. Have such a life, what else do you want?

If that's the case, I don't have to be like this. The first thing to do is to find an absolutely stable job, to help students with loans, to make money, and to support their parents.

Who said that I didn't want to live the life I wanted? I want, too. I also want to be a writer, I want to write what I want to write, I want to have a good love, I want to do a lot of public welfare. But I can't, can't do it now. I have to have a steady income. I have to take good care of my parents. I have to save money to support them. I have to make a lot of money and then consider the life I want.

I think the difference between us is that many years ago, when we also found that we like writing and mathematics is not good, you feel indifferent, writing with one heart and pursuing self; and I am desperately trying to do math problems, and then I went to a good high school. Good university, find a good job. After many years, you have become a columnist as you wish. I am forced to find a job that I can barely make a living. I go home from work every day to read some books, write some articles, and publish them to my only friends. I can support myself. On the basis of feeding my family, I have only a little bit of literary dreams.

Young Master, I am sorry, I can't pursue myself as you said, I have to make money to support my family, I have to work hard. I know this is easy for you, but it doesn't mean that I am making things. You have never experienced the darkness I have experienced. You can't understand me. I can understand you.

I recently read a sentence. If you haven’t thought about what to do or if you don’t want to waste time when you are young, either try to earn more money, or try to read more books and want to let yourself More freedom, both are essential.

I think this can be changed a bit: young you, if you are not a young master of rich people, if you are as burdensome as raising a family, I have to make more money first, whether you have a big dream or not. Make a lot of money. With money and a stable life, we are qualified to pursue others, including the so-called life we ​​want.