Fate is controlled by oneself

Dear students,

Hello everyone! The title of my speech is: "I am not a card."

Everyone must have experience in playing poker. There are four suits for each deck of poker. Every card is in our hands, and their fate is also in it. Even the "big king" and "small king" can't control their own destiny.

Sometimes, I also wondered if our life is also a game. Are each of us like a game of fate in the hands of others? Looking back on the growth of more than a decade, at home, to be affected by parents Control, sometimes even screaming; in school, subject to discipline, teacher's guidance; growing up to participate in work is subject to the constraints of the social environment, and can not do what you want by your own will. At the age of eleven, in the childhood, it is a glorious season full of sunshine. However, when you take this train yourself, you often feel involuntarily.

Take the exam, let’s take it, parents will treat you as a baby, and the hope for you will be bigger! Morning milk, evening coffee, it seems that milk and coffee can make an ordinary person into a talent. Even a worm can become a dragon or a phoenix! When the teachers mention you, they often have a proud tone, and there will be a gratifying smile on their faces. If you touch your neighbors, you will not be enough. Not finished. It’s really a side-by-side look at you’s good fortune, looking at your future with a lot of looks; you are a personal talent on the left and you are a pillar on the right. And when you pay for sweat and hard work, but there is no gain? Parents only say a little softly: "It is your only choice to take the university!" But you sound so heavy and depressed; the teacher will not What to say, just stare at you with a look of anticipation, keep staring at you and guilty; left neighbors? They are just in the moment of passing you, using one to make himself Explain the unclear look of you, that look is enough to make your original sad heart bitter!

We are happy with others, and we are worried about others. In this way, you and I have really become a playing card, a playing card that others are kneading and letting others play with? - There is no self-assertion, no desire, and no self-esteem. In this way, I can't get rid of the domination and choice of others in my life.

Is this really true?

No! I said to myself in my heart: We are not a poker card!

After all, poker has no thinking, and we are a group of living people with advanced thinking skills! I should have a life different from poker! My own history is written by myself, my youth is created by myself, my own The world is on its own! Instead of losing yourself in the same way as a card!

thank you all!