Don't get lost in the "success story"

No matter who you are, you want to succeed; no matter who you are, you want to find the best way to achieve success. As a result, some so-called classic "story" will appear on the scene. However, afterwards, some people felt that they were deceived when they frequently hit the South Wall. "The 'story' has changed to 'accident'".

There is a child who reads a small country. Although it is very clever to speak and do things on a regular basis, it can be learned without paying attention. Therefore, the academic performance is inevitably affected, and one time he has failed the exam. In this regard, the child's parents do not agree, still very confident, confident children with high IQ, will definitely catch up later. Because of laissez-faire, lack of communication with the school, lack of strict education and correct guidance for children, the child's performance has become an inevitable trend. People can't help but ask: What is the confidence of this parent? Is it just because of "high IQ?" After understanding, it turned out that he had heard the "story" of Einstein's childhood.

As everyone knows, this legendary story is the product of rumors. The real situation is: Einstein had excellent academic performance in the last hour, not an inferior student later considered. The reason why this statement is popular is because everyone likes this kind of story. When you are young, you can't learn well. When you grow up, you can also achieve great achievements. But what many parents are "disappointed" is that Einstein began to self-learn calculus when he was 12 years old.

It's no wonder that people of insight are outspoken: "Don't be obsessed with looking for experience from the biographies of successful people. Most of these books are carefully packaged, and many important facts won't tell you. Gates' book won't tell you that his parents are IBM directors, they are the first big business for their son; Buffett’s book will only tell you that he knows to visit the New York Stock Exchange when he is 8 years old, but will not tell you that his father of Congress is taking him, by Goldman Sachs. The directors received the reception. "Yes, when people listen to the "story" that is not neglected after many key details have been deliberately ignored, there may be an "accident" - because people listen to it, "I think that the road that I will take afterwards must be It is correct. Even if the encounter fails, it is a temporary confusion. You firmly believe that you will eventually win." Is this not a mistake?

The success of a person is the result of the interaction of many subjective and objective conditions, such as basic conditions, opportunity hopes, family background, and talent experience. It is impossible for successful people to re-copy themselves, and public opinion will be able to replicate success. What really replicates success is self-understanding, self-sufficiency, and self-effort.

The University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom conducted a survey of experts who have graduated from the school and won the Nobel Prize. The results show that they are not geniuses. They have worked diligently in the middle school and successfully passed to Cambridge. Most of the university days are also immersed in academic work and have excellent grades. After work, Some devote themselves to scientific research, some combine scientific research with business, but they are still basically conscientious, delving into research, and eventually going to glory, fame and fortune. The survey of successful people in a well-known magazine in the United States also shows that among the more than a dozen success factors such as talent, wisdom, opportunity, ability, diligence, fighting spirit and perseverance, the first place is diligence.

Don't trust other people's "story" easily, don't believe in cleverness, don't believe in cleverness and take shortcuts, just care about your own judgment, care about diligence, perseverance, etc. - "The theory is after thousands of years of argumentation, you I think you are an exception, this possibility is very small."