Grow, need independence

Once, I heard a thing at the door of a school: a mother handed a bag of food and a paper bag to her daughter and said, "This is what you love, and just the shoes you just brushed." The daughter also handed the mother a pack of things and said, "There is a dirty clothes inside, its buttons are gone, don't forget to nail it after washing." I wonder, what is this society? Is it true that both parents? Become a child's servant? Can't children grow up independently?

In the hearts of children, parents are like a wall that never collapses. However, no one will always be a child, and no one will always stand under the roof of the family. Stepping into life, leaving the parents' harbor and leaving the help of relatives and friends is the road to growth in life. We must learn to be independent.

Life needs independence. We don't have adulthood yet. We don't need to go to work to support ourselves. But our most basic independent ability is that we can take care of ourselves, manage our own pocket money, do our own things, cook our own food, and so on. When you are an adult, you must know how to be self-reliant and support yourself. There is a saying in the society: "The parents who really know how to educate their children are not the wealth of the family, but the spiritual wealth of independence and self-improvement." Mr. Stanley, the president of one of the 500 major companies in the United States, is the world's giant. Fu, he let the children know how to manage money, how to make money, how to treat money, and tell the children that the hard earned money is the most precious, to learn to be independent.

Learning needs independence. Many students today do not regard learning as their own business. They often have parents to supervise and blame to learn. Some people blame their parents are not college students, they take it for granted, but in fact, learning depends on themselves. It is true that ancient and modern Chinese and foreign "family" is not uncommon, the daughter of Madame Curie is a scientist and a Nobel laureate; the three Soviet Unions are "eight people in the Tang and Song Dynasties"... They have been inspired by their parents since childhood, so that they are The interest in the subject is one of the reasons for their success. The father of Chinese mathematician Zhang Guanghou is an illiterate miner with a poor family. However, Zhang Guanghou has been striving for self-improvement in the difficult times. He has worked hard on his own efforts and made outstanding achievements in mathematics research. It can be seen that their success is not based on parental inheritance, but on their own efforts. As the saying goes: "The master leads the door and practices in the individual." Parents and teachers give us directions and point out the learning methods. They can't accompany us all the time. It is up to ourselves to learn and study.

Work needs to be independent. As the saying goes: "Relying on parents at home, relying on friends outside." But this sentence has not been applied in the current society. Today's society needs competition, it needs real materials, and it needs DIY talents. Those who "walk the back door" have no place. In order to be independent in work, we must know how to find a job, rely on our own strength to step up, be good at showing our talents in front of the leadership, not lamenting our talents, fulfilling our tasks independently, solving difficulties independently, courageously trying and so on. As Hugo said: "I would rather rely on my own strength to open my future, rather than seeking strong people to pay attention." I believe "I am my own master!" Yang Hao went to apply for CCTV moderator when he was a senior. In the face of such a strong hand, she resolutely said to the judge: "Whether you choose not to choose me, but I must show myself today." She did indeed, and as a result, she defeated many strong players and got what they wanted. Su Shi, a famous essayist in the Song Dynasty, once took 22 articles he wrote meticulously to the Hanlin Bachelor Ouyang Xiu. He was appreciative of Ouyang Xiu and recommended it to the court.

I remember that there is a saying in Latin American countries: "Self-reliance is better than the hand of God." The growth of a person cannot be separated from the upbringing of parents, the nurture of society, and the teaching of teachers. However, these are external factors, and learning to be independent is the key. A person attaches importance to independence and strict requirements in a favorable condition, in order to reach the other side of success!