Everything is fine, even if I lost the college entrance examination

I will have a college entrance examination tomorrow.

This year, I have a niece to take the college entrance examination. A few days ago, I called her: Don't be nervous, do it yourself. But in this case, it is estimated that she listened too much, not necessarily in her heart.

Before the college entrance examination, there were so many comments and comments, and there were many suggestions for treating the college entrance examination with normality. However, the nervous person is still nervous, not nervous, either winning the game, or winning or losing. The children who smashed the book and decompressed, in the confetti scattered in the sky, faintly able to see their anxious eyes, and barely exposed smiles. Who said no, how can they easily get up with too many expectations?

But what I said to my niece is sincere, because it comes from my life experience.

I am a college entrance examination, and the highest level of education in the unit file is still high school graduation. After taking the college entrance examination in 1992, after the fall of Sun Mountain, I did not choose to come again. Later, I was very puzzled. I didn’t even have such a plan at the time. I felt that I couldn’t take it if I couldn’t take it. However, whether it can be online, it is often bottomed out before the exam. If the score is high, as long as the exam is not abnormal, there is no problem. The score gap is too big. It is impossible to expect supernormal play, and I belong to the latter one. Because the partial science is too powerful, I don't expect it. As a person who has not lost the first test, the college entrance examination has no win or lose.

I almost forgot about the process of taking the college entrance examination. I only remember that there was heavy rain that summer, and we drove to the examination room in a key high school in the city. At noon, many people went out to eat restaurants or buy fast food. When I had a good meal and walked back to the examination room, I saw the best girl in the class, sitting on the slate on the campus playground, holding the hoe in one hand and holding it in the mouth, holding the book in one hand and staring at the eyes. She looked up and looked at me. Seeing that she seems to be under-sleeping and mentally awkward, I feel mixed and feel like we are two world people.

Although I have had countless delusions about the life after the college entrance examination, I did not expect that the college entrance examination will continue to affect my life in a tangible or intangible way. Because I didn't go to college, I went to college for two years at my own expense. Because my education is not officially recognized, I can only find a way out, and I am going to climb in factories, advertising companies, and trading companies. On many nights later, I did regret it occasionally, why didn't I attach importance to the college entrance examination.

However, because the college entrance examination is not on the list, I don't have to continue reading textbooks that I don't like, but I have no choice but to sneak into my hobbies and read a few years of books. Also because the college entrance examination fell, I experienced the ups and downs of life and quickly matured. Moreover, because the college entrance examination is out of the list, I can not take the usual path and arrive at the ideal in my own way.

Today, when I was sitting at the computer and writing this article, I should also thank myself for falling out of the list. Otherwise, what will I be after I go to college? I may have lost my hobby because I have been in college for a few years, and may become another one. That I am not happy, this is probably something, but I am sure that I am doing very well now. The female student of Shantou was later admitted to a key university with the first place in the class. She has been working in the bank since she graduated. This may be a stable career for many people. But to be honest, I feel that my life is full of frustration and change, and it is also very exciting.

Life is like this, because it is not complicated and fuller, but also more interesting because of its contingency. The college entrance examination is just a site on the journey of life, not the end of success. Pass through it, maybe you will go on a bright road. Bypassing it, maybe you will find another oasis. Winning the college entrance examination is like winning a ball, and the loser still has the opportunity to change venues to continue to participate in the competition.

This is not to devalue the college entrance examination and the role of college, but to say that for individuals, the key is how to find and position the value of life in their own way. If you feel good, then everything is fine, even if you lose the college entrance examination.