Don't cut trees in winter

I have heard of a story. Father cut off a dead tree in the winter. In the spring, he was surprised to find a new circle of green on the stump. So the father said to the child: At the time, I really thought that the tree was dead, the leaves were not left, and the bare branches continued to rise and fall. It is now known that its seemingly dead torso still contains vitality. Children, don't forget this lesson, don't cut trees in the winter. For things in adversity, never draw negative conclusions in advance. Wait patiently, winter will pass, spring will come.

Seeing spring in winter is a kind of wisdom, but this wisdom is often ignored by us. The deforestation suffered in life is always common, and it has been from our childhood. If there is a mistake, the parents will be angry: you will not have a lifetime in your life; if the grades are not good, the teacher will blame: you are stupid, there will be nothing... these simple and arbitrary negations will invisibly kill the children. The innate talents, let the children who have great potential lose their vitality too early, and fall in the shadow of inferiority. This is the same as cutting down a tree in winter.

When Carnegie was a child, he was recognized as a very naughty bad boy. When he was 9 years old, his father broke his stepmother into the house. They were poor families living in the Virginia countryside and the stepmothers were from better families. When his father introduced Carnegie to her, he said, "Dear, I hope you pay attention to the worst boy in the county. He can make me a headache. Maybe I will throw stones at you before tomorrow morning, or do it. What's wrong with the farewell, in general, you can't prevent it." What happened to Carnegie was that the stepmother smiled and walked up to him, held up his head and looked at him, then looked at her husband and said, "You are wrong, he is not The worst boy in the county, but the boy who is the smartest, but has not found a place to vent their enthusiasm.” Stephan said that Carnegie’s heart was hot, and the tears almost rolled down. With her words, he and his stepmother began to build friendship. It is this sentence that has become a driving force for him, so that he will create 28 golden rules of success in the future, helping thousands of ordinary people to embark on the bright road of success and prosperity. Because no one praised him before she came.

Therefore, the most brutal injury is the harm to one's self-confidence. The greatest help is to give people the trust and praise that can support the sail of life. No matter how "bad" your child is now, you must encourage your children, and be good at encouraging children, fully establish their self-confidence, and be faithful in the long river of life, down-to-earth, your child will definitely step Into the palace of success.