Do something big, don’t face

What is the face? We have never been a shame, we can tear it off and throw it on the ground, licking a few feet, going away, disdain. ——Yan Jiehe

Only a shameless person will become a successful person. —— Ren Zhengfei

Sticking to mistakes for face is the most faceless thing. ——巍巍

The face is the face of a person. The Chinese especially love face. Some people even think that face is more important than life. As the saying goes, "People fight for a sigh of relief, and Buddha fights for a scent."

Face not only affects people's consumption patterns, but also affects people's social interactions and even determines one's destiny.

In history, there are many heroes who love face, such as Wu Song in The Water Margin. He is a person who loves face.

After Wu Song read the notice, he knew that there was a tiger on the mountain. He wanted to turn back to the hotel, but he boasted of Haikou because of his own upstairs, and he was forced to go up the mountain. Wu Song himself did not expect that he could kill the tiger, and he was famous for playing the tiger.

There are also many people who have lost their lives in China for their face. The most typical one is Xiang Yu, who died on the edge of the Wujiang River. After the defeat, he felt that "there was no such thing as seeing Jiangdong's father and old man", so he died.

Of course, there are also "love" faces, and even "don't care" face.

Yan Jiehe, chairman of the Board of Directors of the former Pacific Group, once said something controversial. He said: What is the face? We have never been a shame, we can tear it off and throw it on the ground, licking a few feet, going away, disdain.

He believes that he does not take himself seriously, does not face his face, and regards his face as nothingness. This is the demeanor that a person who really does something big should have. Although his words are biased and sharp, the biggest problem facing enterprises in the early stage of their business is the face problem.

Everyone knows that Shi Yuzhu, Yu Minhong, Yan Jiehe, and Chen Tianqiao are super rich, but no one knows how these entrepreneurs become super rich. No one knows what they paid for on the road to becoming a super rich. What kind of effort has been made, and how many humiliations and pains that others cannot bear can be endured.

How many people are willing to pay the same price as they do, and get the same wealth as they do today?

Yu Minhong, the president of New Oriental, has suffered from the face. Lu Yuegang, a reporter of China Youth Daily, has recorded in detail the experience of Yu Minhong’s entrepreneurship in his book "Oriental Carriage - The Legend from Peking University to New Oriental". The story of Yu Minhong’s entrepreneurial experience has been read and still sheds tears.

The book describes Yu Minhong’s drunkenness. The incident stems from an incident in which an employee of New Oriental was stabbed by a competitor with a knife. In order to deal with this matter, Yu Minhong asked a police friend he just met and asked him to ask a political commissar of the Interpol Brigade to "sit on a seat."

Because Yu Minhong can't talk, he only drinks alcohol. Because his heart is not calm, he doesn't eat food, drink and drink, Yu Minhong loses consciousness and drills down to the bottom of the table.

The teacher and the police sent him to the hospital for two and a half hours to survive. The doctor said that if you change the average person and drink it like this, you will not come back. On that day, Yu Minhong drank a bottle of half the height of Wuliangye and almost died.

The first sentence he woke up and shouted was: "I don't do it!" The school man took his way back home. For more than an hour, he cried and shouted: "I don't do it." ! - Never do it again! - Turn off the school! - Turn off the school! - I won't do it!"

He kept shouting, shouting that the people around him were worried, crying enough, shouting tired, falling asleep, woke up, and the wine woke up. There was still a class at 7 pm, and as usual, he went to school with a bag.

The tears in the corners of the eyes are still there, but the things that can be done can't be done. According to Yu Minhong's own words, don't run a school, why not?

Yu Minhong also has a squatting thing, which is also well known in New Oriental School. His mother disregarded the opposition of all the people who took Yu Minhong's brother-in-law to work in New Oriental, first to manage the canteen finance, and then to manage the issuing department.

For some reason, some people moved the office equipment of Yu Minhong’s brother-in-law, and Yu’s mother was furious and yelled at the school. The headmaster of the New Oriental School, the "Godfather" of Chinese students studying in the United States, in front of everyone, "plop" to the mother.

Wang Qiang, who witnessed the incident, recalled afterwards: "We are looking forward to Yu Minhong being able to walk away from the mother, but he has left, and suddenly let me collapse! Humanity has collapsed, dignity has collapsed, and it is very painful."

When an outsider sees such a scene and feels "collapsed" and feels "very painful", then what is the feeling of Yu Minhong as a party and a squatter?

Yu Minhong still has many legendary experiences. I really want to say it. In his words, I can say it for several years.

In fact, face is the first obstacle in life. A wise person will never do the "death to face and live to suffer". If you love your face too much, you will lose your chance. If you look too heavy, it will be difficult to make a big deal.

If you want to do something big, you can't look too heavy. Those who succeeded in getting rich in the early days of reform and opening up just took the vanity mask and embarked on the road to success.

There are a large number of rich people who have made their fortunes from the "broken king" and "smelly cobbler". Those who dare to be "broken kings" and dare to be "smelly cobblers" have their own views on life that are not common to ordinary people. Values.

Physical torture is nothing, spiritual torture is fatal. If you are interested in starting your own business, you must first ask yourself in your heart. In the face of physical and mental torture, do you have such a kind of humiliation? "Quality" and "mental power."

Sometimes, taking care of your face may lead to nothing. Many returnees, government officials, and well-educated people have a low chance of success at startups because they are too face-to-face and too good.

We must be a pragmatic practitioner, and we must come up with the courage to do things that are shameless and not afraid of losing face.

The so-called shamelessness is not to take yourself seriously. This society does not want your face. This society wants your wisdom and ability to see your actual achievements. Come out, success, only have a face, otherwise no one will care about your face, your face.

Sometimes people don't force it, because people themselves are inert. When faced with many challenges, pressures and difficulties, they must have a mentality of getting out of their minds. They regard career as a revolution and they are revolutionaries.

Don't think about the future victory of the revolution. In the future, it will be the chairman or the general. You have to put your head on the waistband and think that the danger of dying at any time can make the difficulties in front of you. The cause is constantly overcoming. The problem has been developed.

What is the face? Face is an excuse for people to evade certain responsibilities. What support does the face rely on? If the problem of adequate food and clothing can not be solved, what is the use of face? As long as you don't break the law, it is not shameful to make a fortune at any time.

In the end, the problem of face is actually a matter of people's concept. As long as you work diligently and formally, there is nothing to worry about. Faces are so small in the face of entrepreneurial ideals, so there is no need to make a fuss.

As the saying goes: "Death to face the face of sin." If you don't want to live a crime, you must let go of your thoughts and do your best to do things. As long as you have a goal and a firm stand, you can go to the success of entrepreneurship.

If the cause is not good, then the gorgeous face is also empty, and the fact has the most say. Therefore, entrepreneurs should let go of their concerns, put aside the following, and boldly move forward.

It is a rare event, the market is cruel, and entrepreneurship is facing unprecedented challenges. How to improve your own temperament, open your face and take the courage to do your own business is a problem that every entrepreneur must seriously consider.

Action is the best testimony. Putting it down, the more it is frustrated, the more brilliant it is ahead of you.