New Oriental Yu Minhong's motivational speech for college students

New Oriental Yu Minhong's motivational speech for college students

It is a shameful thing for a college student to depend on his parents to support after graduation.
Q: I graduated from the Experimental Class of Chinese Studies at Wuhan University. This is a very, very cold major. Although I like this major very much, the problem I am facing now is that I can't find a job in this major.
A: Your problem now is that you are interested in Chinese studies, but you need a skill to support yourself. My advice to you is that if you insist on this professional hobby, if you can’t find a job, you must have An additional skill that can find a job. If you are studying English and your English is good, you can be an English teacher. When the English teacher is a relatively profitable career, you can also It is enough to support your study of Chinese studies. After graduating from college, the first thing is to work. I call it employment first, then choose a career, and then start a business. First employment, is to find a job first, I think it is a shameful thing for a college student to rely on his parents to support after graduation. The so-called career choice is what I want to do, to do things for a lifetime, when your career is done. To a certain extent, for example, you have done accounting. Finally, you feel that I am going to open an accounting firm myself. This will become your career. If you do a good job in career and career, unemployment will never be found. you.
Those who have taken a few things to shoot on the scene must be people who are not measured and minded.
Q: Many people choose to continue going back to school because they have not found a job. Do you think this is appropriate?
A: He is an escape. Going back to study should be such a state. If you really want to go back to school, you should have found your job and found your professional knowledge and comprehensive ability at work. Continue to go back to school.
After entering the society, everyone must learn to exercise their strong psychological endurance. A pile of flour is placed on the chopping board. When you take a shot with your hands, the pile of flour will be scattered. This is the psychological endurance of some of us now. You give him some water, you can't necessarily scatter it, but it's still a bunch of very soft flour. If you keep licking it, it will become a dough in the end, you use it. Hand in it, it is also constant, this becomes a ramen, and people's ability to withstand this state must be achieved in order to fight in society. Those who take a few things to shoot on the case must be unmeasured and mindless. people.
For you, if you find a job once rejected, you will not find it. Can you find a second job? Can't find it, a student from New Oriental went to the US Embassy to go to the visa. After signing it three times, it was rejected. I told him that the Americans still allowed you to go to the fourth time. He said that I was allowed to go to the fourth time. I said that you are allowed to go to the fourth time, but you must have a mentality, that is, in the face of failure, you have to be demeanor, this is the winner, and as a result, when he started from the fourth time, he was very graceful. Courtesy, but was refused. After being refused, he said, "Thank you sirsee you next time." Finally, the eighth time, I finally gave her a visa. This student asked why you gave me this visa? The US visa officer said "Because I never never wanna see you again."
He knows that this person is too tenacious, and that things that persist, often have more possibilities for success, and persistence is power.
Every student in college is going to do four things. The first is to learn the necessary knowledge, the second is to learn to make good friends, and the third is to experience love if possible. Prepare for future employment. Nowadays, Chinese college students, there are a lot of people who can't find a job after graduation. I will give you a suggestion. No matter what, you have to work first, even if you clean first, after all, you start working, start working, you There is a foundation to start moving forward.
When a person falls ten times, he is no longer willing to get up. He will always fail, but even if he falls 10,000 times, he will continue to stand up and walk forward once and for ten thousand times. Now, I have to climb and climb forward. This is called success.
The person who took the sly and jumped out of the most beautiful dance asked: What is the most dissatisfied with our undergraduate students?
A: What I am most annoyed is that some people complain that this society is so unfair to him. Others’ fathers are ministers. I want to find any jobs. I don’t have them. Others’ fathers are billionaires who can live without work. Very good, but I am penniless...
The origin of people is not allowed by you, but the focus of human life is chosen by you. Life is not a hundred meters race. People run for a lifetime, running for sixty, seventy, eighty, or even It’s a hundred years, so I don’t care at all. Now you have more money, less money, you have social status, I don’t have social status, and the hundreds of people on the Forbes list, I have investigated, sixty or seventy percent. From the countryside, from a penniless family, if you complain that you can't find a job, no one cares about you, you feel that this society is very dark, very cold, very ruthless, wrong is definitely in you, not in this society, anyone As long as the society and others are regarded as their own enemies, as a source of misfortunes in life, such people, your life will not be happy, and will not succeed. There is no problem in this society, there must be no society. There is nothing wrong with it. I call these social problems in your bondage. It is your fault. When you enter this society, someone will not be able to go with you. You just want to go. In the crowd, there will be various social traditions, social customs, social laws, human relations, social relations, and intrigue between people... limiting you and succeeding in it. People, I call him a person who can jump out of the most beautiful dance with a shackle and bondage.
The thickness of the underlying determines the height of your future life. Nowadays, the humanities and literature of college students are relatively small. Nowadays, college students are too quick to make a fuss. They only read "Poor Dad and Rich Dad" and want to get rich quickly. There is a saying called "inclusion." The thickness determines the height of your future life." This thickness is definitely not a good reading of "Poor Dad Rich Dad". You should read Rousseau's "History of Western Philosophy", Zhu Guangqian's "Western Aesthetic History" and even books. Back to the Tang poetry and Song poetry are all good for improving the thickness of your life. On the surface, reading these books may have nothing to do with what you do in the future, but she laid the foundation for your person and laid the foundation for you. The thickness of the person lays out how much room you have to play later.
The successful nine-character scriptures: have goals, calm down, and quietly.
Q: What kind of mentality should a college student who is about to graduate face the success or failure of his first job?
A: When facing the first job, you should not think about success or failure. Instead, you should think about how I can go all out to do the job well. After you have gone all out, you will succeed and show you. It is appropriate to do this. If you go all out, it is normal to fail. Because you have no work experience, maybe this job is not suitable for you. It is the most important thing to do when you first do your job. Mentality.
Lu Guanqiu, a well-known entrepreneur in China, is a purely peasant-born entrepreneur. Among his generation of entrepreneurs, he is almost the only company that has run in the 1930s and 1940s. A reporter asked him. Why are you doing so successfully? He said nine words, had goals, calmed down, and quietly. He puts a person to do things, to make a successful mentality and method, and to use all these nine words. After you have the goal, you will know that "going" must be the happiness of achieving the goal, and "retreating" must be a failure. Pain, what is the most important sign after a person has a goal? His firm belief in achieving this goal must be internalized. He turned this goal into a part of his life, so when I found out that a person was desperately shouting about what he was going to do, I almost I can immediately judge that this person can't do it. Among them, "staying in the air" includes three "has", called "being convinced, passionate, and patient." This "quietly doing" means not impetuous, not arrogant, not Rendering everywhere, you are rendering everywhere, it’s hard to get things done everywhere.
Most of our current generation of college students are only children. When faced with the test of not finding a job, there will be a lot of feelings of loss. I want to tell you a few points. The first one is the hardship to make yourself, the second. It is gains and losses. When you lose something, you must get another thing. I often say that career can let you know the hardships of life. Losing love can let you know the preciousness of your feelings!
Chasing the philosophy of life behind a girl When I was in college, did I ever see a girl I like? I have seen it, but I never chased a girl when I was in college. Why? I dare not, I thought of going to chase a girl, I will think of myself first, look at me like this, long ugly, but also a rural family, the results are not good, the Mandarin is not good, If I go to chase, 100% is rejected. Since I was rejected, this face is gone. What am I going to chase her? So at the university, I can only be single-hearted, and I have no chance at the end, but then I realized that you are going to tell any girl you love her, even if you are a beggar, the girl will be happy, you want I know that it is always better to love her more than one person. If he loves you, is it another matter? Even if you go after ten times, she still doesn't want you, it doesn't matter, I ask you a question. : Before she chased her, did she belong to you? She doesn't belong to you. After chasing her, she didn't promise you. Did you lose anything? You have not lost anything, right? But what if she promised? Frankly speaking, your gains are not limited to this. First, in the face of what you want to pursue, you learn to give up your face, you dare to pursue, and second, after being rejected, you can be brave. Going to chase, you have a tenacious will, third, when you feel that the other party will not fall in love with you anyway, you give up, you get more, you have the courage to give up.
After changing to work after the age of 30, it has troubled many of us now. Why do we work hard every day? Because the work itself is not a goal, some people end up turning the work itself into a salary that they can get every month. I am going to finish my task every day for eight hours, even if it is finished. If your life also loses its goal, having a goal means that there is a dream in my heart. I want to realize it. There is a concept here. Everyone has to grasp it. The concept is what you want to do in your life. This is very important. Confucius said that he was thirty. If you lived to be thirty, you still don't know what you are going to do. When you are 30 years old, you still have to change jobs. It is troublesome.
I especially believe in one sentence, called "'because' is your own choice, 'fruit' is something you can't choose." Any great thing, you assign it to every day of the day, it's a very small thing, even a very boring thing. Day after day, you carry a bag to go to class, day after day, you deal with New Oriental. The trivial things of the internal staff, this is what you need to have a strong realism to make. The difference between greatness and ordinary people is that an ordinary person lives a trivial life every day. He piles up trivial things, or a bunch of trivial lives. The so-called great people are passing a bunch of trivial things through a great goal every day. Accumulated and finally became a great cause.
What people are most afraid of is where to go wherever they are. I have two friends in the United States who are studying architecture. At that time, they faced two difficulties. One was that the work was difficult to find because the American renovated building was completely finished. The salary is very low after finding a job. It is 30,000 US dollars a year to work in an architectural firm. In the past few years, the world’s computers have risen. Everyone who studies computers can get 800 to 100,000 US dollars. One of them, transferred to the computer, waited until his computer was finished, just happened to run into the collapse of the American computer bubble, and he could not find a job. The classmate who studied architecture also graduated. He returned to China and is now in China. It was an era of architectural design, so he quickly became the main designer. Now his annual salary plus bonus is about 1.5 million yuan. If you say that you are tempted by some kind of temptation from the outside world, sometimes your loss is even greater.
The story of salmon I think it is more appropriate to express six words in life, manager, experience, and sublimation.
When I was in Canada, it happened to be the season for salmon to return. The return of salmon is every four years. Why should I return? It has to go back to spawn and reproduce. After the salmon lay eggs, the fish eggs are hidden under the stones. These eggs will be eaten by other fish in the river. When they become small fish, they will be taken by others. The fish eat a part, in the lake, they have to grow for a year. In the middle of this one-year process, they are escaping from the sky, the fish in the water, and the people by the lake are constantly salvaging, so every four salmon, only There is one left. One year later, these salmones began to swim to the sea. They had to travel around the Pacific Ocean for almost three years. In the past three years, their experience has been even more difficult. There are more fierce fish in the ocean, plus a lot of human fishing. So after four years, they will return to the estuary of the river. The ten fish that swim out each time, the remaining one is not there.
What is truly spectacular is that when they reach the estuary and return to the spawning ground, the river is very urgent. They have to go to the upper reaches desperately. When they swim, they can’t stop to eat anything. There is only one way. Twenty-four hours to the upper reaches, because they just came back with the river, and when they swam to their destination, they became red, because all their physical energy was consumed. At the time, the salmon began to fertilize and lay eggs, and both fish died after they had finished their sperm production.
Their life course has brought us shock. It is precisely because of this four-year life cycle that it is because of this sense of mission that their sacrifice touched humanity.
Sometimes, our lives are not as good as a fish, because most people, only one place in their lives, live in a habit, live under the imprisonment of a mind, without any innovation, no creativity, no Any kind of dynamics that motivate one's life and the state of life that touches you. If we have students who can't find a job, you can't find a job is a lucky thing, because you started the real life. Drive the sweet and bitter experience. When you find a job in the future, you will know how hard the job is and how much it is worth cherishing.
There are two kinds of lifestyles like living like grass and living like a tree. The first one is living like grass. Although you are alive, you still grow every year, but you are a grass after all, you absorb the quotes. Sunshine, but not long, people can step on you, but people will not suffer because of your pain, people will not pity you because you are stepped on, because people have not seen you, so Every one of us should grow like a tree, even if we don't have anything now, but as long as you plant the seeds of the eucalyptus, even if you are stepped on the dirt, you can still absorb the nutrients of the soil and grow up, maybe two years and three years. Years are not long, but in eight years, ten years, twenty years, you will be able to grow into a towering tree. When you grow into a towering tree, people can see you in the distant places, come close to you, you can Give people a green, a shade, you can help others, even if people leave you, look back, you are still a beautiful landscape on the horizon, trees, living is a beautiful scenery, dead is still Wood beams, the living dead are used, this is the standard of our life each student standards and growth.
The opportunity behind cleaning the bathroom I have to interview hundreds of undergraduates every year. Frankly speaking, most people are low-minded and can't wait to be the general manager. They will give him a job with the highest salary in the world.
Sometimes, I will try it. I said, "Classmates, all the work you want, I have nothing, but I have two bathrooms that are not cleaned. Would you like to do it?" There is almost no student saying Then I will sweep it. In fact, when he refused to clean the two bathrooms, he lost a very big opportunity. I let a college graduate clean the two toilets. It is obviously a test for you. You are When cleaning the bathroom, I will definitely pay attention to your every move. When you really clean the two bathrooms, do you think, can I let you clean the bathroom for a lifetime? At least I will increase your salary. I will let you clean the two bathrooms. When you clean the four bathrooms, I will definitely not let you clean the eight bathrooms. I will consider whether to put all the logistics personnel in the bathroom. I manage it for you. Didn't you become a manager naturally? When you manage the cleaning of the people in the bathroom, the whole company's environment becomes pleasing because of your management. You think, I don't mention you to the position of logistics director. Who do I mention? If you kill it very vigorously, very good, I will not send you to Harvard University to go to the MBA. Who do I send? When I sent you to the Harvard MBA to finish reading, you come back, you are not the president of New Oriental, who is it?
I was very embarrassed when I first started New Oriental. Why? Wearing a broken army coat, I went to the Peking University campus to post advertisements. As a result, after the students saw me, what kind of misery is it? And myself, I used to wear a suit and suit, and I walked into the classroom to teach the North University students. However, I have never experienced such a pass. I have no entrepreneurial mentality. I will not put the face of Peking University teachers. Take it off.
Things you can't stand, but you have to put up with it, and you can't bear the most important ability to succeed in our future life. It's called the ability to bear the burden, the things you can't stand, but you have to endure and can't stand it. Success, when our own life wants to fight for a great goal, you must rule out all the trivial interference in your life. You conceive a scene. If you are rolled on a bicycle by the road, you rise. Counterattack, the result is that your nose bones have been interrupted, and finally lie in the hospital for a month, your life has been wiped out by the hospital for a month, but if it is said, this is a small matter, I have more important what do you tell him I'm sorry to put you block the way, then the other side rude, he can beat you? Can you beat you? He will immediately say that I am not good, I am sorry, so a little thing in life will be solved. Han Xin is because of the pants of others, and finally helped Liu Bang to lay the world, you have to know In this world, you can only develop with humiliation and weight. You have to fight for time, fight for space, fight for the future, and fight for time and space. The most important prerequisite for the future is that you have ideals, but you dare to endure everything that appears in your life. Unfairness or everything you think you can't stand.
The spirit of water I have a metaphor. Each river has its own different life curve. Every river has its own dream, that is, it is going to the sea. When we encounter difficulties, whether it is rushing past or going around, As long as we can pass, I hope that everyone can make their lives flow to their dreams. Like the Yellow River in the Yangtze River, they can flow to the end of their dreams, enter the vast ocean, and open their own careers, but it is not to say If you want to flow, you can flow past. In fact, there must be a spirit in it. This is the spirit of water. Sometimes our life will be sediment, even though you follow the water, but because of your personality defects. Faced with difficult legs or timidity, you may slowly think like sediment, and settle down. Once you have settled down, maybe you don't have to work hard to move forward, but you never see it. The sun is shining, the sand on it will keep pressing you, and finally you will be dark, so I will advise everyone, no matter what your life is like, one If you have the spirit of water, you can wash yourself even if you are polluted. Continue to continue your strength like water, and constantly break through obstacles. When you find that the time is not enough, accumulate your own thickness, one day. When the time comes, you will be able to make your own life.
To be successful, I have to self-restraint. I learned skiing five years ago. I started to fall on a snowy road. Later I found out that I had to learn to stop. There are two kinds of suspensions for skiing. When the snowy road reaches a certain slope, the eight-character stop method does not work. It must be stopped side by side with two skis. I used a whole week to train specifically. When I found out that I had stopped When I was doing very well, I took the skiing board directly to the senior road. I have a friend who thinks you can go on me. This ski trail is on the hillside and on the other side is the cliff. As a result, his two The foot is torn open, and the ligament is completely broken. Whenever you have a huge temptation in front of you, if you feel that you can’t stop, you should never chase it because you chase it. It must be you who will not fall to the end.
Three-quarters of the happiness and happiness in my life. When I was walking to the Yellow River, I poured a bottle of water. Everyone knows that the water in the Yellow River is particularly embarrassing. Later I put it on the side of the road. There is probably one. About an hour later, I was very surprised to find that three-quarters of a bottle of water has become very clear, and only a quarter of it is sedimented, let us compare the water part of this bottle of water to ours. Happiness and happiness, and comparing the muddy sand to our pain, you will understand that when you shake it, your life is full of turbidity, that is, full of pain and trouble, but when you calm your heart After that, although the total amount of sediment has not decreased at all, it is deposited in your heart. Because your heart is quiet, it will never be stirred up again, so three-quarters of your life will be It is happiness and happiness.

There are two ways people live.
The first way is to live like grass,
Although you are alive, you are still growing every year.
But you are a grass after all,
You absorb the rain and the sun,
But it doesn't grow long.
People can step on you,
But people will not suffer because of your pain;
People don't pity you because you are stepped on.
Because people themselves don't see you.
So each of us,
Should grow like a tree,
Even if we don’t have anything now,
But as long as you have the seeds of the tree,
Even if you are stepped into the middle of the dirt,
You can still absorb the nutrients of the soil,
Grow up yourself.
When you grow into a towering tree,
People can see you in faraway places;
Approaching you, you can give people a green color.
Living is a beautiful scenery,
Death is still the pillar of talent,
It’s useful to be alive and dead.
This is the standard and growth standard for each of our classmates.
Each river has its own different life curve.
But every river has its own dreams.
That is to go to the sea.
Our lives,
Sometimes it will be sediment.
You may slowly be like sand,
The precipitation went down.
Once you have settled down,
Maybe you don't have to work hard to move forward.
But you never see the sun.
So I suggest everyone,
No matter what your life is like,
Be sure to have the spirit of water.
Keep your strength constantly like water,
Constantly break through the obstacles.
When you find that the time is not enough,
Accumulate your own thickness,
When the time comes, one day,
You will be able to rush into the sea,
Make your own life. When you are a grass on the horizon, what reason do you want others to see you in a distant place? Even if you approach you, others may not look at you, or even accidentally step on your grass under your feet. When you want others to pay attention, you have to become a big tree on the horizon. Man can be turned from grass to tree, because the human mind is the seed. If your mind is the seed of grass, you will always be a grass that has been trampled. If your mind is the seed of a tree, even if you are stepped on the soil, as long as your mind is the seed of a tree, you will grow into a towering tree one day sooner or later. Whether you are a poplar or a pine, people can see you growing up on the horizon in faraway places. When people pass by you, you can send them a green, cool, they can rest under the tree. Therefore, the requirement of being a man is that you must first become a big tree on the horizon. When you are grass, you have no reason to let others focus on you. And if you become a tree, even in a faraway place, others will see you and appreciate you. In the distance, you are a landscape, and after death, it is a pillar.

Life is a river, and it must be kept flowing forever. The river has two kinds of ingredients, one is sediment and the other is water. I hope that all people will not turn themselves into sediment and become sediment. Your life will settle and life will be stagnant forever. If you are water, then It will inevitably flow to the sea. In fact, every river has its own dream, that is, it flows to the sea. If you become a sand, then you will settle down from it, you will never see the sun, and you will not see the most glorious moments in your life.