Inspirational speech by parents of parents at the parent meeting

Inspirational speech by parents of parents at the parent meeting

Dear teachers, parents and friends, everyone!

I received some invitation from the class teacher Cao to let me speak at the parent meeting. On the one hand, I was a little excited. On the one hand, I was a little nervous. I was excited because I felt that my son and I were parents and students. I was recognized by the teacher. I was upset because I felt Our efforts are not enough. I don't have typical experience. My son has no outstanding performance. Many parents and classmates do better than us. But I am still willing to speak, because I often discuss the ideas of the godson with my friends, and I also get a lot of good revelations from my friends. The exchanges of parents are very meaningful. I am right now to take the opportunity to introduce jade. In terms of educating children, I have mainly made the following two efforts.

First, maintain close communication and communication with children

1. The importance of communication and communication is as follows: Only by constant communication can we know what the child is paying attention to, what his views are, and how he feels. “What to focus on” reflects the child’s interest. “How does the perception reflect the child’s value orientation? How does “feeling” reflect the child’s emotions? If we understand this in time, we can provide targeted guidance. Education is about timing, so close communication is especially important. To what extent is it close? Every day, you can ask about your child's situation at school, such as the situation of the teacher's class, the situation with the classmates, the second class activities of the school, the test situation, and so on.

2. The benefits of communication and communication. Let me give an example. When my child was in the middle of the country, I met a physics teacher who had just stepped onto the stage and a language teacher who had just taken the senior graduating class. Many students did not adapt to the teachings of these two teachers and reflected it to parents. Some parents were already unable to hold their breath and asked the school to change teachers. My son and I made an exchange about the situation of these two teachers. We agreed on the following aspects: The physics teacher is a new teacher. His shortcoming is that the lectures are fast, and the class is not very organized according to the cognitive characteristics of the students. However, the physics teacher must be a high-skilled science student. His physical literacy is not to be picky. As a new teacher, his enthusiasm and enthusiasm are also no doubt. If you have these two points, you will not delay the students' study and respond to the shortage of teachers' classroom teaching. Students can make up for it by pre-study and class to concentrate on listening. The language teacher is a relatively mature teacher. For the junior middle school students, his shortcomings are that the classroom is unremarkable, the passion is not enough, and some students go to sleep in class. But we must see that teachers who have taught high school to teach the country, do not have to worry about language knowledge and ability. After entering middle school, students should vigorously cultivate their self-learning ability, and can not just expect teachers to create vivid classrooms. We also analyzed that the reasons for classmates to doze off include that there are several language classes in the first quarter of the afternoon, and some students did not rest well at noon, so that they were tired of class. I told my son that every teacher is a treasure. The clever students are good at excavating from the teacher's shining point. The lazy children can't see the teacher's brilliance and don't bother to dig. It is difficult for such children to make great progress. In that volatility about changing teachers, my child always stood on the side of the teacher in private. He thought that the two teachers were good and didn't need to change. I spent so much time talking about this example, not to discuss whether to change teachers, but to show that I let the children form an independent learning spirit and a self-seeking learning attitude through this matter, that is, learning Mainly relying on oneself, can not all count on the teacher, while picking the teacher, students should reflect on their learning attitudes and methods. Formed an independent learning spirit and a self-seeking learning attitude, the child can adapt well no matter what teacher he meets. The educational opportunity and the achievement of this education come from timely communication with the children.

3. Communication and communication skills. Some parents may feel that it is difficult to communicate with their children. I think this question should be asked from the parents. In order to communicate effectively with my child, I am committed to creating a good communication model.

First of all, my communication with my children is equal and two-way. Children have their own opinions about things, I have my opinion, and we are not exactly the same. When discussing the problem, I always let my son say it first and let him know. If the son said it makes sense, I will fully respect and encourage him. If I feel that the child's point of view needs to be corrected, then I will calmly and truthfully tell the truth. Maybe I can't convince him at the same time. Then I have to prepare some lessons and find some newspapers, TV, and relevant information on the Internet to inspire him. . I always remind myself not to lean on the old and sell old in front of my son, forcing him to accept my opinion, because all opinions must be internalized into the child's own will, then it will become a driving force. As it turns out, sometimes I am wrong. At this time, I didn't feel embarrassed, but sighed in front of my son that "the perfection of human beings is endless," or told him that "life is endless, learning is not limited." To suggest that children: people need to constantly go out. Misunderstandings can be used to the best. This is also an education.

Second, all my advice to my son stood in his position and made it in good faith. There is only one possibility that a child is unwilling to accept the opinions of his parents. He thinks that you don't understand. If you don't understand him, you can't help him. We must eliminate the child's doubts, and indeed we must show our true feelings, come up with wisdom, and show sincerity so that the children are willing to listen to our opinions and are willing to try our suggestions. If the child learns to regress, we just ask him how to do it. It will only arouse rebellion and have no positive effect. The appropriate approach should be to comfort him, help him analyze the reasons, and jointly develop measures to make up. If the child is in love, we are just ridiculing, which will cause a gap and let the child go further. The appropriate approach is to analyze the causes of the child's emptiness and loneliness, fill it with family, take the task of learning to disperse, and take the high ideal to sublimate. For the specific subjects of children, I think many parents and friends are like me. The middle school curriculum has been almost forgotten. It is difficult to give tutors to the children themselves. This is not a taboo, tell the child clearly, don't expect parents to give him a homework, which may enhance the child's self-consciousness. However, not knowing the specific knowledge does not mean that you cannot guide the method. In fact, method guidance is a more important guide than knowledge. I pay more attention to guiding children to choose extra-curricular readings with strong ideological and inspirational enthusiasm. I hope that he can open the spirit in the reading evaluation, cultivate the aesthetic perception ability, and sculpt the harmonious and good heart. Sometimes, I see a well-inspired famous saying that will be copied and sent to him. For example, if his son feels hard to learn, I will give him a message from Mr. Xiong Shili: "For learning, hard work, and fun. Only if you are true to scholars, you can forget their hardships and know how to be happy." Encourage him. Overcome slackness and work hard. If I find that my son has done his best, but he is upset because he has not achieved his own goals, I will send him another sentence: "The pyramid's spire can only stand a few people, even turning around is difficult, and the ground is indeed strong. The broad, turning or casually moving opportunities are more." To ease his nervousness. When my son was suspicious of his IQ and his confidence in learning declined, I gave him another sentence: "Intelligence is not the most important. It is more important than intelligence. It is more important than the will. It is more important than morality." "The chest and the ambition." Once my son told me that he wanted to engage in scientific research for life. I was very much in favor of it. He sent him a sentence: "The mediocre scientist pursues success, the first-class scientist pursues the truth." Encourage him to make some discoveries. A scientist who has a vision. I think that according to different situations, it is much better for children to take advantage of the situation.

Second, create a learning family, and make progress together with children

Children love not to learn, can they calm down and learn, and have a relationship with the family atmosphere. There are too many people in the family and the environment is noisy, which may interfere with the children. Although the family population is small, the atmosphere is indifferent, and the children will feel depressed. The family does not study except the children, and may also make the children confused because the parents have read. When the book comes out, it only knows how to eat, drink, and play. What is the significance of his hard work reading? Therefore, to let children read well, we must work hard to create a learning family.

The first is good learning conditions. As parents, especially in front of children, we have to control the Internet, control TV, less phone porridge, less playing cards. In our home, the time to watch TV is generally limited to dinner. By 7 o'clock, the dinner was finished, the fitness went out, the study entered the room, and the home was quiet. We don't open tables at any time. The son did not have a mobile phone, and the fixed telephone in his room was also withdrawn shortly to ensure his son’s learning was free from external interference. The child's schedule is also very regular. I get up at 6:30 in the morning to eat at 7:00, go to school at 12:30, go out at 1:50, go to dinner at 6:30, start self-study at 7:00, and go to bed at 11:00 at the latest. In order for the child to have good nutrition, I personally arrange for him three meals a day. In the study materials, we never spend money, as long as he needs, we buy immediately. My son is going to the book city more than four times a year. Some time ago, my son hoped to add a few more newspapers outside the Xiaoxiang Morning News. We discussed together and set up the China Youth Daily and the 21st Century English Newspaper. I told my son that long-term talent depends on yourself, logistics service, and Mom and Dad hope to make you 100% satisfied.

It is important to point out that we create good learning conditions for our children. We cannot think that we have made sacrifices and what the children owe us. Once, the child's father blamed his son for learning. He said: Your mother gets up at 6 o'clock every morning to make breakfast for you. You don't worry about reading, can you afford her? I immediately declared to my son: Even if your grades are very poor, I am willing to make breakfast for you. My mother cares that you are not expecting you to return with high scores. I say so, I don’t want my son to pack. Learning should be the constant development of interest, learning for anything else, or sooner or later will lead to the decline of learning interest.

The second is to lead by example and to be a child in learning. As the saying goes, teaching is not as good as teaching. If we urge our children to learn all day and do nothing, then our teaching is powerless. Not only can we not provide spiritual nutrition to our children, nor can we provide a suitable reference for our children, and it may also cause our children to look down on us. On this issue, my husband and I basically did not disappoint the child. My husband's job is scientific research. Although his research results can't be said to let his son admire, those papers written in English at least let the son know what the scientific research is all about. Although I am doing administrative work, I have been studying and doing research since my son went to school. Although I have not made great achievements, I have shown that I can often exchange ideas with my son. In this way, when our family of three is at home, they become all reading and writing in their own room.

Teachers, parents and friends, I often feel that the process of educating children is actually the process of self-education of our parents. We are growing up with our children. In this sense, we are not educating children, but walking with them. Road, feel their vitality, vitality, share their experiences with them, and share the highest happiness that our affection brings us.

Finally, I would like to thank Mr. Cao for giving me the opportunity to speak. Thank you for listening patiently to me for so long. Thanks to all the teachers in the school for their hard work and wishing everyone who cares about their children a happy New Year!