Yu Minhong's inspirational speech: living like a tree

Every student in college is going to do four things. The first is to learn the necessary knowledge, the second is to learn to make good friends, and the third is to experience love if possible. Prepare for future employment. Nowadays, Chinese college students can't find a lot of jobs after graduation. I will give you a suggestion. No matter what, you have to work first, even if you can clean the health first. After all, you start working and start working. You will With the foundation to start moving forward.

For you, if you find a job once rejected, you will not find it. Can you find a second job? If you can't find it, there is a student from New Oriental who went to the US Embassy to apply for a visa. After signing three times, it was rejected. I told him that the Americans still allowed you to go to the fourth time. He said that I was allowed to go to the fourth time. I said that you are allowed to go to the fourth time, but you must have a mentality, that is, face Failure, you have to be handsome, this is the winner. As a result, when he started from the fourth time, he was very polite and polite, but he was rejected. After he was rejected, he said "Thank you sir see you next time" and finally gave it to the eighth time. A visa, this student asks why you gave me this visa? This US visa officer said "Because I never never want see you again."

He knows that this person is too persevering, and that things that persist in it are often more likely to succeed, and persistence is power. When a person falls ten times, he will never want to get up again. He will never fail, but even if he falls 10,000 times, he will continue to stand up and walk forward once and for ten thousand times. I climbed and crawled forward, which is called success.

What I am most annoyed is that some people complain that this society is so unfair to him. Others’ fathers are ministers. I want to find any jobs. I don’t have them. Others’ fathers are billionaires. They can live without work. Ok, I am penniless...

The birth of human beings is not allowed by you, but the focus of human life is chosen by you. Life is not a hundred-meter race. People run for a lifetime, running for sixty, seventy, eighty, or even One hundred years, so I don't care at all that you have more money, less money, you have social status, I don't have social status, and the hundreds of people on the Forbes list, I have investigated, 60% from 70%. In the countryside, come to your own penniless family. If you complain that you can't find a job, no one cares about you. You think this society is very dark, very cold, very ruthless, wrong is definitely in you, not in this society, anyone, as long as Regarding society and others as their own enemies, as a source of misfortune in life, such people, your life will not be happy, and will not succeed. Is there any problem in this society? There must be no society. I am wrong, I call all these social problems like those who can bind you to the most beautiful dance.

The thickness of the underlying determines the height of your future life.

Nowadays, college students' knowledge of humanities is relatively small. Nowadays, college students are too eager to make a fortune. They only read "Poor Dad and Rich Dad" and want to get rich quickly. There is a saying that "the thickness of the foundation determines your future life." "The height" and this thickness is definitely not to read "Poor Dad Rich Dad" can read thick, you have to read Rousseau's "History of Western Philosophy", Zhu Guangqian's "Western Aesthetic History" books, and even recite the Tang Book, with you There may be no relationship in the future, but she laid the foundation for your person, laid the thickness of your person, and laid out the room for your future. Successful long-term scriptures: have goals, calm down, and quietly. What kind of mentality should a college student who is about to graduate face the success or failure of his first job? When facing the first job, you should not think about success or failure, but think about how I can go all out to do this. After you have done your best, you have succeeded. It shows that you are doing a good job. If you go all out, it is normal to fail. Because you have no work experience, maybe this job is not suitable. You do, just care about the harvest, is the most important mentality when doing the first job.

Lu Guanqiu, a well-known entrepreneur in China, is a purely peasant-born entrepreneur. Among his generation of entrepreneurs, he is almost the only company that has run in the 1930s and 1940s. A reporter asked him. Why are you so successful? He said nine words, have goals, stay calm, and quietly. He puts a person to do things, to make a successful mentality and method, and to use all these nine words. After you have the goal, you will know that "going" must be the happiness of achieving the goal, and "retreating" must be a failure. Pain, what is the most important sign after a person has a goal? His firm belief in achieving this goal must be internalized. He turned this goal into a part of his life, so when I found out that one is desperate When the land is shouting about what I want to do, I can judge almost immediately that this person can't do it. Among them, "staying in the air" includes three "having", called "being convinced, passionate, and patient." This "quietly doing" is to say, "not impetuous, not unassuming, not rendering." You are everywhere to render, it is very difficult to do things everywhere.

Most of our current generation of college students are only children. When faced with the test of not finding a job, there will be a lot of sense of loss in my heart. I want to tell you a few points. The first one is suffering and making yourself, second. One is gains and losses. When you lose something, another thing must be obtained. I often say that career can let you know the hardships of life. Losing love can let you know the preciousness of your feelings!

Chasing the philosophy of life behind a girl

When I was in college, did I ever see a girl I like? I have seen it, but I never chased a girl when I was in college. Why? I didn’t dare, I thought of chasing a girl. I will think of myself first, look at me like this, long and ugly, but also a rural family, the results are not good, the Mandarin is not good, if I go chasing, 100% being Refused, since it was rejected, this face is gone, what am I going to chase her? So I can only be single-hearted at the university, and I have no chance at the end, but later I understand that you are going to tell any girl. You love her, even if you are a beggar, the girl will be happy when you listen. You have to know that it is better to love her more than one person. If she loves you, it is another matter, even if you go after After ten times, she still doesn't want you, it doesn't matter, I ask you a question: Is she yours before chasing her? She doesn't belong to you, after chasing her, she finally didn't promise you, you lost something. Are you not losing anything, right? ? But in case she promised to do? Frankly, you gain not only that, first, the face of the object you want to pursue, you learn to give up their face, you dare to pursue the. Second, after being rejected, you can bravely chase, and you have the will to be persevering. Third, when you feel that the other party can't fall in love with you anyway, you give up, you gain more, and you have the courage to give up.

I especially believe in a sentence, called "'because' is your choice, 'fruit' is something you can't choose yourself." Any great thing, you assign it to every day of the day, it is very Small things, even boring things, day after day, you carry a bag to go to class, day after day, you deal with the trivial things of the employees inside New Oriental, which requires a strong realism spirit to make. The difference between greatness and ordinary people is that an ordinary person lives a trivial life every day. He piles up trivial things and is still a bunch of trivial lives. The so-called great people are accumulating a bunch of trivial things through a great goal every day, and finally become a great cause.

Cleaning the opportunities behind the bathroom

I have to interview hundreds of undergraduates every year. Frankly speaking, most people are low-minded, and they want to be the general manager when they come up. They will give him one of the highest wages in the world.

Sometimes, I will try it. I said, "Classmates, all the work you want is gone, but I have two bathrooms that are not cleaned. Would you like to do it?" There is almost no student saying that I sweep it. In fact, when he refused to clean the two bathrooms, he lost a very big opportunity. I asked a college graduate to clean the two toilets. It is obviously a test for you. You are cleaning the bathroom. At the time, I will definitely pay attention to your every move. When you really clean the two bathrooms, do you think, can I let you clean the bathroom for a lifetime? At least I will increase your salary, I will let you clean the two bathrooms. When you clean the four bathrooms, I will definitely not let you clean the eight bathrooms. I will consider whether to manage all the logistics personnel who clean the bathroom. You are not a natural manager. When you manage the clean-up of the people in the bathroom, the whole company's environment becomes pleasing because of your management. You think, I don't refer you to the position of logistics director. On, who am I to raise water? If you are doing very vigorous and vigorous, very good, I will not send you to Harvard University to go to the MBA. Who will I send? When I sent you to Harvard University MBA, you are back, you Not the president of New Oriental, who is it?

When I first started to run New Oriental, it was very difficult. Why? Wearing a broken coat and going to the Peking University campus to advertise, what a tragic look? And myself, I used to wear a suit and a style. I went to the classroom to teach the North University students. However, I have never experienced such a pass. I have no entrepreneurial mentality. I will not take away the face of Peking University teachers.

Things you can't stand, but you have to put up with it, and you can't bear the most important ability to succeed in our future life. It's called the ability to bear the burden, the things you can't stand, but you have to endure and can't stand it. When our own life wants to fight for a great goal, you must eliminate all the trivial interference in your life. You envision a scene. If you are rolled on a bicycle on the road, you will fight back. As a result, your nose bones were interrupted. Finally, I was lying in the hospital for a month. Your life was wiped out by the hospital for a month, but if it is said, this is a small matter, and I have more important things. it, you tell him I'm sorry to put you block the way, then the other side outrageous, he can beat you? you can beat it? he'll talk about my bad, sorry, so the life of a The trivial matter was solved. Han Xin was the one who helped Liu Bang to the world because he was drilling the pants of the people. You must know that in this world, you can only bear the burden of humiliation. You have to fight for their time and for the future, and the time and space for the most important prerequisite is that you have a future ideal, but you dare endures all things that appear unfair to you or what you think things can not stand.

Spirit of water

I have a metaphor. Each river has its own different life curve. Every river has its own dream. It is to go to the sea. When we encounter difficulties, whether it is rushing or going around, as long as we can In the past, I hope that everyone can make their lives flow to their dreams. Like the Yellow River in the Yangtze River, they can flow to the end of their dreams, enter the vast ocean, and broaden their careers, but it does not mean that you want to flow. Can flow past, in fact, there must be a spirit inside, this is the spirit of water, our life will sometimes be sediment, although you also flow forward like water, but due to your personality defects, face difficulties When you step back or say timidity, you may slowly want to settle down like a sediment. Once you have settled down, maybe the sediment above will keep you pressed, and finally you will be dark, so I will recommend Everyone, no matter what your life is like, you must have the spirit of water. If you are polluted, you can wash yourself and continue to continue like water. Forces continue to break through the barriers, when you can not find the time when his own thickness of accumulated, when one day the opportunity comes, you will be able to gallop into the sea his life achievements.

There are two ways people live:

The first way is to live like a grass. Although you are alive, you still grow every year, but after all, you are a grass. You absorb the rain and the sun, but it doesn't grow. People can step on you, but people don't suffer because of your pain;

People don't pity you because you are stepped on, because people don't see you. So each of us should grow like a tree, even if we don't have anything now, but as long as you have the seeds of the tree, even if you are stepped into the middle of the earth, you can still absorb the nutrients of the soil and grow up. When you grow into a towering tree, people can see you in a distant place; when you approach you, you can give people a green color. Living is a beautiful scenery, and it is still a pillar of death. It is useful to live and die.

This is the standard and growth standard for each of our classmates. Each river has its own different life curves, but each river has its own dream, which is to go to the sea. Our lives, sometimes they will be sediments, and you may slowly settle down like sand. Once you have settled down, maybe you will no longer work hard to move forward, but you will never see the sun. So I suggest that no matter what your life is like, you must have the spirit of water. Constantly accumulate your own strength like water, and constantly break through obstacles. When you find that the time is not enough, accumulate your own thickness. When the time comes, you will be able to rush into the sea and achieve your own life. When you are a grass on the horizon, do you have any reason to ask others to see you in a distant place? Even if you approach you, others may not look at you, or even accidentally put you here. The grass is stepping on the foot. When you want others to pay attention, you must become a big tree on the horizon. People can be turned from grass to tree, because the human mind is the seed. If your heart is the seed of grass, you are a grass that will always be trampled. If your mind is the seed of a tree, even if you are stepped on the earth, as long as your mind has been the seed of the tree, you will one day become a towering tree. Whether you are a poplar or a pine, people can see you growing up on the horizon in faraway places. When people pass by you, you can send them a green, cool, they can rest under the tree. Therefore, the requirement of being a man is that you must first become a big tree on the horizon. When you are grass, you have no reason to let others focus on you. And if you become a big tree, even in a faraway place, others will see you and appreciate you. In the distance, you are a landscape, and after death, it is a pillar.

Life is a river, and it must be kept flowing forever. The river has two kinds of ingredients, one is sediment and the other is water. I hope that all people will not turn themselves into sediment and become sediment. Your life will settle and life will be stagnant forever. If you are water, then It will inevitably flow to the sea. In fact, every river has its own dream, that is, it flows to the sea. If you become a sand, then you will settle down from it, you will never see the sun again, and you will never see the most glorious moment in your life.