How parents show their interest in listening to children

Only when parents show interest in listening, will the child have the interest to say what he is saying. So, when the child speaks, how should the parents encourage the child to continue to speak?

Parents can express their interest in listening through their eyes.

When the child says something about himself, the parents should squint at them with great curiosity and interest, and convey your interest and pleasure in a white light. Never look around. Or the eyes are gazing at the surrounding things.

Parents can express their interest in listening through language

In the process of listening to the child's conversation, parents can use simple things like "Great!" Is that true? "I am the same as you think!" The idea is too good, please continue to say! "I can't believe it!" and so on to express your interest.

In addition, parents' interest in children's conversations can also be conveyed in the form of conversations, and participation in children's topics is more conducive to guiding children. In fact, parents can't stay in the simple listening to the children to tell the story and thoughts of some things, but also help the children solve the problems in the matter.

Of course, parents should not use their mouths to give guidance to their children. The best way is to let the children analyze and judge themselves, and the parents still play the role of a listener.

Parents can express their interest in listening with expressions

Maybe you will find out. No matter how simple the child's topic is. If you want to express a gesture of interest, then interest will naturally arise. If you are always sullen, don't say a word, a casual look will make your child very disappointed. Therefore, when communicating with children, when parents feel inconvenient to express in words, they can use expressions to reflect their interests. For example; keep smiling. And often look surprised. The child is most surprised, and he is "stunned" with the words of an adult. They want to see the adults express a surprised expression on what they said. Can scare the adults, indicating that they are very capable.

Parents can achieve information transfer and achieve successful parent-child interaction through the integration of three expressions: tone change, body posture change and facial muscle movement.

In addition, verbal expressions include the tone of the voice, the speed of speech, the rhythm, and so on. The father should overcome the following problems when communicating with the child: the tone is too high, the voice is weak, and the voice is rough.