Support the dream with great persistence

Who has no original dream? Everyone is asked by the elders to grow up when they are young, and we will say a few careers that I think are great, some want to be police officers, some want to be scientists, and even some people. I want to be an alien. Although it is strange, after all, full of confidence. When we are asked about our dreams in adulthood, we may fall into thinking, because the dreams of the moment have been forgotten, and we have to do a career that we don’t like very much in order to maintain our livelihood. How many people have not realized their dreams until retirement? How many young people are in the workplace, and they are stunned? How many people are confused before graduation, until they find confusion after work for many years?

I once had a fresh graduate who said to me: "Mr. Li, I feel that the ideal is so far away from reality! I want high wages and good units in reality; ideally I want to engage in low wages, but I can satisfy my wishes. Work. Actually, I don't know how to pursue the so-called good work. I don't know how to get the life I really want. I will be scared after I pursue my work. I don't like it, but I will try hard to do it. Ok, because there is a high salary that will compensate me; ideally, I am afraid that after pursuing for a long time, I realize that this ideal is not what I really want."

In this age of materialism and impetuousness, many young people will be puzzled. Do we still need to have a dream? Is Martin Luther King’s classic phrase “I have a dream” already in people’s minds? I gradually faded away until I disappeared. My answer is: Of course, I need to have a dream! Because a person who has no dreams is flying like a headless fly, has no target, and is like a grass on the wall. , fell with the wind. And those who have dreams are purposefully working and working hard. Although they are still very small, as long as they are making progress every day, they are closer to their dreams.

Dreams are a very sacred thing, and stiffness is also a very "cheap" thing, because everyone has the right to dream, and everyone's dreams can be infinitely beautiful. But the dream can't be seen, can't touch, it's hard to perceive its value and meaning before it is realized. No one will be respected because of his great dream. If you easily tell your dreams to others, you will often be Others scoff at them. In any case, it is always a good thing to have a dream in your heart, but you can’t count your dreams every day. Dreams can’t be realized by thinking alone. It depends on whether you can adapt to the life of the society as soon as possible. Think and look at the problem in a social person's mindset. Among them, growth is the most critical. No matter how cruel and cold the society is, most people can still live their lives. In the process, you may be growing a little closer to your dreams.

Do we still need to have a dream? When you can only rely on your own ability, without a parent or other support, whether it is facing this problem, or thinking about this problem and acting on it, may be painful. After all, survival first, sometimes people must give up some ideals in order to survive, while maintaining their hope of immortality is basically equivalent to doing double work, because the situation in which survival and ideals can be unified is only a case, you Basically not the lucky one. After a long double effort and waiting, when the opportunity comes, you may have to give up the height that you have worked hard before, and choose to start again for the ideal. At this time, you may hesitate, and this precious opportunity Maybe it’s fleeting...

In short, after tasting loneliness, hardship, despair, perseverance, perseverance, courage, and decisiveness, I discovered that nothing really fell from the sky, and then you were calm and happy.

Maybe you will say: One day, I have enough material foundation, I will go to dreams, do what I like, even though I have not tried whether this is suitable for myself, whether I can do what I like. My biggest potential, but I have to try it - otherwise I will feel that my life is a dry well. Although I think very thoroughly, I still have to wait for it to wait... Sometimes I am going crazy, sometimes I want to cry: Why is the dream so far away from myself? Why haven’t you embarked on the journey of dreams? Sometimes it will burst Wonderful thoughts: give up everything, go after the dream! Too naive, my own food and clothing can not solve! How should I face the present life?

If this is the case, then do a job that you don't really like but can guarantee material life, and then use the income of the job to maintain your interest. This is a smart choice, and a good way to run your work and interests, that is, work and career.

At each stage of life, there are different roles that we need to play and different responsibilities, which will greatly affect a person's career planning. Like the customer in the previous article, he finally made a choice to find a job and look after interest. Because, at this stage after graduation, he must first survive, which is more important to cultivate his own interests. But he did not give up his dreams. In his future career, he will gradually gain experience and strength, open up more space, and finally engage in his favorite career.

Dreams can be interpreted as desires, thoughts can be interpreted as actions, and dreams are the crystallization of both. You must clearly distinguish the two, that is, recognize your own development process and career goals, as the basis for choosing a career and undertaking tasks, and accumulate relevant work experience, accurately and fully utilize the relevant opportunities and resources, and guide Self-improvement and improvement. The work itself is the obligation of one person, the embodiment of a value, the pursuit of a kind of work, the improvement of the skills of a lifetime, the continuous development of a profession, and also the carrier of a dream. But in reality, I am sad to see that most people do not abandon their goals because of their slack, that is, to turn their dreams into a dream of lack of action.