Top ten promotion obstacles for honest people

Telling you about the top ten promotion obstacles for honest people <br />You are in the workplace, showing the professional and decisive professional women, the savvy and beautiful, every day, nine to five rushing to the office and the outside world, 8 hours are surrounded by busy business, complicated interpersonal relationships and the eyes and big bad feelings of big men, plus some disadvantages and obstacles of self-psychological, have you ever thought about it, if not controlled and solved in time? The strong appearance will eventually be swallowed by the inner weakness until the whole army is over.
Roadblock 1: Unwilling to reveal talent, hide career ambition, just wait for the appearance of Bole to hold this state of mind, indicating that you are a person who lacks self-confidence in his ability, has strong dependence and inertia, maybe you will silently Do a lot of work, and there are some jobs that don't attract any interest or passion for you. However, because you have this kind of mental state, you will not try hard to win the position you are interested in, and will not show your strengths and talents to your boss. I only hope that your boss will one day see you working diligently, and then discover and promote you, and before you find out that you are a capable person, all you have to do is wait and wait.
It can be seen that it is extremely stupid to passively wait for the discovery of others, especially your boss and even the boss. I don’t know how many things to consider in their minds, how many relationships to deal with, and your diligent work attitudes will not turn a blind eye. But if he is expected to understand your real needs, then it is a fantasy. So don't be too naive. The smart way is to tell your real needs in a timely manner after the boss has affirmed your professionalism. This will make him feel that you are a person who knows himself and is full of self-confidence. The key is that you get the job you really like.
Roadblock 2: I hope everyone likes myself. I care too much about the evaluation of my boss and my colleagues. If I make a mistake, I will blame Xiaoyu as the assistant of the public relations department of the foreign trade company. Perhaps because of the nature of the work, it is often necessary to deal with people from the top and bottom of the company. Xiaoyu itself is a small and cautious person. She knows the important and awesome consequences of doing interpersonal relationships in big companies, so she always pays attention to her, and she is afraid of offending colleagues or bosses and giving birth to what is happening. She is responsive to everyone, smiles, and never said "No" to the people around her. She thought that her own affairs can be regarded as seamless, but I don't know why, she gradually became an office. The most indifferent person. She was puzzled and aggrieved because she felt that she had not done anything wrong. On the contrary, because she was responsive to others, she did a lot of extra work in the invisible and took a lot of time. Until one day, a colleague who had been very good with her and told her the reason, let her suddenly realize. It turned out that because of her excessive accommodity, she felt that she was hypocritical and unbelievable.
In fact, there are quite a few women like Xiao Yu. This attitude of doing things is not smart. The consequences often lead to an embarrassing situation. In fact, in the workplace, you don't have to be embarrassed to win the favor of everyone, as long as you follow the principle of personal. To be honest, it is a wise move. On the contrary, if you introduce yourself into the whirlpool of a network, not only will your performance not improve, but whether you stay here for a long time may become a question mark. Therefore, I still put most of my energy into my job, and making achievements is the premise of the company's foothold.
Roadblock 3: As long as you work hard, you will have results, you will not sell yourself to the boss, but you will not get the rewards you deserve. Ting is engaged in corporate logo design. She works very hard. For a logo design, it is often days and nights. Soak on the workbench until finalization.
Ting is not a person who is good at expressing herself. From her own design, she can get enough satisfaction and self-affirmation. Perhaps it is for this reason that for each success, in the eyes of the boss is the result of the efforts of the entire corporate design department. And did not notice the role played by Ting as the overall design. In this way, Ting took the same salary as everyone else, but did more than a few times more pressure and hard work. She felt a kind of loss and injustice. After all, she also had to be alive and to be casual. She offered to resign, but her boss realized what it was at the moment. It’s a tacit thing to keep Ting with a high salary.
In terms of work, in addition to trying to make excellent performance, you should pay attention to letting your boss know about them. Of course, this is not to let you report anything big or small. Instead, learn to express yourself in a timely manner, because your contribution should receive the rewards you deserve, and it should be the weight that your boss should remember.
Roadblock 4: Not good at communication and cooperation, especially with male colleagues and male customers. Qi is an assistant to the customer service department of the computer company. Since there are more male and female colleagues in the company, Qi has become a popular person. Jinhua, coupled with a lively and lively personality, has become an indispensable star in the company. Therefore, a lot of right and wrong can be born, and soon some bad words will flood the office building where the computer company is located. Qi became a center of discussion. The saddest thing is that He Qi’s three-year-old boyfriend entered a cold war because of some discussions and Qi. Qi was so extremely annoyed that the idea of ​​making a career in this company was already overwhelmed, but she had no choice but to take the troops early and leave the right and wrong.
In fact, the encounter with Qi is not a special case. Women in the workplace are more or less likely to work with male colleagues and male clients. How to deal with the relationship with the opposite sex is not only related to your image in the eyes of others. It will in turn affect your mood. In fact, it is also simple. Keep your distance, but you don't lose your intimacy. Don't let men think that you are an iron-clad woman with a curved figure. Don't give people a sense of weakness. It's also crucial to stop the office as much as possible. The occurrence of love.
Roadblock 5: plunged into the infighting vortex, vying for interests in the office, not giving each other, and inevitably losing both sides is the manager of the project development of the public relations company. She and the manager of the second department are always in the opposite direction.
At one time, because of the sponsorship of a fashion show, there was a fierce competition with the East, which led to the crisis in the operation of the company. As a result, the sponsor expressed doubts about the overall cohesion of Yan Hedong’s company. Withdrawal from this project, Yan Hedong was also punished for relegation.
In fact, it is extremely unwise to carry out obvious competition under the same house. The result is often the result of both losses. For those who cannot understand or have conflicts of interest, the best way is to choose a mutually beneficial way and unite as This, avoiding contradictions, not only shows your tolerance, but also shows that you are focusing on the overall interests of the company. Remember, taking care of the overall situation is the primary quality that company decision makers appreciate.
Roadblock 6: Work as hard labor, not fun, not to sneak in the quiet is a foreign enterprise staff, the daily work is to draw up a contract, statistics on sales, and develop market operations. Usually the last person who leaves the office every day, when he returns home, he is exhausted and has no strength to make coffee. On the weekend, I just want to sleep 2å in the dark. As for leisure and going out, it is simply that the heart is not enough. Gradually, Jing found that he was a working machine. The money in the credit card rose in a few percentage points, but the wrinkles in his own eyes were also increasing at the speed of geometric index. Is this really the life that you want? Of course, the answer is no. For professional women, work is an important part, but there are still many things in life that you should read and enjoy. Don’t turn yourself into a slave to work, learn to work and rest. It is the one who will really live.

Roadblock 7: Fear of the challenge, not willing to take risks, do not like to change the gentle personality, understanding Mei is the head of a large company's business. Talking about the secret of her success, Mei Ru said: "Success requires hard work and a little risk-taking. In the past, I worked in another department, which is more than enough, and more than one. So it is very satisfying. Until one day, the company reorganized internally, the boss found me and asked if I was willing to expand a new business. At the time, I really didn’t have a bottom, but I finally got a hard scalp. So, I have this today. Of course, there is no lack of hard work and hardship in this." There is an old saying that is good: not to enter the tiger's den, to win the tiger, success requires hard work, but more courage and courage to take risks. Overcome fear, face challenges, and believe that you can do it. This is precisely the difference between a winner and a mediocre.
Roadblock 8: Negative thinking, becoming a complainant and complaining about the women who are accustomed to starting a grievance when they encounter problems, and rarely start from the reality of the problem, find their own shortcomings, and then solve it.
All the department managers of a US company have always been praised by their peers for their open-mindedness. When talking about this matter, she said without hesitation: "I used to be like this. When there is very little happiness, when I am not happy, I will complain. It seems that all the people in this world are against me. I was not happy with everything. Later I realized that complaining can't solve any problem, and only facing it with a positive attitude is the key to solving the problem."
Roadblock 9: How do people ask for it, how can I do it? It is difficult to say "no" to others. It is better to be exhausted. Many girls often do prostitutes at work. What do people say, she does what, but the result is often difficult to please. Jun worked for a large company and was responsible for filing and running banking and other chores when he started working. One colleague asked her if she could help copy hundreds of copies of the product. Jun looked at the file to be processed in his hand, hesitated, or agreed. I thought that this would not take a lot of time, but when Jun handled his work at hand, he had no time to copy it. He felt guilty and his colleagues were not satisfied. In the eyes of the boss, Jun became uncontested. The grievances are all right, but they can't take on the big yellow hair.
It can be seen that when accepting the appointment of others or superiors, it is extremely important to do what you can. Adding too much extra pressure to yourself can only be counterproductive. Do a good job in front of others. This is the beginning of success for people who are efficient and energetic.
Roadblock 10: Delays in doing things, delaying the master of time and not planning is a big bogey in the workplace. Generally speaking, women are more meticulous in doing things. But at the same time, there is a lack of high-level planning and overall planning. In addition, for some projects that I can't do, I always put aside one side. When I am at a critical juncture, I will work hard and work in a perfunctory situation. This is a lack of initiative.
In order to truly overcome this obstacle, the first step should be to recognize your own strength, and never do anything too high in your ability. Then you should consider the details in depth, make overall plans, and always remind yourself to be sharp-minded and pay attention to effectiveness.